Good day ma,

My boyfriend lives in a compound like face me I face you type. I don’t have a problem with that cos I visit him like every weekend. I notice him and his neighbors are very friendly and I am not used to that type of lifestyle and that really bothers me.

My boyfriend is a Teacher and likes to help people alot. I work in an office as HR. When we met, I was attracted to his nature of kindness. I did not mind his status,I just fell in love with how he genuinely care for people including myself.

When the relationship became serious, I started feeling that some people may want to take advantage of his kindness. For example,he coaches students for free,even though I know he should get paid for his services. People come to lie to him that they have no money and he says no problem.

This is always making him broke as he has to depend on his meager salary. But in a month,apart from his job,he coaches more than 15 students. In his compound, they share common amenities and somehow,also share assets like borrowing of cooking stove or fan or go to each other’s room for a meal.

I am not used to that type of lifestyle but I love my boyfriend so I adjust for him. Until ....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/08/24/how-do-i-convince-my-boyfriend-that-i-was-only-trying-to-protect-him/

why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

abeg leave dt young man to focus and keep helping people, his reward is in heaven..

Talk 2 Him & Open His Blind Eyes Abt Dis. Dat Could Be His Weakness.

paulolee:
abeg leave dt young man to focus and keep helping people, his reward is in heaven..

I won't give my comment unless you complete this story

First of all, this kind of fictional girl who works as a HR in a company and dating a teacher living in a face me I slap you single room where stove and even bathing soap is exchanged doesn't exist.

If you want to do fiction, do a believable fiction inugo biko

Samakus:
First of all, this kind of fictional girl who works as a HR in a company and dating a teacher living in a face me I slap you single room where stove and even bathing soap is exchanged doesn't exist.

If you want to do fiction, do a believable fiction inugo biko

u obviously haven't traveled out of ur comfort zone in ur entire life. That was the kinda neighborhood i was staying. Drop ur soap outside, someone will use it to bath or wash clothes

U forget to lock ur cupboard, ur gas/kerosene go finish b4 u return.

Talk about street life

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

seriously dude/babe?

That guy is not yet ready to be a man. U see this life, nothing is free even in Freetown

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

. Sister rozz doesn't speak ill of d male gender 4 d 1st time. If u cn just remain lyk dz, i might just come pay ur bride price

Flee from this lady Zzor.

How is she stressing his life?

The idea that that kindness always works out financially is not true. Blind kindness will not work to magically provide you Mula.

Be kind but be wise!

However, not everybody is ruled by money and if he is happy to make ends meet and save some without necessarily stressing for all that dough, allow him.

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

cooooooks:
Flee from this lady Zzor.

How is she stressing his life?

The idea that that kindness always works out financially is not true. Blind kindness will not work to magically provide you Mula.

Be kind but be wise!

However, not everybody is ruled by money and if he is happy to make ends meet and save some without necessarily stressing for all that dough, allow him.

I've seen firsthand how destructive kindness without wisdom is. It's the surest way to poverty.

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

So when will you create your OnlyFans page?

Rabbi4real:
Good day ma,

My boyfriend lives in a compound like face me I face you type. I don’t have a problem with that cos I visit him like every weekend. I notice him and his neighbors are very friendly and I am not used to that type of lifestyle and that really bothers me.

My boyfriend is a Teacher and likes to help people alot. I work in an office as HR. When we met, I was attracted to his nature of kindness. I did not mind his status,I just fell in love with how he genuinely care for people including myself.

When the relationship became serious, I started feeling that some people may want to take advantage of his kindness. For example,he coaches students for free,even though I know he should get paid for his services. People come to lie to him that they have no money and he says no problem.

This is always making him broke as he has to depend on his meager salary. But in a month,apart from his job,he coaches more than 15 students. In his compound, they share common amenities and somehow,also share assets like borrowing of cooking stove or fan or go to each other’s room for a meal.

I am not used to that type of lifestyle but I love my boyfriend so I adjust for him. Until ....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/08/24/how-do-i-convince-my-boyfriend-that-i-was-only-trying-to-protect-him/

Nne, ya boyfriend isn't ya PROPERTY na. It's his nature, free the bobo, give am breathing space. He's free spirited, and it's going to open a lot of doors for him in future. Take for instance, na person wey give me, na Im i dey give.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vb87XSmmW1E

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

She Is Not Stressing His Life. She Is Only Trying 2 Help Him Out Of His Ignorance.

rawpadgin:
u obviously haven't traveled out of ur comfort zone in ur entire life. That was the kinda neighborhood i was staying. Drop ur soap outside, someone will use it to bath or wash clothes

U forget to lock ur cupboard, ur gas/kerosene go finish b4 u return.

Talk about street life

Read my comment again. This time, very slowly. You will get the point I was making. It's extremely hard to find a Nigerian girl with a good job managing such a guy

Do you want to be given full details of op? pls think again. We do everything to protect senders of stories especially when the sender request such.

Samakus:
First of all, this kind of fictional girl who works as a HR in a company and dating a teacher living in a face me I slap you single room where stove and even bathing soap is exchanged doesn't exist.

If you want to do fiction, do a believable fiction inugo biko

with the way i am positioned; there is no way am
goin to be able to afford an android phone. Am earning o, but not enough. Its just to put
food on the table.
Am Currently using nokie5 symbian phone, one
kind man gifted me that last yr after i sold my
phone to raise money for stuffs. With the trend of new smartphone looks now;
some of you will hv old android phone u r not
using cos of the outdated look and all. Brother,
sister, i will gladly accept anyone u throw at me as
long it can do whatsapp. and i will go on to say a
heart deep prayer for you(i know u r blessed already) just to appreciate. Yes; am begging i know.

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

maybe via karma, but ghetto go suck you dry ooh

Samakus:


Read my comment again. This time, very slowly. You will get the point I was making. It's extremely hard to find a Nigerian girl with a good job managing such a guy

rare but not impossible

Thought u were saying it's a fictional story

Zzor:
why are you stressing the young man's life in the name of dating in the first place ,please leave him so he can improve his hustling.Hes kindness will bring him success sooner,he knows what he's doing.

miss.Rubbish

OscarJaden:
miss.Rubbish

where is your rubbish friend,hes hiding

Zzor:
where is your rubbish friend,hes hiding

lol..you won't die if u express likeness to mi nigga ZiniBank than attacking him on every post

OscarJaden:
lol..you won't die if u express likeness to mi nigga ZiniBank than attacking him on every post

likeness?i will slap him if I ever get the chance,he just came to insult me for a comment on a particular topic and I decided to use him to learn trolling.I have forgiven him,let him go and sin no more

mayb if u finish up the story here,u will get a decent advice

First, i feel you've been in a relationship with yourself. Second that guy is not even ready for you cuz the street life is still fully in him. Just let him go and be open you'll find the kind of man you want and that is ready. When you choose to remain in a relationship with someone who's not fully with you will be a waste of time cuz he'll still leave you at last. Don't even feel he'll change one day cuz he'll not change for you.

undeniably that ass caught my attention

Zzor:
likeness?i will slap him if I ever get the chance,he just came to insult me for a comment on a particular topic and I decided to use him to learn trolling.I have forgiven him,let him go and sin no more

say no more Zzor

Samakus:


Read my comment again. This time, very slowly. You will get the point I was making. It's extremely hard to find a Nigerian girl with a good job managing such a guy

They may not be plenty, but believe me, they exist. There's nothing I want that my husband cannot give me now. He over Pampers me. There's a reason why it is so. I used to be the provider 100 percent.

In this case, if the lady has tried to make him see reason and he's not seeing it, she should leave him alone. It means they don't share the same ideology about life. That in itself is a pointer towards incompatibility. She should let go. He has prospects to be financially independent and he's chosen to be blind to it even when someone is pointing it out. He is 'ambitionless' she should move on. He'll find his mate.

placeofallure:


They may not be plenty, but believe me, they exist. There's nothing I want that my husband cannot give me now. He over Pampers me. There's a reason why it is so. I used to be the provider 100 percent.

In this case, if the lady has tried to make him see reason and he's not seeing it, she should leave him alone. It means they don't share the same ideology about life. That in itself is a pointer towards incompatibility. She should let go. He has prospects to be financially independent and he's chosen to be blind to it even when someone is pointing it out. He is 'ambitionless' she should move on. He'll find his mate.

I couldn't agree less with the bolded

On point my dear

placeofallure:


They may not be plenty, but believe me, they exist. There's nothing I want that my husband cannot give me now. He over Pampers me. There's a reason why it is so. I used to be the provider 100 percent.

In this case, if the lady has tried to make him see reason and he's not seeing it, she should leave him alone. It means they don't share the same ideology about life. That in itself is a pointer towards incompatibility. She should let go. He has prospects to be financially independent and he's chosen to be blind to it even when someone is pointing it out. He is 'ambitionless' she should move on. He'll find his mate.