Good morning nairalanders, I'm in a state of dilemma right now.
I'll try to make the story short as possible because I know I'm posting it in the wrong section and I'm sorry for that.


Well I'm a student, and due to the fact that covid 19 has put so many things to a halt, we had to return home and I'm in my rural area now.

Things hasn't really been rosy lately as regards to money, so I thought of going out to look for a small job somewhere that could earn me money.
Hence it is a rural area,there aren't much job opportunities around so the only feasible place is at my uncle's petrol station.
The issue is, I've worked in that station before and I served well until his wife made me leave the place bitterly some years ago.
She forgot her phone @ home and came to the station claiming to have plugged it in the oil room, unfortunately I was the only one who entered that room that day to get some gallons so we could purchase diesel from another station to power our lister.

She came that evening, claiming to have plugged the phone there and that, she hadn't collected it,she got me embarrassed in public, created a scene,insulted me and threatened to lock me up in a cell for stealing her phone.
Not long after, she was called from home through her small phone that her big phone(the tab in question) has been ringing from home all through because series of persons kept dialing the number as I told them I knew nothing about the phone.

The trauma she put me through made me to leave the station and she couldn't even apologize. But now whenever she sees me, she smiles, play and greet me well.
Now I'm home,the money doesn't seem to be coming by easily that's why I am reconsidering the odds of going back there to work because I know my uncle will welcome me. He knew I was the best worker there as at then,as I was upright in my duties, he was really disappointed that I left because he wasn't around when all of those things transpired.

I know my parents would rebuke my idea of going back there,I know it's dead on arrival telling it to them but I can't deny the fact that I need some money too.
My parents suggest I go learn a skill now, I don't really know what to do so I need your advises.
Thanks
Help me tag lalasticlala to move it to front page, I really need advice.



Sorry for the long note

@kleverley
Go and learn a skill bro. It’s your doorway to total freedom. I really in the real scene of things don’t know what young lads like you Would need a lot of money for. I know things are difficult and you lack a lot of things. But in your young days you need to keep your head low with your small compensation from mom and Dad and go learn how to do something with yourself in this life. It will go a long way in helping you throughout life.
A petrol job will only fetch you cash but not any personal improvement. Determine what you’re so good in and head forward to learning it with every strength you got.

When you’re done learning a good skill, money will automatically flow into your hands as you become useful to people and provide solutions. Plus if you complement it with a BSC/HND certificate, then you have places to go

For that woman, please avoid her and her complement and greetings. She is a snake, for the fact she could not apologize and she was in haste to harrasing you without giving any benefit of doubt. Those people are toxic to your existence. Just act calm, quiet and collected anywhere around her.

guy go and huzzle for money and forget the bad Belle woman

Oga to Slap you and that your Pride dey hungry me

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga to Slap you and that your Pride dey hungry me

It's not a matter of pride, I will want to go back but my parents won't buy the idea.

That's the point

Do whatever you think is best for u.

Ur uncle has said it all. Look up to him. Go back n earn some money as its the only place for now. U can also add learning a skill to it as most filling stations work shifting, which will enable u do ur parents wish at the same time earn. Wishing u the best of luck.

stanliwise:
@kleverley
Go and learn a skill bro. It’s your doorway to total freedom. I really in the real scene of things don’t know what young lads like you Would need a lot of money for. I know things are difficult and you lack a lot of things. But in your young days you need to keep your head low with your small compensation from mom and Dad and go learn how to do something with yourself in this life. It will go a long way in helping you throughout life.
A petrol job will only fetch you cash but not any personal improvement. Determine what you’re so good in and head forward to learning it with every strength you got.

When you’re done learning a good skill, money will automatically flow into your hands as you become useful to people and provide solutions. Plus if you complement it with a BSC/HND certificate, then you have places to go

For that woman, please avoid her and her complement and greetings. She is a snake, for the fact she could not apologize and she was in haste to harrasing you without giving any benefit of doubt. Those people are toxic to your existence. Just act calm, quiet and collected anywhere around her.

Thanks a lot for this advice, they say ''never be in a rush to take the handshake of an enemy as a sign of reconciliation''.


Thanks a lot

If I must hate one thing it's False Accusations


Once beating, Twice Shy.

Be wise, abi them tie ur destiny to that Fuel station, heed to ur parents advice.

MAGG0T:
If I must hate one thing it's False Accusations


Once beating, Twice Shy.

Be wise, abi them tie ur destiny to that Fuel station, heed to ur parents advice.

Thanks a lot, it took me time to get over that issue.
My destiny ain't tied there, I'll just have to look elsewhere

JidennaJason:
Dear kleverly,


The worst thing to happen to any man nah "See Finish"

I don't know much about your current location, but going back to your uncle's petrol station is what I won't advise you to do.

Public embarrassment and false accusations are one of the leading vehicle's to trauma and suicide and you suffered that in the hands of your uncle's wife.... If she can embarrass you for a mere tab you didn't steal, don't you think she'll do more than embarrassment this second time? I guess you don't wanna make your parents start thinking unnecessarily.

Keep on searching for a job around...


I wish you well.

Thank you very much

go and learn a skill, be it plumbing, welding, carpentry, car mechanic, etc, even driving (especially of heavy duty vehicles) are all lifelong skills.

Forget going to that place abeg . Have a skill learned.

kleverley:


Thanks a lot for this advice, they say ''never be in a rush to take the handshake of an enemy as a sign of reconciliation''.


Thanks a lot

You’re welcome.
Take your parent advice on the skill acquisition and please don’t forsake your education.

stanliwise:
@kleverley
Go and learn a skill bro. It’s your doorway to total freedom. I really in the real scene of things don’t know what young lads like you Would need a lot of money for. I know things are difficult and you lack a lot of things. But in your young days you need to keep your head low with your small compensation from mom and Dad and go learn how to do something with yourself in this life. It will go a long way in helping you throughout life.
A petrol job will only fetch you cash but not any personal improvement. Determine what you’re so good in and head forward to learning it with every strength you got.

When you’re done learning a good skill, money will automatically flow into your hands as you become useful to people and provide solutions. Plus if you complement it with a BSC/HND certificate, then you have places to go

For that woman, please avoid her and her complement and greetings. She is a snake, for the fact she could not apologize and she was in haste to harrasing you without giving any benefit of doubt. Those people are toxic to your existence. Just act calm, quiet and collected anywhere around her.

@kleverley take this Advice Bro, This is the door way...you should probably be asking the appropriate skill to learn

Archtype:
@kleverley take this Advice Bro, This is the door way...you should probably be asking the appropriate skill to learn

Thanks, I appreciate

Archtype:
@kleverley take this Advice Bro, This is the door way...you should probably be asking the appropriate skill to learn

Which skill do you think is most suitable?