Oizee:
he's alright, just a teenager

i am no teenager, I am 50 and she is 27, I block her atimes to avoid her writing stinker to me but usually she finds a way to call me the next day but this time around she provoked me and I blocked her from all channels and it’s been 8 days now. I expect her to call me via normal phone call before I unblock her but she is yet to call. If I unblock her just like that it will repeat next time.

finewoman:
i am no teenager, I am 50 and she is 27, I block her atimes to avoid her writing stinker to me but usually she finds a way to call me the next day but this time around she provoked me and I blocked her from all channels and it’s been 8 days now. I expect her to call me via normal phone call before I unblock her but she is yet to call. If I unblock her just like that it will repeat next time.

I'm sorry Sir, but I was only kidding though, but u c dat gap between you two, I won't blame her but u.
Women are like that in nature and you supposed to have known that. Your maturity can't be compared to hers, but fortunately you didn't display any sign of maturity now

finewoman:
i am no teenager, I am 50 and she is 27, I block her atimes to avoid her writing stinker to me but usually she finds a way to call me the next day but this time around she provoked me and I blocked her from all channels and it’s been 8 days now. I expect her to call me via normal phone call before I unblock her but she is yet to call. If I unblock her just like that it will repeat next time.

What if she never calls? Because sometimes, both parties could choose to be stubborn and it could go on for weeks.

If she has the attitude of writing stinkers and being disrespectful, you should report her to her family so that they can caution her.

I am sure both of you will settle this issue as long as you still feel love for each other and are still committed to the marriage. All the best

[quote author=finewoman post=93677136]Honest opinions guys, my wife traveled to Belgium before the pandemic to stay with his elder brother who just lost his wife, at least to help take care of his kids until the wife is buried. SHe has been there for 5 months now because of the boarder closure, the only way we communicate is via watsap calls and Facebook messenger, one week ago she called me on video call and I refused to take her calls because I was doing a transaction with my phone at that time but I didn’t tell her my reason for rejecting her video calls, I just kept rejecting the calls, next thing she called audio and when I picked she started saying all sorts and accused me of cheating, she wrote all sorts to me and when I was typing to reply her she blocked me, after few hours she unblocked me but then I blocked her back, she called on messenger and I blocked her there too. I Blocked her from my two Whatsap’s and my Facebook as well. The only way she can reach me is via international call but she is yet to call and I have left her blocked for one week now. Am I doing the right thing? What massage could I be passing along to her with my actions? I just need a way to make her stop accusing me of cheating all the time.
Pls advice and no insults pls. [/quote
Just unblock her

It will be resolved, you are sure she is faithful where she is and she is doubting your loyalty to her

Just open all access of communication when you get to the Bridge you guys will cross

finewoman:
Honest opinions guys, my wife traveled to Belgium before the pandemic to stay with his elder brother who just lost his wife, at least to help take care of his kids until the wife is buried. SHe has been there for 5 months now because of the boarder closure, the only way we communicate is via watsap calls and Facebook messenger, one week ago she called me on video call and I refused to take her calls because I was doing a transaction with my phone at that time but I didn’t tell her my reason for rejecting her video calls, I just kept rejecting the calls, next thing she called audio and when I picked she started saying all sorts and accused me of cheating, she wrote all sorts to me and when I was typing to reply her she blocked me, after few hours she unblocked me but then I blocked her back, she called on messenger and I blocked her there too. I Blocked her from my two Whatsap’s and my Facebook as well. The only way she can reach me is via international call but she is yet to call and I have left her blocked for one week now. Am I doing the right thing? What massage could I be passing along to her with my actions? I just need a way to make her stop accusing me of cheating all the time.
Pls advice and no insults pls.

You are being childish. She's insecure and that's not how to treat insecurity. Reassure her always. Tell her you love her and mean, show it. Be thoughtful, sensitive to her.

Everybody is passing through emotional and psychological issues, dont make a mountain out of an an ant hill

Righteousness89:
Hope you are Not Confused??

When you say your wife, how do u mean? Cos you claim to be a woman..

If that is your case, What you Need is JESUS!
You need to Desist from such Wickedness..

It will lead you to Destruction!

Op @ finewoman. You hear so? Our resident Pastor has spoken.

deltateam:


You are being childish. She's insecure and that's not how to treat insecurity. Reassure her always. Tell her you love her and mean, show it. Be thoughtful, sensitive to her.

Everybody is passing through emotional and psychological issues, dont make a mountain out of an an ant hill

Nice one.

You're not doing well at all, you're handling this case with immaturity.