I'm my mother's only son and I'm about to lose my 3 years relationship because of my her. I'm hurt and really sad, I feel heat and cold all over my body like I have a fever and my heart really hurts. My girlfriend is my best friend, my confidant and only friend. She's my everything. She's the only woman I have ever being with and I can't even imagine myself with someone else. We have planned our lives together. Each time my mom and I have an issue, she threatens to end my relationship with my girlfriend. She called my girlfriend today and said a lot of hurtful things to her asking her to leave me all because I refuse to let her be in charge of my life. She feels my girlfriend is. My girlfriend is leaving me already, she said she doesn't want any mil troubles in future. Right now I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt and sad. I'm beginning to hate my mother for this. Please help, I'm losing it. I'm 25, my girlfriend is 24.

u are doing a very big mistake if u don't make ur choices cos weda ur mom makes it for u or not, u will definitely take responsibilities of ur actions someday. When that time comes, no one will like to hear u say "my mom influenced me"

Sorry

Some mum are like that..Find some elderly friend of her/Ur Pastor to talk to her..The second option is,if u have money to rent a room/mini flat,Ur best bet is to leave her house and relocate to a far place u knw she can't possible visit to disturb Ur peace) change ur GF and Ur number.Hope she nor knw Ur GF papa house sha ?.U can visit her afta 8 months.She go CALM down

Please don't hate your mum, she is only playing your emotions just like every other woman out there including your girlfriend.

Is your dad late?

Some stories wey I dey read for NL eh 2020 and my malle go dey control me..na to pack out and leave her house, after 9month I go carry pikin come...las las she go come bck to her sense.

J111333:
Please don't hate your mum, she is only playing your emotions just like every other woman out there including your girlfriend.

Is your dad late?

She's only playing with his emotion him emotion na ball...alaye leave trash for lawma jare. Make him man up and stop behaving like a baby jare.

Love me, love my dog...finito!

are u staying with her?are u employed?

Ab0bi:
She's only playing with his emotion him emotion na ball...alaye leave trash for lawma jare. Make him man up and stop behaving like a baby jare.

Love me, love my dog...finito!

Oh yes, she is.

If his dad is late or if his mum is a single parent then he needs to assume the role of a man in the home before it becomes too late.

His ability to handle the two most important women in his life will define his home.

At his age, his mum should only influence his decisions and not take them anymore.

I am an only son like him and my dad is late so I understand the situation better. At 25, my own mum had started seeing me as a man and oftentimes expected me to take certain decisions at home which I did to the best of my ability. That accelerated my maturity and even earned me more respect from mum.

His mum is going extreme though by threatening his relationship with his girl but I strongly believe that she feels she can get away with it because her son still behave like the little boy she has always known.

The faster he grows up, the faster this emotional game by momma ends and by the way, she is playing it unknowingly.

Op I have been exactly in your shoes before....

It's was just as if you were talking to me..


I sincerely feel your pain, here's what you'll do I advice you follow this.



1. Always obey your mom... They're your first Piller

2. Use Your girlfriend for rituals (I know why I'm saying this, it's important for step 3)
3. Now use the proceeds from step 2 to marry the girl your mother points


4. Now settle the girl your mom's hate her family also with proceeds from step 2.


5. Live happily ever after with proceeds from step 2 and everyone is happy.


Thank me later in few months if this helps.


You can always email me for more advice

J111333:
Oh yes, she is.

If his dad is late or if his mum is a single parent then he needs to assume the role of a man in the home before it becomes too late.

His ability to handle the two most important women in his life will define his home.

At his age, his mum should only influence his decisions and not take them anymore.

I am an only son like him and my dad is late so I understand the situation better. At 25, my own mum had started seeing me as a man and oftentimes expected me to take certain decisions at home which I did to the best of my ability. That accelerated my maturity and even earned me more respect from mum.

His mum is going extreme though by threatening his relationship with his girl but I strongly believe that she feels she can get away with it because her son still behave like the little boy she has always known.
The faster he grows up, the faster this emotional game by momma ends and by the way, she is playing it unknowingly.

Words!

Bonatheripper:
Op I have been exactly in your shoes before....

It's was just as if you were talking to me..


I sincerely feel your pain, here's what you'll do I advice you follow this.



1. Always obey your mom... They're your first Piller

2. Use Your girlfriend for rituals (I know why I'm saying this, it's important for step 3)
3. Now use the proceeds from step 2 to marry the girl your mother points


4. Now settle the girl your mom's hate her family also with proceeds from step 2.


5. Live happily ever after with proceeds from step 2 and everyone is happy.


Thank me later in few months if this helps.


You can always email me for more advice

Thanks for making me laugh real hard, I needed it.