Am going straight to the point , met this girl on Facebook , unfortunately we live in same area we arrange and met from that day we started hanging out together most times she has no boyfriend but got two guys that wanted to date her but she refused , I told I don't want relationship stuff also , at a time I got this project I started working on and I hardly had time to see her or go out like before to her she see it as if I was avoiding her

She started calling I assured her once am free I will come by but that Sunday I promised to see her I ran into an old friends we all drink and chatted about life , and I didn't make it later in the week she called me since I know am not yet free I skipped her calls then the person I was working for called me I picked and as we are discussing this girl started disturbing me with call for a whole ten minutes I was on call she was calling , after the call I blocked her number coz I see it as distraction to my work she sent me sms that since I don't take her calls that she will frustrate my work with calls and chat till I see her

In fact I got angered by this and blocked her on all social media and blacked listed her contact

Few days I got calls from unknown person asking me what is the problem with me and my girlfriend and I asked the person who please

She called her name and I told her please ma am not dating her ooh we are just friends , and the person said ok no problem since I said I wasn't dating her then there is nothing she has to ask me again and cut the call

After months I unlock her after a friend pleased with me to do so

Since then she keep threatening me that she will die if I stop talking to her

Or stop seeing her , in fact most time I am with her she will try to force herself on me which I will find a way to escape and same time make her not feel less of a person

Now I had another project am working on the project is giving me sleepless night and this girl can't understand that she is not my girlfriend and I don't love her , but keep insisting that I see her or she will fall sick and die

In fact she smokes now , she has lost extremely weight cost of the last one I stopped seeing her

I have tried to hook her up with another guy no way , she always wants to be around me ,

She said I should keep staying and comforting her till she finds someone she can love

But seriously am just feed up on this

She will tell people that all she wants is for me to be around her but once w are together she will start to throw kiss and hugging me as if am her guy

It makes me mad ,in a recent chat we had few days ago she admitted that she knows that she is forcing herself on me but I should endure till she finds another guy or the feeling dies down or else she might fall sick and die in the process

She is using death to scare everybody , infact everybody keep advising me to pretend
So that she will heal completely ,

I thought i was helping her but seriously I don't feel happy again , I just feel like I will die before her

But her dead threat is too much

Please I know she is not normal upstairs i think this has to do with mental issue than just merely feeling of loving anybody

I am been victimized here and everybody keep telling me to continue ,

Please anybody in anambra nnewi that can help me to get her to any rehabilitation center

Because for me am planning to leave town anytime from Monday just to have happiness in my life back since everybody keep forcing to do something out of my will without considering the effect it is having on me

I have turned to a mini drunker
Just to help me forget stuffs it affects my work it effects me emotionally and mentally

Please insults are welcome , but please advise is much needed

As I am typing this am bleeding in my heart

Nawa

You sure say person never help you give her love portion

Mehn, this one is strong o.

Let her end it so that you will rest.

Oga you never talk wetin you do

Lamas2012:
Oga you never talk wetin you do

If I did anything do you think I will be here asking for opinions

Stay away from Nigerian girls!

I feel you are not telling us the whole story

Your story makes absolutely no sense. You are not dating her or you never dated her and she is having so much influence on your life to the extent it's beginning to affect your work. Are you a man at all?

Your story doesn't add up. When you finally decide to tell the real story then you can get good advice. Cheers

dingbang:
Let her end it so that you will rest.

She even said that she will make sure that she leave a note or something for everybody to know she died be cause she loves me

I have tried to talk sense into her , about future or her family but she keep insisting is either me orshe die

UDUJ:
I feel you are not telling us the whole story

Your story makes absolutely no sense. You are not dating her or you never dated her and she is having so much influence on your life to the extent it's beginning to affect your work. Are you a man at all?

Your story doesn't add up. When you finally decide to tell the real story then you can get good advice. Cheers

Like what that I dumped her or what I can give you her number call her and get any info I want

silento:


She even said that she will make sure that she leave a note or something for everybody to know she died be cause she loves me

I have tried to talk sense into her , about future or her family but she keep insisting is either me orshe die

go to the police and make a formal statement then .. Then go about your normal duties

This mata tie gele ooo and wrapper oo... That one wan she dey threatened of death na lie, the more u stay close to her the more her emotions will grow for u... Bro that death threat na to tie u down beta run but help her for any psychological treatment... She need a psychologist...

Guy go to the police and get a restraining order, so she can't get close to you again. She is sexually harrassing you.

If she like make she die.

Kriss216:
Stay away from Nigerian girls!

Ur mummy na from England abi?

UDUJ:
I feel you are not telling us the whole story

Your story makes absolutely no sense. You are not dating her or you never dated her and she is having so much influence on your life to the extent it's beginning to affect your work. Are you a man at all?

Your story doesn't add up. When you finally decide to tell the real story then you can get good advice. Cheers

Am more confused than u read our last chat

dingbang:
go to the police and make a formal statement then .. Then go about your normal duties

Thank u

BigJoe29:
Guy go to the police and get a restraining order, so she can't get close to you again. She is sexually harrassing you.

If she like make she die.

Ok

let her just end it and rest, after all we too plenty for this country sef

Report the case quickly now b4 u end up in jail

Agbebakun22:
This mata tie gele ooo and wrapper oo... That one wan she dey threatened of death na lie, the more u stay close to her the more her emotions will grow for u... Bro that death threat na to tie u down beta run but help her for any psychological treatment... She need a psychologist...

Thanks

silento:


Thank u

welcome bro

silento:



Like what that I dumped her or what I can give you her number call her and get any info I want

If what you are saying is true then bro you are just too soft. She knows this and is using that to ride on you.

Like people advised report her to the police so its official because from what you described that girl is suicidal and mentally deranged.

I can never allow anything disturb my sanity and peace of mind. So I see your trouble. You are too weak. Start distancing yourself from her. Don't visit her, don't allow her visit you, don't call her and don't pick her calls once you've reported this and made an official complaint at the police station. After that if she still decides to kill herself it's her choice and you would not be accountable.

But I sincerely hope you really are just friends and nothing more because I am surprised the way she got so close to you to the extent of threatening to take her life if you leave her. Goodluck bro.

Waow am hearing something different
A naija man not grabbing sex opportunities thrown at him, I thought to read you bleeped nonsense out of her like an average naija man would

I like your discipline but you are too considerate to your own detriment. You made yourself available to her you can as well unmake it

Sigh

Are you tellin' us the truth & nothin' but the truth?

Toseenlove:


Obviously you are still a Kid and a potential CHIEF SIMP A sex starved cave oraguntan.....

One of them spotted

UDUJ:
I feel you are not telling us the whole story

Your story makes absolutely no sense. You are not dating her or you never dated her and she is having so much influence on your life to the extent it's beginning to affect your work. Are you a man at all?

Your story doesn't add up. When you finally decide to tell the real story then you can get good advice. Cheers

See this cow, because it does not make sense to you means hes lying ? Why must there always he an idiot in the midst of people .. Haha

Uncle93:


See this cow, because it does not make sense to you means hes lying ? Why must there always he an idiot in the midst of people .. Haha

Why the insult

You did not see my other post above

No make me vex this night o