I met jenny around December last year,we extremely close and we became fond of each other and I so much liked her that I decided to ask out around February time.I was extremely shocked by her reply,she told me that she is not ready for a relationship,that we both gained admission into the University,and we should not be thinking of going into a relationship now.And we should remain friends for the moment.I was extremely heartbroken,but I wasn't ready to be her friend,even though I really liked her.I have been friendzoned b4 and it was not a pleasant experience.I told her that it better we are not friends,that I will only accept a relationship and not friendship.We stopped talking to each other from around January to March,I just used that period to focus on more important issues,then suddenly this girl contacted me in my birthday to wish me an happy birthday,we went outing and she bought me an expensive gift,I took this as green-light and asked her out again and again she turned me down, repeating the statement that we should remain friends.i again told that her that I don't wanna be her friend.That how we stopped talking to each other from March till she called me in july.And she told me that she missed me,and why I have been avoiding her.I just told her that I have been busy with some issues,she told me that we are soul-mate and I should not be avoiding her,and repeated my request and said that either we date or we stop being friends,she rejected me again,and said that she is not ready for a relationship for now,I was furious this time,amd realized that it was pointless waiting for her.So around August I started dating another girl name Amara,I really enjoyed my relationship with Amara and she had everything I was looking for in a girl.The issue now is that around July Jennifer found out about my relationship with Amara from one of my friends,she contacted me to confirm if it true,and I said yes,she was very emotional and furious on the phone,she told me that I was selfish, arrogant,proud and self-centered.she said that I do not deserve her love,that she blame herself for loving me.I was confused,this was a girl that I asked out thrice and she turned me down.The issue now is that she messaged my gf on Facebook and warned her to live me alone,she even sent her pics of our outings when we were cool,my gf has refused to talk to me since then,even though I have explained to her that me and jenny never dated.well I do not mind if she wanna break up with me,am not gonna beg her either,I won't waste my time on a girl who doesn't trust me..............................but what I want now,I for jenny to leave me alone,she have been pestering me ever since then,it not enough for her that she has destroyed my relationship,I told her I don't wanna date her now,that I already gave her that opportunity.pls nairalanders how do I make this girl to leave me alone and let me have peace

Some girls are like that — they don't want to date you, and they also don't want anyone else to date you...

Oga oooo

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I was extremely shocked by her reply,she told me that she is not ready for a relationship,that we both gained admission into the University,and we should not be thinking of going into a relationship now.And we should remain friends for the moment.

She was keeping you for future purpose.

Love matters nor dey let me talk put.

Ok

She loves you but she wants you put more effort in chasing her and winning her over

I don't know why u don't bliv this ur story, but if at all its true then bliv me that u don't have sense...

That Jenny of a girl is something else ... Ask her out again if you can? (that's only if you love her more than your girlfriend)

That jenny is not serious

This is why I only date white/foreign girls

story yi ti fe ma long

That Jenny need prayers..

If you ask her out again.. it's just gonna complicate things ( current bae will be looking like Dundee that has been used).. you probably might not like her (Jenny) again as you used to.. and she has shown how dangerously jealous she can be

She's an enemy of progress



But this ur story......................

I love your style bro u played smart for not allowing ur self to be friend zone....my advice just ignore her and forcus on Amara....

That jenny is not severity

See weytin dey hungry people wey just gain admission chai i give una 1 semester factory settings go recalibrate una brain

If you go back to that girl for any reason, you will definitely regret it. I had a similar girl a long time ago, all she wanted from me was to continue chasing her for eternity. If you give up your current relationship because of her, you will regret it 100%.

But from your write up, you should not be thinking about relationship at your age. You just got admission and you feel a girlfriend is the next thing

Flexherbal:

She was keeping you for future purpose.
Love matters nor dey let me talk put.

Thanks bro,I will not be kept for future purposes

Franktom247:
See weytin dey hungry people wey just gain admission chai i give una 1 semester factory settings go recalibrate una brain

lol read the part were I said I focus on other purposes in my Life

nero2face:
I don't know why u don't bliv this ur story, but if at all its true then bliv me that u don't have sense...

lol thanks though, bashing in nairaland is part of the deal,so your words nor affect me..but anyway what your advise

theophilusj31:
lol read the part were I said I focus on other purposes in my Life

but she said NO first before you started focusing and truth is that there are a lot of young people in your shoes

Franktom247:
See weytin dey hungry people wey just gain admission chai i give una 1 semester factory settings go recalibrate una brain

lol we day wait,but read the part od the story were I said u focused on other issues in my life,from my story it obvious that woman not my num 1 priority

sirzee1660:
I love your style bro u played smart for not allowing ur self to be friend zone....my advice just ignore her and forcus on Amara....

yea I will do that,thanks bro

Franktom247:



but she said NO first before you started focusing and truth is that there are a lot of young people in your shoes

so from what you are saying a 20yr old guy is not old enough to have a gdp abi

It's amazing how you didn't let her friendzone you.

She dey mad.

Biko use paragraphs.

Too difficult to read this block of text.

Ghost8889:
Some girls are like that — they don't want to date you, and they also don't want anyone else to date you...

so true!