obowunmi:

What is she using the money for ? Feed her boyfriend ? Her family ?

@OP

If I catch her, She must go. Kapish!

Even if you love her deearly?

Mrs.Chima:

Even if you love her deearly?

So I should pat her back for stealing from me abi? Or maybe buy her small stout

Where did I say in my last comment to pat her back? I said even if you love her dearly?

Mrs.Chima:

Where did I say in my last comment to pat her back? I said even if you love her dearly?

Loving a thief? No chance.

My verdict = SHE MUST GO!

thanks guys 4 ur responses, pls note

1. am not stingy, she even confessess that herself
2. the reson she gave 4 the theft was greed/stupidity ---- claimed her sister was going tru hardtimes n she wanted 2 help!, [i had told her in the past 2 quit throwing her family probs in my face, cos i saw it that she wanted me 2 help, while she said that she was just being open/communicative],

@mrs chima, cud i shoot u a mail?

She's stealing because of her family --- she no get father ? Abeg dump the witch fast, fast

K @ poster, i wud say stealing is definitely nt a gud trait @ all, it cud be dat she saw u as an avenue to solve family issues, n she told u bt u didn't help out.
N she probably felt dat as ur Gf she really didnt 2 ask b4 takin it (tot it was all formality n u wont take it dat way). Take her back if u really love her n think she cud be D 1, bt put her on probation n test her without her knowin.

obowunmi:

She's stealing because of her family --- she no get father ? Abeg dump the witch fast, fast

Howdy my guy?

i hvnt dumped her yet.
we still talk on phone,
am still undecided on what 2 do next.but she aint in my crib anymore,

She stole five nairas and YOU KICKED HER OUT? HMMMPH.

its not the amt stolen, its the act itself that bothers me, if i was a stingy bf, then she might hv had an excuse, but she confesses that i am the most generous bf she has ever had, so?

I wonder what else you would kick her to the side for that is not serious.

Don't mind Mr. Chidinmaan ---- stealing is a NO-NO. She should go and ask her father for money.

She madde a big mistake. I dnt think u wil ever trust her again. I mean why will she do such a thing even if u don't give her money. Its a different thing if she told u be4 she took it. She doesn't even have the audacity to take without ur permission cs u dnt keep money 2gether. And 4d fact t hat it was whn u were looking for the money she brought it out or told u, please am a lady as well. Just let her be. Becos my Q is can u forgive & forget?
If u can, and will not suspect her for anything missing around you, then take her back.

a friend just narated 2 me a similar story

his uncle in america sends him stuff [clothes,perf, electronics] to sell in naija, and his babe confessed to taking some of the clothes from the stuff his uncle sent.
note : the last time his uncle sent stuff, he gave the babe some of the clothes to wear/use, and the babe also helped him 2 sell some.

so in this scenario wat shud he do?, cos the babe also confessed when she noticed that my friend was looking 4 some items.guess she wudnt hv confessed if she didnt notice him looking 4 those items.
he is now wondering if the babe wud hv confessed if she didnt notice him looking 4 the items, and knowing dat she wud be the prime suspect, and also he is wondering if she has been helping her self to the cargo b4 this fateful incident?, --- though he hasnt ever noticed anything missing