If a man truly love you, he would not want you to:

1) Be pregnant for him before he will go on with the Marriage rites. He wants you to get pregnant for him first before the Marriage things are done on your head because he doesn't love you, he doesn't value your love for him, he doesn't trust you that you have not damage your womb in the cause of one abortion or the other.

He also doesn't want to hear that you are not fertile as a woman, maybe because of one infection or the other, or because of diseases which may prevent you from giving him a child.

2) A man who truly loves you will not insists that you must stay with him before he can go ahead with the marriage the rites. He doesn't trust your closeness with other men in the street. He wants to be sure that you are not cheating on him with multiple boyfriends. If he loves you and trust you, he will not insists you stay with him in his apartment until Marriage.

Marriage as we all know is for better and for worst, that includes whether childless or not. A man who truly love you, knows very well that pregnancy before marriage is not okay so he will not want to do it with you. A man who truly love you will believe you when you told him that you have not done any abortion and you are also free from any disease or infection that is capable of preventing you from getting pregnant for him after wedding. He will not be insists that you must cohabitate with him before he can go on with the Marriage rites.
These are not the rules of true love.

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Ya OP you are right just remember one of my friend a female that the boyfriend told her the same thing(get belle first then I wil marry you) naso the guy leave the girl japa oo after she born finish,,, now na only the girl de suffer the pain




But it depends sha


But am not a fan

That's like saying if you truly love a car you saw in the dealer's garage, you should not test drive it before buying.

When it comes to relationships, whether for the man or woman, the motto should be Trust but verify. Loving someone does not mean you should take actions blindly.

E get why

I totally agree with you on this one.

Any man that ask a lady to get pregnant first is a selfish and wicked man.Can you imagine such thing.

Very true

*clapping *
but some girls will not respect themselves. they're the one bringing insults to themselves.

Period!

Michelle55:
I totally agree with you on this one.

Thanks. My dik is really big & u cant carry it

True, and he wouldn't even ask for sex, expect it your idea.

A Lady that truly loves a man will never ask him for money when she's not married to him

thesicilian:
That's like saying if you truly love a car you saw in the dealer's garage, you should not test drive it before buying.

When it comes to relationships, whether for the man or woman, the motto should be Trust but verify. Loving someone does not mean you should take actions blindly.

If you are buying a new car( 2020 model), you won't test drive.
Trust but verify? What are you verifying?

This applies to women of my mum era lol girls of these days are heartless

iffa hear! shey i no go taste soup wey i wan buy ni?