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Since you are so full of doubt let her go cause you won't trust her. You don't want to marry someone you don't trust.

give it a try, if what you fear happens.. then move on.. but no forget to collect your own share.

bbyby01:
I met this girl 5 months ago and we clicked. She is about 80 percent of what I want in a woman and I like the kind of parenting she had. She is loyal and submissive, bottom line is, she might be the one.
We talk about almost everything and I realised she has dated about 4 guys and had filings with about 8 other guys, including a married man. She is in her early 20s. However, she had not been having sex until very recently (Penis in vagina sex). And she did it with an ex boyfriend whom she got back together with, and that was the guy she was seeing before me.
I love this girl. My only worry now is that I am not comfortable dating girls that have flings. I feel they fall for guys easily, they are cheap and they are usually open to anything. If it was a runs girl, I understand that she was doing it for the money, but girls that have flings usually want to taste every attractive guy they see.
Another thing about flings is that, unlike dating where it officially starts and you break up, flings are open ended, it never starts officially and never ends officially. So I can meet a girl I had such an affair with 5 years ago and have still sleep with her.
Furthermore, when a guy has an affair with a girl and didn't have sex with her, (as in this case) he kinda feels she owes him sex, sometimes they hook up again to do what they didn't do the last time. Now seeing that this particular girl has about 8 of such guys on her list scares me.
I'm around the time I want to get married and I feel she is the one, but all these concerns are really disturbing me. I am doubting my trust for her future behaviour. I am so full of doubts at the moment, please advise me on what to do.

laughing.. shey you no dey have sex before you met her ni? what's your own body count?

go marry virgin Na..


I don't know why you people take sex seriously as if it's something that your marriage and having good home would base on.


if you see a gal with good character..marry her.


you too have jilted girls with good character all in the name of sex..


ogbeni.. marry her if she is a good gurl.. sex is overrated

This one weak me, where are all the relationships experts in the building? Please come out, your attention is needed. Efulefu.. ermm, sorry, I mean lefulefu please come to his aid.

I don't have any advice today, my brain is on hibernation mode.

NeoWanZaeed:



laughing.. shey you no dey have sex before you met her ni? what's your own body count?

go marry virgin Na..


I don't know why you people take sex seriously as if it's something that your marriage and having good home would base on.


if you see a gal with good character..marry her.


you too have jilted girls with good character all in the name of sex..


ogbeni.. marry her if she is a good gurl.. sex is overrated

You obviously didn't read the post, kindly read it through please

I Pity guys that take girls in their early 20's Serious

DaddyRochie1642:
I Pity guys that take girls in their early 20's Serious

Hmmm

early twenties and she don already be legend for yansh matter
anyway u should know what u want and what is of more importance to u
afterall there men who marry pornstars,ex pornstars,runzgirls and ex runzgirls and the world never end yet
do what u feel is good for u

Michelle55:
This one weak me, where are all the relationships experts in the building? Please come out, your attention is needed. Efulefu.. ermm, sorry, I mean lefulefu please come to his aid.

I don't have any advice today, my brain is on hibernation mode.

hmm advice no dey work for this one ooo
some men dont mind getting married to a hooker or a girl that is very wild .Op has seen everything in her nau so he should know what he wants.Its like me dat i cant date a runzgirl then i find out that someone i am interested in is a runzgirl and i will now be running for advice..dat one make sense? He should go for what he likes oo

lefulefu:
early twenties and she don already be legend for yansh matter
anyway u should know what u want and what is of more importance to u
afterall there men who marry pornstars,ex pornstars,runzgirls and ex runzgirls and the world never end yet
do what u feel is good for u

Not so, I said she has been with several guys, but has only had real sex with just one guy. Which was the guy she was with before me. Though other things happen with the other guys but no real fucking.
My main concern is that there is a way I look at girls that can be intimate with a guy who is not their official boyfriend, and that is what she has been doing mostly. I see such girls as flirts

bbyby01:

Not so, I said she has been with several guys, but has only had real sex with just one guy. Which was the guy she was with before me. Though other things happen with the other guys but no real fucking.
My main concern is that there is a way I look at girls that can be intimate with a guy who is not their official boyfriend, and that is what she has been doing mostly. I see such girls as flirts

well if there is still a doubt in ur heart about her even after u said its only one guy she has had actual sex with then its best u just break up with her.If u carry on with her the doubt will always be dere in ur mind about her.better be with a girl ur mind is very clean about.

Girls like that are quite common. I'm surprised she had sex once. Her type are extremely promiscous. Which is why you have to reconsider your future with her

Liposure:
Girls like that are quite common. I'm surprised she had sex once. Her type are extremely promiscous. Which is why you have to reconsider your future with her

Thank you.
She likes sex so much. I actually thought of running after 2 weeks of dating her because it seemed I was not going to meet her sexual needs, As in, I used to satisfy other girls with little action but she was different. I can't kill myself o.
But the fact that she flirted with all these guys but never allowed them have penetrative sex with her still makes me want to believe she has some self control. That's the confusing part. Or is it love that is making me bring that excuse?