Adurabledamsel:
I don't think been a good wife has anything to do with love, we have mistaken love for emotion and feelings and that is very far from love. Love is a constant,continuous, deliberate choice you make to forgive, protect and provide on the part of the man, and to forgive,support, submit and care for on the part of the woman and it has to be unconditional. God will never chose your spouse, it's you that will then take it to God to bless, God will not build your home, the responsibility rest on your both, whatever your home will be like is by the choice you make. Husbands are told to love their wives just has Christ loves the church and we all know His love is unconditional and the wives are to submit to their husbands. The bible didn't put the part of the woman(submission) first cos God knows the way He wired women, their part comes naturally when the man plays his part just as he is instructed. The bottom line is know and understand the true meaning of love and make sure your spouse also knows and understands and you both are ready to work by it.

I don't quite agree with you in the area of a man providing and his wife would naturally submit. There is a man who I know that provides everything for his wife, buys her car, trained her to school, sponsored her master program abroad, but his wife treat him anyhow,fights with him and sleep around with other men, this Same wife also filled for a divorce. Behind the scenes Satan is behind every form of divorce. Both the wife and husband have to be genuinely spiritually strong with God( which is very rare, hence high rate of divorce), if one is strong and they other is not strong with the Lord,Satan would use the one that is weak spiritually to destroy the marriage

Kamdil:
Pastor Chris marriage was never about adultery, and no where did Anita mention adultery as her reason for divorce. She only said 'unreasonable behaviour' and not adultery.

She mentioned adultery

Ok

Righteousness89:
No Matter How Established you are, the Family Altar of a man and wife should not be apart..

What Holds a Home is the Altar.. That place where a Man and Wife come together to Pray..
That Togetherness is what the devil fights..

The Moment your Altar Start being apart, you open a way for the Enemy to Creep in..

Marriage is more Spiritual than Physical..

The Institution of Marriage is Created by God Almighty. For the Home to stay together, you must Recourse to God Almighty..

God bless you. You just revealed the secret. If you and your wife are spiritually together. If you are in one accord spiritually, your marriage will be sweet. Many of them may be very spiritual but if they don't carry their spouses along, it is a problem!

Kamdil:
stop shifting goal post, I addressed that part of adultery you chose to salivate about, and trying to introduce worldly accusation as the reason for the divorce, now you couldn't provide link to your fallacious believe only to be shifting goal post

I haven't deviated from the adultery accusations I only pointed out to you that,the women couldn't have filled for divorce on other grounds other than adultery given to her grounded knowledge of the scriptures.and it is not wether you accept it or wish it is not true,the fact is glaring wether spoken,acted or covered up for any reason

Kamdil:
Pastor Chris marriage was never about adultery, and no where did Anita mention adultery as her reason for divorce. She only said 'unreasonable behaviour' and not adultery.

eehnn!
What about the choir mistress issue that year?

Fearlez:
When a bitter spiritual slave speaks venom, you know even his spiritual life is fraught with disappointment and disaster. what a bad slavish example of adulterous Chris Oyakhilome.

You have chosen the path of damnation and slavery , may you never find the path to happiness, contentment and joy all through your earth's sojourn and may it be so with your unborn generation.

Son of blind bastard

God bless you. May God repay you in kind.

Essential:


Pastor Chris’ daughter Rejects Him, Supports
Mums on Divorce..see her reasons A decision is set to be announced on the divorce
suit filed by Anita Oyakhilome against her
husband Rev. Chris Oyakhilome, the President of Christ Embassy church.

Funny enough, the couple’s first daughter Sharon Oyakhilome has decided to take sides, supporting her mum against her father, Pastor Chris. She took to Twitter to post a cryptic message which seemingly appears to support her mother’s divorce decision.

Her tweets appear to be similar to the case Rev.
Anita Oyakhilome cited in the divorce papers where she stated that her husband had been
away for the most part of their marriage. In Defence of Anita Oyakhilome the FRustrated Wife: “Anita Oyakhilome, the frustrated wife of
Nigeria’s most flamboyant preacher, Chris
Oyakhilome has obviously passed through 15
years of adulterous endurance and what she
needs is our prayers and protective respect and
defense of her choices to forget all the anti- rhapsody of heartbreak she endured all these
years.

Fifteen (15) years of being abandoned by
a preacher husband is not an easy way of lifefor
a preacher’s wife. Fifteen (15) years of hearing
that some mini skirted daughters of Jezebel have taken over your possession is not a joke.

Fifteen years of a husband not staying with the wife for up to a week on a stretch, while spending time with some double breasted figure eight daughters of eve is not an easy thing to swallow.

15 years of being used as a showcase to make
church members believe in Rhapsodies of Blissful Union, while dying in silence,is not a palatable experience for any woman.

Fifteen years of being called Mama, Mummy, and other glorified names of Senior Pastor’swife
while some domestic harems sneer at the same
Mummy behind is not a sweet experience.

For goodness sake, this woman never probably had a good kiss in fifteen years and yet she is being accused of carnality for crying out loud.
She was continually being led into temptation of seeking for s*xual satisfaction from outside for fifteen years and she managed to escape the traps of sin.
Fifteen years when their two lovely daughters
would wake up and ask their mother why Dad
had not cared to visit, and she would have to
release a lie to stave off the frequent probing
questions. Above all, fifteen years when Anita had to fake that all is well with their marriage,
while she is actually dying emotionally. Every
person she complained to among the pastoral
cadre sided with the man, and she was left alone to bear her cross.
I warned some pastor friends with Christ Embassy early 2013 that they had better settle
this marriage rift between Oga and his wife
before it destroys the church. The same pastors
have called me to express regret that a national
embarrassment has ensued. This woman has
been called Jezebel by some pastors and members of the church. Some claimed she was
disrespectful while others claimed she was
always bitter of recent.They have tried to
castigate her before members of the church who came in private to ask for the way out. She was described as unreasonable and insubordinate.
Her husband, according to news reports has
even followed to cast her in bad light.
According to Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, “Bitterness is prolonged and accumulate danger. My wife is always angry and bitter,” Going further he told his members to “Be careful of the friends you keep.
My wife keeps friends who bring out the
worst in her and help her see the worst in
people, instead of keeping friends that will help
her vision, especially as the wife of a global
pastor like me.”
Please, which preacher woman
who has been abandoned for fifteen years will not be bitter and angry? Was Anita expected to
clap and dance while some hot legs are parading around the White House?

May you receive blessings if your story is true and get the opposite if not. Amen.

Maestro21:


God bless you. May God repay you in kind.

Demented bastard. After calling me a cursed fool you're now saying God bless you.

Confused bastard.