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What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 5:16pm On Sep 30, 2020
Posting everything about your life on social media (deliberate shots at diarylanders)cheesy.

Ladies applying excessive make up on their birthdays.

The feminists movement.

ladies loving guys that treat them badly and guys loving Ladies that treat them badlycheesy(ozo is a typical example).

Ladies calling guys broke and guys calling ladies prostitutes.

Ladies on social media revealing dm with a guy on their timeline.

Saying every successful young person is into dubious activities.

Esbellishments of stories(ashewo beer parlour is a typical example). Almost everybody who shares sexcapade made the lady cum multiple timescheesy.

What else? share yours.


let's go.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Sep 30, 2020
Sex in relationships, especially when they are not married.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by oluwaseyi0: 5:18pm On Sep 30, 2020
Praying and thinking that will fix their problem

Been hypocritically against what two consenting opposite gender decide to do with their private part shouting it's fornication, the Constitution is very clear and unambiguous, two opposite gender can have sex, marriage is not by force, any opposing idea should be forwarded to national assembly or shoved up your ass

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by fati2001(m): 5:18pm On Sep 30, 2020
ArewaOduduwaBia:
Sex in relationships, especially when they are not married.
you have already said it.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Sep 30, 2020
1. changing partners continually. like didn't you observe that thing that is making you want to quit? I'm beginning to wonder how many partner is reserved for each person.
2. talking of love and sex always. honestly there is more to life.
3. throwing food packs on the floor after eating.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by gaius01(m): 5:19pm On Sep 30, 2020
Arrrrrrrh

Sex before marriage as a sign of assurance.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by virginprincess(f): 5:24pm On Sep 30, 2020
ArewaOduduwaBia:
Sex in relationships, especially when they are not married.
You have sense, God bless you for this comment.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by Ngenge(m): 5:28pm On Sep 30, 2020
Most youths are lazy and wants to live big. Being a jobless graduate is NOT a licence to relax and complain. Man must survive, do any legitimate work to keep body and soul together

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by NawtiKingRealer(m): 5:31pm On Sep 30, 2020
The one wey dey vex me pass na waiting till God come down himself to fight for us like say president seat no be for human being while these criminals wey no reason God existence dey bomb us with political yahoo formats. Upon everything wey him don create and provide for us already, so wetin again make him do?

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by sorority11(m): 6:00pm On Sep 30, 2020
1. People that always mind their business.
When they see domestic violence, child abuse in their neighborhood instead of reporting they mind their business, seeing your best friend about to marry his cheating girl friend you caught, seeing cyber criminals without reporting them to the authorities.

2. Women always calling their boyfriend stingy, in actuality, a boyfriend is not obligated to pay any of your bills, you should be able to take care of yourself like an adult.

3. People who prays without doing anything. They go to vigils to fight enemies hindering their progress, but they never sit down to strategize, plan how to move forward.

4. And Yes Nigeria is so wrong. President promising how they would make 1naira = 1dollar, reduce fuel price, give jobs blah blah blah, without telling us or showing us the road map he will use to achieve this. And we foolishly buy this jargons.
If you want to be a president tell us how you would achieve it, in full details, so we will know that you are not a magician, and we will also know which idea we should logically buy. But instead the politicians are selling political party and citizen are buying it.
It is so wrong to vote because of party or person, what you should vote for is an idea, if your road map or idea doesn't add up logically we will know what to do with the useless presidents

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ReluctantAdult(m): 6:24pm On Sep 30, 2020
Giving a BJ before sex, I mean that's not clean. Just kiss and fvck.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by CosmicPhoenix: 6:25pm On Sep 30, 2020
1.living a fake life style just to impress people who dont care about you.


2.seeing something wrong and keeping quiet about it.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by iamadonis2(m): 6:47pm On Sep 30, 2020
Internet fraud becoming the new “cool” for any so-called hustler

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by fuckaholic25(f): 6:47pm On Sep 30, 2020
the way girls are dragged on nairaland!!!










I love it

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by Bluezy13(m): 7:13pm On Sep 30, 2020
Everybody is doing but you consider wrong...




Are you not part of everybody

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 11:29pm On Sep 30, 2020
moderators. Lalasticlala. let's go to front page.
Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 11:30pm On Sep 30, 2020
sorority11:
1. People that always mind their business.
When they see domestic violence, child abuse in their neighborhood instead of reporting they mind their business, seeing your best friend about to marry his cheating girl friend you caught, seeing cyber criminals without reporting them to the authorities.

2. Women always calling their boyfriend stingy, in actuality, a boyfriend is not obligated to pay any of your bills, you should be able to take care of yourself like an adult.

3. People who prays without doing anything. They go to vigils to fight enemies hindering their progress, but they never sit down to strategize, plan how to move forward.

4. And Yes Nigeria is so wrong. President promising how they would make 1naira = 1dollar, reduce fuel price, give jobs blah blah blah, without telling us or showing us the road map he will use to achieve this. And we foolishly buy this jargons.
If you want to be a president tell us how you would achieve it, in full details, so we will know that you are not a magician, and we will also know which idea we should logically buy. But instead the politicians are selling political party and citizen are buying it.
It is so wrong to vote because of party or person, what you should vote for is an idea, if your road map or idea doesn't add up logically we will know what to do with the useless presidents






why you just dey para for nigeria/nigerians?cheesy

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by 2buffagain(m): 11:33pm On Sep 30, 2020
Tattoos angry

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by DoubleEngine007: 12:46am On Oct 01, 2020
Voting the wrong people into political positions.. E.g Zombies voting of Bubu into office.. and now their darling daddy bubu wan use hunger kill them grin

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by tobechi74: 3:05am On Oct 01, 2020
1) thinking that marriage is compulsory for everyone
If marriage were compulsory, Jesus would have done so.I am not against the idea of getting married. I am only saying marriage is not for everyone. The assumption that one can only be fulfilled while married is false . Many propeller of this fallacy quote the Bible to back up their claim.


It is not good for man to be alone

It is not good for anyone to be alone . Eve was to be a companion and not a marriage partner . One can feel alone while being married . The verse only validates the fact that no one is an Ireland. We need someone to lean on . Marriage is a concept created by man to bring order in the society. No one has been arrested for choosing to remain single.


Many of us get married because we need kids. There are many orphans down there craving to get married. Go adopt them . Except off course you are searching for your own child to shower selfish love .

Everyone is meant to have children. Eli the priest was not meant to have children as that would disturb his mission on Earth so his wife womb was shut for years. Having a wife would not affect his goal. After persistent prayer, he finally had a child. He had to choose between disciplining his children or spending time in the church. He chose the later. His children became wayward.

Zaccharia was another priest who had difficulty in having a son.It was not until he was very old that he was permitted too. This tells us that those who are called to work in God institution are not meant to have children as that could affect their work .They are permitted to have a helper, a partner, a wife ,a maid etc.

This brings me to the only reason to get married .We should get married when getting married enables us to achieve our life purpose.

Jesus knew his mission on Earth .He knew it involves wandering from one place to another spreading the message. The stress of travelling with his family all the Tim would slow down his movement. He could not afford to take them to the mountain and through the sea. He knew his message would invoke the wrath of the pharasees who would happily transfer their aggression to his wife and children . Peter who was already married had to leave his wife behind to follow Jesus. His wife must have felt sad as a result. His children must have been angry with their father for being unavailable. It is better not to get married than to abandon your partner midway. one had to pace way for another.


Marriage is settling down . Those whose purpose involve moving around have no business settling down.A Catholic priest could be posted to three different countries in a year as part of missionary work. Relocating their family all the time would prove cumbersome. This is why Catholic priest do not get married. I am not condemning clergy who get married. I only ask that each should examine the nature of his calling. One who is fixed at a particular place to grow an already planted church can marry. Missionaries who go about converting people and planting churches can abstain.

2) raising a child without a father figure

If the father is dead or divorced, there should be a man he should look up to to play the role of a father
Infant living with just their dad found out that they are 2-6 month ahead of schedule in personal and social skills

Amount of time father spends with child is one of strongest predictor of empathy in adulthood

The more the father is involved,the more easily the child makes open ,receptive and trusting contact with new people in his life.

Children of divorced parent who lived with their mother are 37.5% more likely to need professional treatment for emotional and behavioral problem.

When fathers are not involved, girls show sign of being antisocial,headstrong, hyperactive.Both boys and girls showed sign of over dependency on the mother.

Boys who live with their father after divorce tend to be warmer,have a higher degree of self esteem,more mature and more independent than boys who do not.

The most important factor by far in preventing drug use is a close relationship with dad.

Living in homes without dad is correlated with suicide among children and teenager than any other for both sexes.

Girls raised in father absent times tend to go to extreme in their relationship with male.

Primary school children without father are less likely to be popular with peers and more hostile to adult.

Daughters who lived with their mother are 92% more likely to divorce than daughter or 2- parent family

3) Obeying Elders blindly.
We know what elders ask of us is wrong but we do them anyway.
Two ears ago, My uncle summoned his children on his sick bed and instructed the first son to take over his law firm. This was the same son who resented studying law and only studied the course to please the dad. The same dad has asked him to forfeit his personal ambition.

The young man was literally unhappy as he managed the firm. He obeyed bitterly. He poured out his aggression on the entire staff.  

Obedience should be done out of love rather than duty. When an act is carried out of duty, the relationship with those around is diminished. 

I had to tell him that he was not bound to his late father wish. He could simply employ a trusted fellow to manage the firm while he supervises periodically.



Children should be made to do things out of duty in the beginning.As they grow up, duty should be gradually replaced by love. Love is a better teacher than obligation.  Duty is mechanical and externally motivated by a sence of obligation . Love makes it easier. Love transform responsibility to joy. A sence of  duty warmed by a love for humanity creates the best result.

I have seen a girl  reject suitor so they can take care their aging parents. While the act is commendable,It should be done out of love and not out of society expectation so she doesn’t regret it taking care of aged parent should be done from the bottom of her heart and not as a debt she owes you.  

The factory worker who constantly looks at the clock for it to be five o click to drop his tools work out of duty and not out of love .  Such a man will have lots of regret when he finally retires. Christianity is one religion built out of love rather than a sence of duty. God love the world that he gave his son……He did not owe the world. No one would punnish him for non compliance.To  be a great teacher, begin by loving children. To be a great auto-mechanic, begin by loving automobile.

4) punnishing Rebels
The society teaches us certain norm, rule and tradition to maintain order and expects us to obey then. Society tells us how we should eat, dress,think and behave in general. Those who obey are praised and rewarded for good behavior.Those who do not are called rebels. Are rebels really terrible people?   Are rebels black sheep?

Rebels are individual who refuse to do what others are doing . They are non robot.His life is dictated by his own reasoning. He does not like been told what to do. They question the status quo and deviate from it when necessary. Rebels crave independence. They create their path.Rebels try to be themselves and find freedom in an overly oppressive rule structure.

Some rebels are not interested in the society aggreing with their they have no intention of changing the society.He simply renounces the wrong act in himself and leave society to change when she feels like. Such rebels believe in the saying :  LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT TO AND LET ME LEAVE MY LIFE MY OWN WAY.

Such rebel change the life for himself and is ready to face whatever trouble it may bring on his way .When the female journalist drove a car fully aware of the law against driving for women, she was an individual rebel. She was arrested and sentenced to prison. Today, women are allowed to drive vehicles in Saudi Arabia . When Mubarak Bala refused to believe in Islam, he was taken to the psychiatric hospital, a place where deviant are kept .

Another group of rebels are interested in making sure the society moves in their direction. They spread their ideal to people, convert them ,  raise a group , engage in mass protest, strike,to change the status quo..These rebels encounter strong opposition from the society. These rebels are willing to face torture,and death to push their ideology. Many a time,they end up dead before their ideal is realised.They would rather die than withdraw their teaching. They live with the  saying : WE WILL ALL DIE ONE DAY. I CHOOSE TO DIE WHILE SPREADING THIS IDEAL.

Jesus is an example of such rebel.He recruited disciples, taught them new teachings, instructed them to spread the teaching, challenged the money makers in the temple . He was subsequently arrested and crucified. Today, Christianity is world largest religion.

Reverend Father Martin Luther is another Catholic rebel who was expelled from the Catholic Church for non conformity. His rebellion led to the protestantism.

The northern part of Nigeria is trying so hard to curtail its rebel. First, Mubarak Bala has been arrested for propagating anti – Islamic teaching and insulting Prophet Mohammed on social media.   A musician has been sentenced to death for mocking the prophet in his song.   While courtesy demand we respect other people belief, This has raised lots of question. Is Nigeria a secular or Islamic country,?  Does blasphemy law has a place in this civilised period?

These rebels were aware of the  likely consequences of their actions. Their moral courage to choose to undergo these  ordeal plants a seed in the mind of others. The death of one rebel leads to the growth of more rebel. The death of Stephen led to the birth of Paul. History shows that the death of a rebel does not really shut down their idea. I forsee a lot of nonconformist springing up from the northern part of the country.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/08/the-rise-of-religious-rebels-in-the-north/

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by suxkill: 4:23am On Oct 01, 2020
Voting Buhari again and again

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by Kiddogarcia(m): 4:29am On Oct 01, 2020
Having serious sexual issues,and not saying hi to us, that thing dey pain me

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by Meedon: 6:00am On Oct 01, 2020
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FORNICATION tongue

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by tetula123(m): 6:06am On Oct 01, 2020
Ya all shouting fornication are fornicators grin

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 7:36am On Oct 01, 2020
Kiddogarcia:
Having serious sexual issues,and not saying hi to us, that thing dey pain me


you just want to fvckcheesy.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 7:39am On Oct 01, 2020
tetula123:
Ya all shouting fornication are fornicators grin




you don't know sometimes you do some things even though you know it's wrong but you do it anyway. that is case of everybody shouting fornicationcheesy.

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 7:48am On Oct 01, 2020
Lalasticlala.
Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by luscioustrish(f): 7:57am On Oct 01, 2020
Fornication cry

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ClassicCaleb: 8:00am On Oct 01, 2020
people listening to wack Nigerian songs like Fem ,Coroba Coroba, when great artist like Johnny drill and Brymo are hungry,I pity the kind of brain children have these days

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by Mrscarter(f): 8:04am On Oct 01, 2020
ashewoboy:
let's go.

Cheating n lying to the person U love.
Body shaming
Ppl who can't keep a secret
Nastiness
Blasphemy
Ppl talking shit.
Ppl who brag/show off
Racists
Hypocrisy
Sleaziness

Not laughing at my jokes undecided
(Na that's a joke...see am not funny:-(...)

Long list lol

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 8:14am On Oct 01, 2020
Mrscarter:


Cheating n lying to the person U love.
Body shaming
Ppl who can't keep a secret
Nastiness
Blasphemy
Ppl talking shit.
Ppl who brag/show off
Racists
Hypocrisy
Sleaziness

Not laughing at my jokes undecided
(Na that's a joke...see am not funny:-(...)

Long list lol



you dey vex. you are married for real?cheesy. hope your husband does not do all these?

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Re: What Is That Thing That Everybody Is Doing That You Consider Wrong? by ashewoboy(m): 8:15am On Oct 01, 2020
ClassicCaleb:
people listening to wack Nigerian songs like Fem ,Coroba Coroba, when great artist like Johnny drill and Brymo are hungry,I pity the kind of brain children have these days




Like for davido's FEM

share if you don't like the song.

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