baralatie:

which one is toxic masculinity again?,you guys have started again?

nwaezeemmanuel:
Look it up online

There is a difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity.

baralatie:

there is nothing called toxic masculinity.it is either you masculine or feminine

baralatie:

there is nothing called toxic masculinity.it is either you masculine or feminine

nwaezeemmanuel:
No brother
Toxic masculinity is a social problem, not about who is a man and who isn't.
It affects men.
This was why i said you should look it up.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Like how some people think men don't want to be listened to, because they are 'men' and only women need to be heard.

That is a result of toxic masculinity, societal norms that exaggerate what being a man is, that indirectly affects men.

Please, try to look it up!

Nazist:
This thread reeks of wanting female validation.... Tufiaaa!!...*spits*

It's hard to believe it's a guy behind the OP's account

Mrscarter:


I like em cute but funny. But sum funny guys who wasn't cute I've been slightly attracted to in the past but nothing ever come of it

czarr:
Some women love muscular guys some don't some love beards some don't
some love chest hair some don't

women love different things so that makes this thread useless in the first place.....

i have read articles where some women confessed to loving body odour, some love crooked tooth, some love big ass in a guy etc some things you wouldn't expect.

the women that are complaining of some bad behaviours in a guy, ask them why they are still choosing those kind of guys in their life......op listen to their actions not their words.....women would say what sounds good and noble but would choose another thing...don't get it twisted.
no man who fucccks bittcches would create a thread like this that is for sure...

pocohantas:


You made this comment, then went on to create a counter thread, less than 24hrs later.

It seems red pill and common sense are two parallel lines. Ain’t you amazed at your own hypocrisy?

purples25:
Pushy
Deceptive
Always about sex and nothing else
Not straightfoward
No attempt at communication and love but wants me to do it 200% and above
Afraid to chase but pushes me to follow him around by making me guilty
No attempt to spice the relationship
Doesn't see anything wrong with not treating me like more than a friend
Insultive
Always good at setting traps, professional blame giver and shifter....
Happy to be broke and let me do all my things for myself just cuz I'm keeping quiet and smiling
Etc etc

baralatie:

Kaypols:
physical, as long as you don't have those stupid muscles call six pack am okay with you
psychological, i can tolerate a guy who prefer to keep malice than to apologise or talk about what he does not like
reckless spending , if you are reckless with money you are a big turn off ,because a fool and it money will soon depart.am not saying you should be stingy but, brothers moderation is key reckless spenders are Sugar boys and not husband material,so if you fall in this category OYO is your name because if you broke pere! you are on you own oh. i can't not be struggling with some one that has refuse to have sense
and lastly but not the list i love dark skin . if you know what i mean "brown skin boy"��� even juju cannot separate us . so bleachers stay away from me!!!!������

fhranchez:
Most girls I've come across say they like dark guys and detest fair guys, but it's still the same girls that are dying for bbnaija Ozo.


Anything you read in this thread just believe the opposite of it

LINTUNE:
guy believe them at ur own peril, even very fair gals do tell me how much they love fair guys, let alone the average dark naija gals, ....anything u see here ends online bro, how can one gal tell me she doesn't like muscular men, in this same world that i am?...anyways by god's grace, i have always had women at my disposals right from when i was a teenger , so it would bw childish for me to consider what some women say online, especially on nairaland....one even called fair guys, bleachers, just imagine..

LINTUNE:
lol..seems like this are all ur the characters ur boyfriend posseses and u just came online to nag about them..

pocohantas:


I understand that this is a touchy one for you as a fair guy, but yes, most women lean towards darker males. It isn’t just a woman thing, among men, fair(er) guys are stereotyped as effeminate. In the world, black men are looked upon as more masculine, thanks to their skin. Even in the animal kingdom, lions with darker manes are the first choice for mating among lionesses. So, keep your emotions in check and face reality.

Men also love fair women, but they chase dark women and MARRY THEM. I have a friend, when he tells you he saw a beautiful girl- be rest assured she is DARK SKIN. Fair no dey enter im eye at all. But does this change the fact that most men are attracted to light skinned women? NO

purples25:

Nah just things i hate in guys.

LINTUNE:
for real, why should i get emotional , when my fairness has gotten loads of women, lol, u dont get it,how did u come to the conclusion tht fair guys are seen s effeminate, wht would u have to say about white guys..madam lets be factual here, moat women will say something online but will do otherwise offline, based on my own experience women love fair guys like crazy, im not talking about bleached ones...personally i prefer fair clean women too..everything boils down to preference , but dont make silly hypothesis based on hear say, at least i believe u are well lettered to be that ignorant..so once again im not emotional , i have enough women at my disposal, its nothing to be proud of since its no achievement , but its the truth, with my fair fresh face, have conquered numerous pussies, so no no, i was just stating my observation, nothing much ok..

pocohantas:


Fair guys are seen as effeminate, keep a fair guy and a dark guy, most people- MALE & FEMALE, will look upon the dark one as more masculine.

Your personal fairness, CANNOT change this.

LINTUNE:
lies..look at dwayne johnson and call him an effeminate man...should i show u my call logs or dms, not to talk of real life encounter with women..i run from them for now, cos right now money is the principal thing..so my personal fairness has nothing to do with this..

LINTUNE:
so u dont dislike fair guys, lol..

pocohantas:


Oga, stop fighting it. Dark skinned men are looked upon as more masculine, world over.

purples25:

Not at all.

LINTUNE:
ur perception not really fact ok, ...

pocohantas:


You made this comment, then went on to create a counter thread, less than 24hrs later.

It seems red pill and common sense are two parallel lines. Ain’t you amazed at your own hypocrisy?

fati2001:

me too shocked as I saw his thread.

nwaezeemmanuel:
It's not just her perception brother.

Of course, there are women that love light skinned men - i have siblings that are very fair and look way better than me.

But the reason for the evoked attraction to dark skinned guys comes from the recent trendy craving for that melanin aura.

Vecto:


I went through his posts and frankly I was grossly disappointed.