Hmmmmm! Well said all of you.

I just wanted to ask, why didn't she decide to keep the last pregnancy if she knew that having an abortion will cost her life? Why get rid of her womb, knowing the future consequences? Is it better to tell the world the reason why she can't have kids now or she prefered to avoid shame and embarrassment at the time of the abortion but be alive and healthy? This is ridiculous! She wasn't even fair to her own self talkless of someone else.

God have mercy!

How can we help? Do i look like someone that sells womb in the market?

On the real, i sympathise with him. He should either leave her or pray to the Almighty GOd to perform a miracle, and if he is a believer then he should know that God can do it.

see tha tis what happens when u men run home to marry a girl and she fakes to u guys u guys wont even know then boom ur hooked and u cant do anythin all because u thought the city girls were soo bad just because what tehy did they did it out in the open. look what has happened ot him is bad judgemet, and the girl is a fool, fo rnot tellin ghim earlier before they got married,

i think he deserves it he probably screwed some chick over to marry this one and now look at what happened. men u guys never learn, any way tell him sorry sha

Since the lady did not tell him of her 'incompleteness' before themarriage, but only after,
the man is free to leave the woman and remarry. He is not under condemnation in this case.

I expect that he draws the attention of his church elders to this problem, except he wants to be
kind and charitable by keeping her becuse of his love for her and trusts God for a miracle.

This is different from a woman with a womb who also passes through the time of the red roses,
but unable to take in after marriage has been consumated - here, the couple should be patient and seek
medical counsel, etc.

When a couple decides to marry, both must open up and be frank about themselves. Any deception about a
physical/biological shortcoming is unfair.

Let love supercede the woman's inability to have a child. If it is the Will of God, the couple will be blessed with the fruits of the womb.

P/S: Why is it that our culture most times, it is the woman, who bears the brunt of the blame, regarding childlessness?

since they married in a church let the pastor judge this case.

but they should stop claiming christian because if the girl is, she wouldnt have deceived the guy.

What i will blame the wife for is why she didn't tell the husband before they got married. Anyway all i know is that there is no impossibility for God. If he can give sarah a child after reaching menopause, i belief he can do all things. Medically it might look impossible, but i tell you if indeed she has change from her old way and become true borm again. God will do it. And the word of God did not tell us that, it is when u have womb that you can give birth, i've seen so many cases where God prove medical report wrong. Somebody that doesn't have womb and give birth. So everything is possible to them that believe.

i don't know for u, but as for me. I will not live with a woman that will not tell me that she has no womb, till months after wedding. She deceived me into marriage. Th marriage shouldn't have been. It was joined in deceit. I will divorce her. I don't need a pastor to advice me.

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I expect that he draws the attention of his church elders to this problem, except he wants to be
kind and charitable by keeping her because of his love for her and trusts God for a miracle.

A beg which kind of miracle does they pray for. I believe that with God all things are possible. But where do we start in this case. The time that God provide lamb for his sacrifice is gone. Manner does not fall any more. So are they going to pray for new womb. Let us not put God into trial. Is like an amputated man asking God to replace his limb.

They have exchanged marital vows, so no going back. I pity d man _{but i think he should start getting used to it}. They should start thinking of adopting a child and continue praying yOU NEVER CAN TELL--------miracles happen!

d man should 4give and adopt children

But na wa o.

She definately married him under false pretence and he needs to definately pray hard o - cause this one pass me.

I never see o.
Looking for a womb donor khe?
But on a good day if they both co-operate, they could get through this sha.

The woman definitely knew what she was doing---------after living a reckless life, she decides, "oh i know------i'd simply go to some pentecostal church----and turn 'born again'----i'll marry the 1st sucker that comes along and tehn tell him AFTER the wedding. He will not be able to divorce me as it is forbidden in the church" Poor man---poor fool.

I was brought up catholic and if they were in the catholic church (rather than penteostal) the man could apply for annulment on the grounds of absence of procreation (catholic believe that marraige is first and foremost for procreation and that is obviously not gona happen wihtout her womb!) and also on the grounds of deception (she SHOULD HAV told him everything so he could have made n informed decision BEFORE marrying her.

So------what should they do? Well----short of escaping the marriage by pretending to be dead----he can stick with her and have a child via surrogacy (veeeerrrrryyy expensive!)-----he could make another woman pregnant and claim the child (baaaad for his reputation in the church and he would incur the severe wrath of the girl's family)------and last but not least, he could pretend he has backslidden----get out of that church and the marriage----become a christian again----join a CATHOLIC church---have his 1st marraige annuled and marry someone else. Catholic churhc would happily marry him to someone else as they would recognise the 1st marriage as invalid due to deception and sterility


GOOOOOOOD LUUUUUCCCKKK!

when they stood before the altar the woman was asked if she knew of any reason why they shouldn't be joined together and she lied. She said 'I have no reason'. Therefore in my opinion, the marriage should be annuled.

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when they stood before the altar the woman was asked if she knew of any reason why they shouldn't be joined together and she lied. She said 'I have no reason'. Therefore in my opinion, the marriage should be annuled.

EXXACCCTLLLYYY!!!!

Even if annulment is acceptable in Catholic Church, in the Holy Bible, Divorce is never encouraged, so in as much as some people try to disassociate annulment from divorce, they are still the same. The ceremony and vows were recited, so , encouraging him to divorce is not right.

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Well, I have some wombs for sale in my lab.
Contact me if you want one

pls did u say she is born again,meaning that she is now in christ Jesus.If thats the case, i ve a good news for her,
she has a new life to live now, and there is no barreness in that life.If she can just belief God, the matter is very simple.
for more info, let her visit dis site(www.christembassy.org)

Hi fellow nalralanders

my own advice for this brother is for him to ask this young woman to leave in peace, in the first place to me she is a liar because she did not let him no that she had already lost her womb before they got married.who knows maybe she even used the marriage thing to hook the poor boy up.

My response to this question will not be biased because i am a woman.

First and foremost why did the woman not tell the man before they got married about her situation? Reason: because if she had told the man, the man might not have married her.

the man should do whatever he deems fit. if he thinks he cant cope with her then he should send her packing and seek for divorce based on the grounds of deceit.
if he thinks he can cope with that and has accepted his fate, then they could weather the storm together and resort to adoption. Besides, who says God cannot perform a miracle? But bear in mind a miracle can only be experienced in a situation where there is total and absolute forgiveness and no reference to the situation from the man.

Really it depends on the man and his faith.

there was a film i watched that the sister told the brother she had no womb while the brother was asking her out and the brother accepted her only because he was convicted the woman was his wife and they resorted to adoption.
another one i watched a woman knew she hd no womb but it took her ten years before she told her husband, it was not easy but the husband forgave her and she conceived and bore a son after the confession and forgiveness.

Was actually going to say why did she not tell her man before marriage and all. Thats wrong no doubt and am sure she knows it already. Well since they are both believers, they should continue to pray for a miracle or adopt a child. You know God will never give you problems that you cannot solve. Am sure He would give them the strength to go thru with the problem.

i pray god forgives them and gives them a miracle baby,

I am sorry this is tantamount to deception of the highest calibre.  How can one knowingly marry a guy when you know you have no reproductive capacities?

And she is a born again?  Why am I not surprised?

Well, I am sure the guy knows what to do and does not need any advice at all.  Left to me, I will definitely leave for her deception.  Only God knows what else she is hiding from me.  I do not advocate sharing intimate details of my past life with others.  But this clearly affects the other person and this lady should have been frank with this her husband from the get go!

Born again ko!  Born again ni!

I would say to the man to approah his Pastor and tell him he wants out of the marriage because she has no womb and one of the reasons he married her in the first place was to reproduce - but how could he if she doesnt even have a womb.

He would rather do that than play away now.

Even if the man did not want to have children, this woman still should have disscused this grave issue to him. In all fairness to him. What she did was indeed selfish and sounds desperate in my book. She should have told him, what did she think, he wouldnt find out??

I have alot to say but i'm feeling too lazy to type.but i'm saying it in my heart anyway.

theres no two way about it, he has to divorce her, cos she married him on a pretence, so she is guilty, if the guy wants happiness he just h\as to go marry some1 else, either as a second wife or divorce the damsel and marry someone else

@ Greatpeter: God said, "Let no one put asunder those he has joined together"

The same God in Gen 1: 28 said "Multiply and fill the world".