Is it wrong to crush on others while in a relationship??

no it isn't, I crushed on someone wen I was in a relationship, but u should control urself and not do anything stupid that will destroy ur relationship.

u will meet people more curvy, more beautiful richer and funnier, than the one u are currently dating, when that time comes, make sure ur emotions doesn't win u, remember commitment is an essential ingredient in a relationship and not everyone can afford it.

remember emotional maturity will help you, self control will come to ur rescue and commitment will keep you going... All these traits will be ur greatest arsenal wen those unhelpful impulses come, dont think u wont fall for some1 else but be prepared to win the fight between u and ur emotions


We all have feelings and its normal to crush on others, most people that cheats does not do it cos they just want to cheat, they can't hold their emotions and they fall yakata

This sailor is fantasizing about another ship while in control of one already. You know what happened to TITANic?





The crushing Will crush the present relationship and you know the rest....

Stephen2324:
Is it wrong to crush on others while in a relationship??

For men they don't see anything wrong with that because they don't love with emotions and for women, they love with emotions and once they are satisfied with a guy, they don't look else where

Unless the relationship is based on material gains not true love

its not wrong to have a crush on someone while in a relationship, but what you do about the feelings will determine if its wrong

frozen70g:


For men they don't see anything wrong with that because they don't love with emotions and for women, they love with emotions and once they are satisfied with a guy, they don't look else where

Unless the relationship is based on material gains not true love

madam, in a relationship, u will definitely crush on someone else, its not about gender.

Killing that crush before it gets into ur head is what is termed maturity.

The time wen u won't crush on some1 is wen d relationship is new, maybe the first few weeks wen u haven't noticed any flaw, at that time u will not deny ur bf sex cos his happiness is ur priority and he won't notice d urgent 2k u always ask.
when u see him, u have seen stars, u won't even notice ur neighbour was is in love wit u but after few months, u start seeing flaws, u noticed he is too occupied with work and doesn't give u the attention u needed, on the other hand he always will notice that u are too demanding.
Then there is this other guy in the neighborhood that is always available to hear u and always has sweet words to butter you, believe me, u will begin to have some feelings for this new guy and if u don't discipline urself, u will start having a secret affair with him and u don't have ur bf time again. Days gone by, u will leave ur boyfriend and start with this prince charming as he is everything ur boyfriend is and more, few months past and u see the flaws again and the circle continues and u jump from one guy to another.

By the way, seun lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique, this thread is front page worthy I think

frozen70g:


For men they don't see anything wrong with that because they don't love with emotions and for women, they love with emotions and once they are satisfied with a guy, they don't look else where

Unless the relationship is based on material gains not true love

https://www.nairaland.com/6026603/want-leave-boyfriend-new-guy
na ur fellow girl create that thread, I can bring more than 10 similar threads from girls and married women on nairaland, I know one who is crushing on another guy in pH while the husband is working in calabar. but u will hardly find a thread like this from a guy. Don't come here and spit inconsequential drivel just because u are good in insulting guys

It's wrong.

Reason: the fantasy will corrupt your mind as virus a computer.

what are u crush on...I only crush on money

dukeprince50:
madam, in a relationship, u will definitely crush on someone else, its not about gender.

Killing that crush before it gets into ur head is what is termed maturity

You're a Wise Man

Everyone can crush on anybody its normal, all u need is to know ur boundaries and dont start comparing and mandating ur current girlfrd or boyfrd to be dressing or start behaving like ur crush

It's very wrong! You should always crush on your partner. Don't be distracted by lust