Am tempted to ask, what is it with Nigerian ladies abroad? My friend met a "sister" and they happened to get along. Naturally, emotions set in and the lady asked him the "normal" question, "watin we dey do sef"? Bobo answered "just getting along" Then she said "If na date you wan date me, i get conditions oo" Bobo asked "like"? and she answered "1. you must love me, 2. you must make friend with my mother, 3. your friends must stop coming to your house from 11pm, 4. No sex, 5. once in a while, you should give me money 6. stop associating with all those your blonde girlfriends, they irritate me, 7. i can cook for you but i will not do your laundaries 8. girls should not come to your house 9. you must learn yoruba and stop telling people that you're an igbo boy

It may sound funny but its true. This girl is from Ogun state. Typical yoruba girl.

Please don't insult me. am hot tempered.! just comment! Yoruba girls, nawa!

na village girl?

^ village girl for yankee

Beync:

^ village girl for yankee

dem plenty even here in NL

^I think say person wen dey abroad don escape village be that na.

First off you need to stop relating behaviour to tribe that in itself shows you to be uncultured ie 'bush'.

The girl dey take style prepare ground for marriage talk. If the guy no wan marry the babe make e run o!

Lord_Reed:

First off you need to stop relating behaviour to tribe that in itself shows you to be uncultured ie 'bush'.

The girl dey take style prepare ground for marriage talk. If the guy no wan marry the babe make e run o!

Thats just the way it is bro.

Its not. There good and bad people every where you look. How people behave is not determined by tribe.

Beync:

^I think say person wen dey abroad don escape village be that na.

Lord_Reed:

First off you need to stop relating behaviour to tribe that in itself shows you to be uncultured ie 'bush'.

The girl dey take style prepare ground for marriage talk. If the guy no wan marry the babe make e run o!

I have to agree with that comment, its not about tribe, Some Nigerian girls are like that.

Her conditions are not bad as long as she will do exactly the same thing she wants me to do.

orbaxy:

Am tempted to ask, what is it with Nigerian ladies abroad? My friend met a "sister" and they happened to get along. Naturally, emotions set in and the lady asked him the "normal" question, "watin we dey do sef"? Bobo answered "just getting along" Then she said "If na date you wan date me, i get conditions oo" Bobo asked "like"? and she answered "1. you must love me, 2. you must make friend with my mother, 3. your friends must stop coming to your house from 11pm, 4. No sex, 5. once in a while, you should give me money 6. stop associating with all those your blonde girlfriends, they irritate me, 7. i can cook for you but i will not do your laundaries 8. girls should not come to your house [/b]9. [b]you must learn yoruba and stop telling people that you're an igbo boy

It may sound funny but its true. This girl is from Ogun state. Typical yoruba girl.

Please don't insult me. am hot tempered.! just comment! Yoruba girls, nawa!

Is she[b] insane[/b]?

Erm, It seems d woman doesnt want 2 take any chances. Gud thing she made d conditions rite 4rm d start, so its now up 2 d guy 2 either accept or fashi.

If she gives the guy her conditions, than Im sure he can also give her his condition.

Chei!! Nonsense!!!

Is love about contract"??

Is love like a Product??

Na love become like sales and marketing??

Rubbish! 

@op, young man, is not only the the girl that is crazy, U̶̲̥̅̊ r also involvd, maybe little craze, for U̶̲̥̅̊ Τ̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ sit down or stand up Τ̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ listen Τ̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ such conditions,
Who is she? Is she as beyonce?

The one that actually worries me is rule #9. Does she want to strip him of his identity ?  
Sounds like she wants a pet, not a man who knows he is a son of his father.  

Sincerely, its what yoruba girls can do not that i'm against my own tribe too.

NOT that we don't have stuffs like this with some other tribes but stuffs are too common with yoruba girls.

@orbaxy:
Count yourself lucky. You know what kind of person this lady is BEFORE you've invested your time with her. If you are not amenable to her terms, then it's obvious that the relationship is not destined to work out. You and she can, thus, both look elsewhere.

Is d gurl in question drunk Shld learn her language and stop sayin am from my tribe, Nonsense. I undastand d no sex part. But my guys nt cumin to ma crib 1ce itz past 11pm? D babe should go and hug a huge transformer, afta that stay in d middle of d road let lighting hit her and finally get crushed by a truck, mTCHEEEEEEWWWWW!!!!!!!

Ms. Potato:

If she gives the guy her conditions, than Im sure he can also give her his condition.

Chei!! Nonsense!!!

Is love about contract"??

Is love like a Product??

Na love become like sales and marketing??

Rubbish! 

Bn a regular on this site since 2008 but refused to register. Preferred reading comments than registering. Today, I registered all because of Ms Potato. I love her comments. Girl, wherever you are, just know you brought me on board.

^^ Lol well, the only contract that should be [b]must [/b]be in love today is a prenup.
There aint no 2 ways about that one.

She wants to marry a trained monkey. OP you don't seem like a trained monkey so waka dey go abeg. I hear San Diego Zoo has some of the finest trained monkeys for yankee. Make she go there with her conditions.

No sex means she's got nothin to offer.

orishi orishi. Hmmm,Girls!

@OP

I see her request in a different way from others.

She is just being real. Most of us conciously or subconciously have expectations that must be met before qwe committ.
Goodlooks, money, sex , security, level of education are all requirements we look out for in our potential parteners.
If we all let our potential partners know our expectations before we comitt, no one we feel short changed later.
In fact all the post about ladies being gold diggers and guys only asking for sex will be laid to rest if we all state clearly what we expect from a potential partner.
I also expect people to understand that we all have different expectations from our partners so no one has a right to criticize others.

I see her as being real and matured

rman:

@OP

I see her request in a different way from others.

She is just being real. Most of us conciously or subconciously have expectations that must be met before qwe committ.
Goodlooks, money, sex , security, level of education are all requirements we look out for in our potential parteners.
If we all let our potential partners know our expectations before we comitt, no one we feel short changed later.
In fact all the post about ladies being gold diggers and guys only asking for sex will be laid to rest if we all state clearly what we expect from a potential partner.
I also expect people to understand that we all have different expectations from our partners so no one has a right to criticize others.

I see her as being real and matured

true save for 1 of the conditions. Which is why I said the one that actually worries me is number #9.
The one about he should not be telling people he is an ibo boy. What the heck is that about?  

She wants a man that will renounce his origin just because he wants to date her? She has made it clear from the get-go that she is a loon and that if he wants to date her, she won't give him the same type of acceptance that she is demanding. Unless that was just her tactic to tell him she wasn't interested.

you call her mature, no arguments here. But she is a terribly selfish and mature person. Good that homeboy knows the thing he has on his hands now sha and not after binding commitments have been made.

orbaxy:

Am tempted to ask, what is it with Nigerian ladies abroad? My friend met a "sister" and they happened to get along. Naturally, emotions set in and the lady asked him the "normal" question, "watin we dey do sef"? Bobo answered "just getting along" Then she said "If na date you wan date me, i get conditions oo" Bobo asked "like"? and she answered "1. you must love me, 2. you must make friend with my mother, 3. your friends must stop coming to your house from 11pm, 4. No sex, 5. once in a while, you should give me money 6. stop associating with all those your blonde girlfriends, they irritate me, 7. i can cook for you but i will not do your laundaries 8. girls should not come to your house 9. you must learn yoruba and stop telling people that you're an igbo boy

It may sound funny but its true. This girl is from Ogun state. Typical yoruba girl.

Please don't insult me. am hot tempered.! just comment! Yoruba girls, nawa!

Drolling with laughter,,,,,,,,,,u killed me with this one,,,,,,,,,so what kind of wahala be dis? bwaahaaahaahahaah

Nakele:


Drolling with laughter,,,,,,,,,,u killed me with this one,,,,,,,,,so what kind of wahala be dis? bwaahaaahaahahaah

lol. what can i say.

she is deluded.
She is giving conditions like it is a business decision. Her demands are not too ridiculous tho but she must be ready to do the same things.
On a side note, she wants money ( for herself and her mother) but doesnt want to shine congo. does she think a guy has to ber her slave or what? she better be ready to learn Ibo too.
NO friends in her place after 6pm
NO guys must visit her and she must visit any guy. NO friendship with any guy either.

amu ukwu:


Bn a regular on this site since 2008 but refused to register. Preferred reading comments than registering. Today, I registered all because of Ms Potato. I love her comments. Girl, wherever you are, just know you brought me on board.

Really? Me?? Awww, . Im so touched

amu ukwu:


Bn a regular on this site since 2008 but refused to register. Preferred reading comments than registering. Today, I registered all because of Ms Potato. I love her comments. Girl, wherever you are, just know you brought me on board.

Guy! thats an opener!

Ms. Potato:



Really? Me?? Awww, . Im so touched

she don buy the hands. lol. show the bro some love

rman:

@OP

I see her request in a different way from others.

She is just being real. Most of us conciously or subconciously have expectations that must be met before qwe committ.
Goodlooks, money, sex , security, level of education are all requirements we look out for in our potential parteners.
If we all let our potential partners know our expectations before we comitt, no one we feel short changed later.
In fact all the post about ladies being gold diggers and guys only asking for sex will be laid to rest if we all state clearly what we expect from a potential partner.
I also expect people to understand that we all have different expectations from our partners so no one has a right to criticize others.

I see her as being real and matured

Finally someone who sees this as I do. Poster should be thankful that she is being honest and is letting it known what she requires. Would you rather she be dishonest and after
years of courtship she tell you all this? The same peeps bashing her will be the very ones who would call her dishonest if she waited to tell you her requirements.

Consider yourself lucky that she is telling you all this so you know what you are getting into. I applaud her for this, because this is how you start honest relationships.

adamsrib:

Finally someone who sees this as I do. Poster should be thankful that she is being honest and is letting it known what she requires. Would you rather she be dishonest and after
years of courtship she tell you all this? The same peeps bashing her will be the very ones who would call her dishonest if she waited to tell you her requirements.

Consider yourself lucky that she is telling you all this so you know what you are getting into. I applaud her for this, because this is how you start honest relationships.

Where's the luck? Did you really read all she said and the implications?
yeah, she might be honest in context but wats up with all that crap. Learn Yoruba, hide your igbo identity. i mean this is way too childish don't you think.?