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Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Please pardon the errors and try read through. It'll be a very concise writeup. A friend of mine is seeking for help with what she's going through and this is me trying to table it here for better advice. Her first relationship last year August crashed due to her inability to add sex to the table. Being a virgin,she just doesn't want to give in at all. Now,her main problem is that every guy she come across wants to get in between her legs by every means possible and according to her, she have encountered 4 rape attempts from her close friends. Even her dad is not spared from the temptation and keeping male friends(which has always been the best) is now a horror show. Their form of excuse is either she was "irresistible or was sending the wrong signs" She told me the last rape attempt was this afternoon by a very close friend. Her question goes thus 1) Is she possessed by some sensual spirit? 2) What do you think might be wrong with her? Because as it stands now,she is depressed, bitter,suicidal and I won't lie, this is how feminism start. What do you think is going on? Your advice is needed, I don't want to lose someone this 2020 You can bash too if you want. @Lalasticlala 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by pulsa(m): 9:44pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
StacyO: Introduce me to her, if she’s fine and cool then we are cool. 2 Likes |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nifemi25(m): 9:51pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
I couldn't remember when medal was given to someone for been a virgin.@poster are you a Virgin? If no then you are in the best position to advise her on why you aren't a virgin and how much you enjoy having sex. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by nurain150(m): 9:56pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
StacyO:tell her to be patient it a matter of time.Assuming she was a Muslim woman I would have know how to advise her better.But tho that my assumption 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Cholls(m): 10:00pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
my sister may God continue to protect her. 7 Likes |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Holumhidey(m): 10:01pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
egungun! Egungun!! Egungun!!! How many times did i call you? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by virginprincess(f): 10:07pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
That is the problem with most nigeria men, always want to have sex with any lady that is in a relationship with them, tell your friend nothing is wrong with her that how most men behave, even her own father is not left out, na wa o. tell her she will find her mr right soon. 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Bluezy13(m): 10:12pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Cholls: God should protect her because she is a virgin, abi God must be jobless. 3 Likes |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Bluezy13(m): 10:13pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
virginprincess: You actually said nothing. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
S3x is always overrated |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
She should avoid private moments with the male species,i think it will go a long way for her 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by WrittyWritter(f): 10:22pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Notin is wrong with her..it just dat some men are Bastards and it is so sad dat are father dat is supposed to protect her from dem is also one..Don't mind all those idiots bashing 4 being a virgin..d only tin I can say now is tell her to pray..may God continue to protect her. And wat u said about feminism is true dis is one of d reasons some girls hate guys nd act d way dey do 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by geesilver(m): 10:29pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
let her change her ways...... and every things will falls in place for her. sometimes what's good is not meant for one person. |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
There is nothing wrong with her. In fact my friend is facing same issue. I applaude her for having the strength and courage to keep her Virginity this far. It won't be easy for her in relationships as most guys would want to be the first to dig the hole. I suggest she works more on herself. Focus on getting skills. A guy that would be willing to wait until she is ready is hard to find but not impossible. Also she should avoid letting others to know she is a virgin unless she would get into trouble. There are jealous friends and lustful eyes hovering around so it's better she keeps it secret. Overall, she should try to avoid staying alone with an opposite sex who isn't family. Or even moving alone at night. She escaped attempted rape 4 times was by God's grace. She might not be lucky next time *Drops mic* 23 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by VicM6: 10:35pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
nurain150:Mr special adviser to muslim women... i hail u o..... advice her on how u will deliver her na 1 Like |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Hmmmm,,,, she's a good girl i like her,❤️,,,,, Lemme tell you facts,,,,,,,, In this life if we're're facing the same problem (expecially if it happens continuously) we will always link it with spiritual things,,,,,,,,, Op nothing is wrong with her,,,, it's just dat she wanna see the right one,,,,,,,,, Op i think she's so so beautiful but ,,,(if yes) She doesn't need to stress herself,,, that's one of the disadvantages,,,,,, many good and bad guys will always approach,,,,,,, . Lastly,,,, she should work on her dressing,, because her dressing or apprerance might be given wrong signal,,,,,,,, 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by MrCork: 10:41pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
StacyO: ..hello..its national dont were bra day this month....please u were bra? Color ? :size? |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
She's most likely telling these guys she's a virgin. I've also made that mistake thinking it's best to say there won't be any sexual activity of any sort with me, but it's not something you should announce to men like that 'cos some of them have a fetish for virgins and/or are simply animals. She should also be careful to make sure she's never alone with any man (no overnight visits, only meet in public places, etc). 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Pancakeey(f): 11:02pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Why would you think something is wrong with her? Now I want to know why your friend is spending alone times with guys who want to rape her??! If they were in a crowd obviously they wouldn’t try to rape her. And what’s with the virginity thing? What does she have to offer aside her virginity?? Nothing. Tell your friend to stop going to isolated places with guys that’s all I can say. The virginity brouhaha Na her problem 5 Likes |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by tobechi74: 11:09pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
StacyO:. Tell her to by as many sex books as possible so she can remove that sex barrier from her head |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by MrCork: 11:48pm On Oct 13, 2020 |
Zzor: hey miss parrot..a.k.a talk too much. Anyways I cant sleep & am wearing my £3000 vasachi boxer shots...please can u tell me a sexxy bed time story wit yor deep yoruba voice about u swimming in thong...pls hurry! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by ashybabs(m): 1:19am On Oct 14, 2020 |
that shi is real! some ladies remit a strong sexual aurora that is unusual to most. its not entirely spiritual. i know of a woman that i have experienced something similar too 2 Likes |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 1:21am On Oct 14, 2020 |
if she tries looking for a virgin boy to hook up with then i dont think she will experience the problem she is experiencing but i guess she wouldnt want to be with a virgin boy cos she is scared the virgin boy would be boring and this one u saying some of the guys she dated attempted to rape her.. biko where does she meet her guys? Beerpalour?..abi na nightclubs? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Mide3367: 1:22am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Pancakeey:your virginity line caught me. I guess u are jealous that a virgin still exist 5 Likes |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by 444crop: 1:44am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Being a virgin is not a guarantee you hv md it in life, it's not a sign of pure perfection neither does it imply that you are far better than non virgins.... If you feel to have sex, it's your biz, if not, that's no body's problem.... But my one cent is, how would u know truly your sexuality before settling down |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 2:00am On Oct 14, 2020 |
StacyO:It's Obvious Dat Her Problem Could Be Spiritual. It Could Av To Do With Marine Spirit Or Evil Foundation. U May Ask Her If She Has Spirit Husband ( A Man Who Comes Almost Every Night To Lie With Her) Or Ask If Any Female In Her Family Or Related To Her Av Had Similar Experience Or Re-occuring Experience Abt Dis? (evil Foundation) |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Nobody: 2:02am On Oct 14, 2020 |
nifemi25:4rm Ur Comments It's Obvious Dat U Are A Pervert. Would U Allow Ur Blood Sister To Be A Victim Of Dis? |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by OlawaleDaniels: 2:09am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Is ok |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by CaptMarvel(m): 3:41am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Even her dad.? That's madness!! That man should be sent to the bars before she raped her. I was in a no sex relationship that lasted 2years but it crashed though! It's all about the guidelines of the relationship, and also she should be careful of who she dates, date responsible and godly men so she won't be drugged and raped. She should learn to dress responsibly and not provocative so she won't be sending the wrong signals. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by properties4sale: 4:29am On Oct 14, 2020 |
StacyO:Send me a PM . Where is her location? |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by Theboy21: 6:19am On Oct 14, 2020 |
Motivational speakers up there from the ones that failed to resist a dick and Savage guys that will definitely make an attempt too |
Re: Anything Wrong With Her?? by fattprince(m): 6:31am On Oct 14, 2020 |
WrittyWritter:Writty writer that doesn't have any story on nairaland yet. Hope your first book wouldn't be about some men that are just bastards. You know there are good men, right? Like me, write about those ones. |
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