₦airaland Forum

Is it normal to compare your ex to your new boyfriend/girlfriend? How do you feel when your boyfriend,girlfriend or wife compares you with his/her ex? Does it mean you are not ready to date again? or still stuck on your ex?

Please I really need a honest answers no jokes

Not a good idea bro. It makes ladies go gaga and I wouldn't want my ex to compare me with her ex.

Each and every one of us is unique and special. There are some qualities i possess that my Ex gonna boost abt me 2 his current guy, that is if she has found one. I dnt lik my gal tellin me abt her Ex. It is none of my buziness.

Ekpoma1:
Each and every one of us is unique and special. There are some qualities i possess that my Ex gonna boost abt me 2 his current guy, that is if she has found one. I dnt lik my gal tellin me abt her Ex. It is none of my buziness.

OK

vitool:
Not a good idea bro. It makes ladies go gaga and I wouldn't want my ex to compare me with her ex.

K

Its a normal thing, anybody can do that having dhat kind of thought within your mind but without letting it known to her/him but if she let it out of her mind by sayin this to you them drop her and face the next available who'll appreciate you better.

women,

I m me
he doesnt v compare me
n if he does
does nt v tell me
n if he s nt cool wt it
he jst jst 4k d hell off

Omolola1:
Its kind of normal for a gurl to compare her current bf with her ex

But then,it is not healthy fora relationship coz it means u have not met her standards

a girl who compares her guy with her ex simply does not know what she wants
and vice versa

if you admired your ex so much why is he/she an ex
whatever made you leave him is good enough to forget him and
build on what you have gone now.

alagha:
women,

[color=deeppink]women ²[/color]

U don land

[color=deeppink]i just tire [/color]

Wat? u chop beans?

[color=deeppink]im desperately looking 4 beans 2 eat[/color]

^Oyaa get in touch with Iya-Fausat at 123th broads street, birmingham, london for correct Bread and Beans.

either we admit it or not, we always make such comparisons, not healthy for d relationship, but not totally out of place.

yeah i do that all the time(in my mind of course)my current beau is so awesome,and i wonder ow i ever dated my ex

[color=DEEPPINK]SMH[/color]

smh right back at ya mister

:p :p :p

Put it like this,

If you girl compared you with all of the kondos she sucked, bleeped, licked, rode on, laced with something, and made a mold out of it. Would you still be smiling afterward?

Mrs.Chima:
Put it like this,

If you girl compared you with all of the kondos she sucked, bleeped, licked, rode on, laced with something, and made a mold out of it. Would you still be smiling afterward?

if u are not too far on d scale, nothing to cry about

yes I do and I tell my boyfriend hez way better than my ex.

googles:
yes I do and I tell my boyfriend hez way better than my ex.

dats called the feel good therapy!!!

kaycrystal:
dats called the feel good therapy!!!

no its "i tell it as it is therapy"

if my ex was dat good I would still be with him innit ?

and if my current wasnt better dan my ex I would be a fool again gerrit ?

so "its telling it as it is" sugar

It sounds like you all don't see anything wrong in comparing you with ex.cool

I can't stand people who compare people with their ex ,cause at the end of the day,if that so-called was that good,they wouldn't have been refer to as 'ex' in the first place.

REALITY101:
Is it normal to compare your ex to your new boyfriend/girlfriend? How do you feel when your boyfriend,girlfriend or wife compares you with his/her ex? Does it mean you are not ready to date again? or still stuck on your ex?

Please I really need a honest answers no jokes

Its clear your gal is not entirely happy with you,,,,,,,,thers something that u are not doing grt,,,,, look around u, otherwise someone is gonna get her

REALITY101:
It sounds like you all don't see anything wrong in comparing you with ex.cool

I have told your brother that He is the best thing since sliced bread and I will never tell him what other exes have done that is irrelevant. I do not think it is important to compare exes just like Mygoldie said if the exes were all that they weren't be exes.

I am glad my ex is an ex because I got the best thing! My ex doesn't have shit on Mr. Chima and my baby knows that!

Mygoldie!

There is nothing like having a good black man that loves you and will do anything to make the world spin right? Amen!

I wouldn't trade my husband for no amount of money and I MEAN THAT!

Never a good idea to compare you current with your ex. At least not outward or if you think your ex is better. Rule of thumb - Always date someone better than your ex otherwise you are with the wrong person. I believe you should always be with the best person for you.
My lady has no one one worthwhile to compare me with, so its all good.