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Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Chuky7(m): 7:39am On Oct 18, 2020
I find it hard to say I am attracted to a girl if I don't fantasize and ogle over her body.

I feel I need to see those features to build excitement, to want to talk to her.

but you know religion tells you otherwise. how is it even possible.



Cc Lalasticlala
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by blazepascal(m): 7:44am On Oct 18, 2020
everybody is different
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Nobody: 7:51am On Oct 18, 2020
Why not? If Ozo can do it in the house with Nengi for 3 months, why can't other men do it? grin
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Enudapan: 8:11am On Oct 18, 2020
Nah eh! No qualms

As an odogwu that takes mushin weed
I don't think, I cant love you without u being
Sexually attractive to me
Cos without that
Nah friend zone you dey

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Sirmwill: 8:21am On Oct 18, 2020
Hell No

Courtship is spiritual(sadly not in all cases) based
Marriage is highly based on sex
You will want to have something that will carry your eyes off from other girls when you get married

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Freestainworld(m): 8:30am On Oct 18, 2020
if a girl is not attracted to me sexually, what will I be doing with her, after all the good characters and qualities, you must be sexually appealing to me to balance the equation.

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Freelane33(m): 8:31am On Oct 18, 2020
FREELANE cool:: love is just a word it doesn’t matter to me lipsrsealed
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Blackmoran(m): 9:52am On Oct 18, 2020
only my sisters and my fellow guys... I don't do "let us be friends" with the opposite sex...

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by JOACHINpedro: 10:31am On Oct 18, 2020
Yea. I love my female friends. Imagine going to a female friend's wedding knowing fully well you've bleeped her one time grin
You can't but help pity the poor groom.
Damn!!! Life is wicked cheesy
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:39am On Oct 18, 2020
I'm a Christian, and i will be saying things as i believe in them.

Love has nothing to do with sexual attraction! Our world is so polluted that many people can't love without considering sex or body shape.

If you want to be in a serious relationship with a lady, it is fine to want that physical attraction (it will keep the marriage healthy and more tolerable)

But learn to love someone without being attracted to their body or what not.

Chuky7:
I find it hard to say I am attracted to a girl if I don't fantasize and ogle over her body.

I feel I need to see those features to build excitement, to want to talk to her.

but you know religion tells you otherwise. how is it even possible.



Cc Lalasticlala

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Nobody: 10:57am On Oct 18, 2020
Yes, I v loved a guy before without being sexually attracted at first. It was when we started dating I became sexually attracted to him cuz we started hanging out with each other more often and I began noticing his features.
Truth be told, he was the only guy I genuinely loved. Sadly we had to end it short for some reasons. Relationships I v had in d past were mostly bcus the person is cute or nice or friendly. But I naturally just fell in love with this guy for no just reason.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Petyprincess(f): 11:18am On Oct 18, 2020
Yes it's called agape love smiley

Jesus love is real love, he fed 5000 people and died a virgin, hw i wish all Nigerian men can be like him smiley

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by chibuike57183: 11:35am On Oct 18, 2020
Hell NoCourtship is spiritual(sadly not in all cases) basedMarriage is highly based on sexYou will want to have something that will carry your eyes off from other girls when you get married
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Nobody: 11:39am On Oct 18, 2020
Freelane33:
/♧[s]FREELANE cool:: love is just a word it doesn’t matter to me lipsrsealed [/s]

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by baralatie(m): 11:40am On Oct 18, 2020
blazepascal:
everybody is different
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Nobody: 11:41am On Oct 18, 2020
JOACHINpedro:
Yea. I love my female friends. Imagine going to a female friend's wedding knowing fully well you've bleeped her one time grin
You can't but help pity the poor groom.
Damn!!! Life is wicked cheesy
pity the groom because his wife to be had sex with you? lmao

someone out there is currently smashing your future wife so you better let go of that dumb mindset

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Weirdberg1: 11:42am On Oct 18, 2020
To answer that question, you need to first ask yourself what love is.

What you just describe is not love. It is a trick of evolution to get you to procreate in other to preserve our specie.

Notice that this feeling is compulsive. Love is not compulsive. Notice also that this feeling is directed toward the opposite sex (if you are not gay). Does that mean you can not love your child, an animal, or even an object. If you can, why are you not having sex with them.

The compulsions of sex is necessary to preserve any specie that is not as intelligent as a human. if any specie loses this compulsion they will become extinct.

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by JOACHINpedro: 11:43am On Oct 18, 2020
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pity the groom because his wife to be had sex with you? lmao

someone out there is currently smashing your future wife so you better let go of that dumb mindset
.
Team #virginwife wink
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:43am On Oct 18, 2020
Sex is very important in a marriage but it is not the foundation, love is!

Physical attraction is needed of course.

I have visited faithful couples and i realise how many of them treat themselves as friends and not just some legally approved sex partner, that is love at its purest. The reason they are faithful was not just because they were having sex together

chibuike57183:
Hell NoCourtship is spiritual(sadly not in all cases) basedMarriage is highly based on sexYou will want to have something that will carry your eyes off from other girls when you get married
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Nobody: 11:43am On Oct 18, 2020
Petyprincess:
Yes it's called agape love smiley

Jesus love is real love, he fed 5000 people and died a virgin, hw i wish all Nigerian men can be like him smiley
clown smiley
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Nobody: 11:44am On Oct 18, 2020
JOACHINpedro:
. Team #virginwife wink
her mouth and asshole has no hymen wink
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Freelane33(m): 11:46am On Oct 18, 2020
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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by LINTUNE(m): 11:53am On Oct 18, 2020
Maryjane001:
Yes, I v loved a guy before without being sexually attracted at first. It was when we started dating I became sexually attracted to him cuz we started hanging out with each other more often and I began noticing his features.
Truth be told, he was the only guy I genuinely loved. Sadly we had to end it short for some reasons. Relationships I v had in d past were mostly bcus the person is cute or nice or friendly. But I naturally just fell in love with this guy for no just reason.
we call thay, agape love, its unconditional ..
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by LINTUNE(m): 11:54am On Oct 18, 2020
Descortes:
pity the groom because his wife to be had sex with you? lmao

someone out there is currently smashing your future wife so you better let go of that dumb mindset
the guy daft no be small, ..imagine this kind of mentality, in this century? lol
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by JOACHINpedro: 11:55am On Oct 18, 2020
Descortes:
her mouth and asshole has no hymen wink
We will go for anal virginity test.
For the mouth, we go give her banana to lick in order to ascertain her oral virginity wink
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 12:51pm On Oct 18, 2020
Chuky7:
I find it hard to say I am attracted to a girl if I don't fantasize and ogle over her body.

I feel I need to see those features to build excitement, to want to talk to her.

but you know religion tells you otherwise. how is it even possible.



Cc Lalasticlala

For me it's not possible
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Bennysam: 1:00pm On Oct 18, 2020
I can't love a girl without sex , impossible
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Hugo55(m): 1:07pm On Oct 18, 2020
Weirdberg1:
To answer that question, you need to first ask yourself what love is.

What you just describe is not love. It is a trick of evolution to get you to procreate in other to preserve our specie.

Notice that this feeling is compulsive. Love is not compulsive. Notice also that this feeling is directed toward the opposite sex (if you are not gay). Does that mean you can not love your child, an animal, or even an object. If you can, why are you not having sex with them.

The compulsions of sex is necessary to preserve any specie that is not as intelligent as a human. if any specie loses this compulsion they will become extinct.


That clearly shows that sex is not love.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by virginprincess(f): 5:20pm On Oct 18, 2020
We have different kinds of love, for me i have guys i love truly, but sexual attraction is 0%.
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by FreestyleG: 8:42pm On Oct 18, 2020
virginprincess:
We have different kinds of love, for me i have guys i love truly, but sexual attraction is 0%.
You this stupid boy. When will you stop deceiving other boys? undecided
Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Uyi168: 8:46pm On Oct 18, 2020
Maryjane001:
Yes, I v loved a guy before without being sexually attracted at first. It was when we started dating I became sexually attracted to him cuz we started hanging out with each other more often and I began noticing his features.
Truth be told, he was the only guy I genuinely loved. Sadly we had to end it short for some reasons. Relationships I v had in d past were mostly bcus the person is cute or nice or friendly. But I naturally just fell in love with this guy for no just reason.
..
Who asked u all these story na??

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Re: Can You Love Someone Without Sexual Attraction by Nobody: 8:54pm On Oct 18, 2020
Uyi168:
..
Who asked u all these story na??
So I m not allowed to express myself bayi?
Na wa o.

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