Keep defending them, don't go and look for the truth

Greatzeus:

You have started talking trash. Have you ever met anyone who claims she acted porn in America as underage? Or you have read or seen a video ? You knew their age immediately you saw them. You think America is another Shithole where everything goes like where you came from? If you want to destroy a man in America,accuse him of sleeping with an underage girl,not to even talk of shooting porn with underages.
That is the only problem I have with your post. This particular lie.

Liposure:
do you agree with people who say porn helps to spice up your relationship

Yes!
Not 100% though. Cause,when you as a guy see a lady with bigger boobs than your partner's and she see's a guy with a longer dīck than yours, you both will be tempted to find someone outside of your web that might be able to satisfy that fantasy.




porn has negative and positive effects.

I only worry, because Nigeria alone is dealing with so much infidelity and cheating in marriages.

Still think porn is a NO NO for couples - especially in Nigeria.

StacyO:

Yes!
Not 100% though. Cause,when you as a guy see a lady with bigger boobs than your partner's and she see's a guy with a longer dīck than yours, you both will be tempted to find someone outside of your web that might be able to satisfy that fantasy.




porn has negative and positive effects.

Good morning

nwaezeemmanuel:
I only worry, because Nigeria alone is dealing with so much infidelity and cheating in marriages.

Still think porn is a NO NO for couples - especially in Nigeria.

Since there is no TRUST,there shouldn't be porn.

Joshater:
The one i use before na... I no get strength for plenty waka again...

No p, till then sha

Kestolove:
God bless mia khalifa

why

jimmychang:



We are gifted differently ,no be everybody go Sabi Bleep but I know one thing the first round one can cum easily due to the excitement but the second round is the real deal ....


I dont care if a woman say I can't Bleep her good...there are women who use cucumber bigger than your hand to plough their pussies ,tel
l me if you can satisfy such a woman ....

A woman that can go 7 rounds nonstop you think that is normal...my normal three round ...I go rest I can't kill myself ..

Even one round don do me to enjoy and sleep

nwaezeemmanuel:
I stated that there is intense sex and abusive sex.

The thing porn misses is communication. You can't just choke, strangle, spit and slap a woman all in one romp.

Ask if she's down for it and which she would not like. Not every woman likes being spat on.

I have watched enough of porn to know that many 'hardcore' scenes are either borderline abusive or very abusive.

Sex can be passionate without being abusive, sure you can go harder, faster, switch styles, but strangulation is extreme (and not many women can handle it)

Yeah anyone ever spit on me I would kick their balls from here to china

ReluctantAdult:

Sure, those are totally valid reasons. What do you mean you used one twice?

Well two different occasions I was on my period n my ex n I wanted to have sex so we brought some sea sponges. The pharmacist recommend them. U don't even feel them in there n they stop any blood flow til after sex is over.

U can't reuse them unless U clean them thoroughly but I prefer to throw them away they're not costly

Mrscarter:


Well two different occasions I was on my period n my ex n I wanted to have sex so we brought some sea sponges. The pharmacist recommend them. U don't even feel them in there n they stop any blood flow til after sex is over.

U can't reuse them unless U clean them thoroughly but I prefer to throw them away they're not costly

Convenient. It shouldn't even be reused at all. Lol.
What nationality are you? I can sense you're not Nigerian.

ReluctantAdult:


Convenient. It shouldn't even be reused at all. Lol.
What nationality are you? I can sense you're not Nigerian.

Am nigerian. Just that I lived abroad for a long time til recently

Mrscarter:


Am nigerian. Just that I lived abroad for a long time til recently

I see

Just Google Lovelace, may her soul rest in peace

She singlehandedly held USA spellbound during the 70s

Mrscarter:


Not all. If I'm enjoying it I'll show it but if am not I've faked in the past...U know just so my ex didn't think I was boring or not enjoying him..when really he wasn't doing that gud
Had to let him think he was doing a gud job lol...who am I to hurt his ego
Most the time tho if am not into it I would just say n try something else that got me into it. Alot of girls will fake moan so damn loud n U can tell it's fake n it's annoying.

That actually not right. There is no ego thing in sex esp in marriage. If it's boring then spice it up. When couples can healthily engage in communication within and without the sack, there will be no need to fake it. That is one thing, I believe I have encouraged and hope have achieved with my partner. We are open as regards everything. If am or she is not feeling it. She says so or I tell her. The other party works to get the other one there. Simple!

drnoel:


That actually not right. There is no ego thing in sex esp in marriage. If it's boring then spice it up. When couples can healthily engage in communication within and without the sack, there will be no need to fake it. That is one thing, I believe I have encouraged and hope have achieved with my partner. We are open as regards everything. If am or she is not feeling it. She says so or I tell her. The other party works to get the other one there. Simple!

I agree on that. But wat I was talking bout I wasn't married to my ex

drnoel:


That actually not right. There is no ego thing in sex esp in marriage. If it's boring then spice it up. When couples can healthily engage in communication within and without the sack, there will be no need to fake it. That is one thing, I believe I have encouraged and hope have achieved with my partner. We are open as regards everything. If am or she is not feeling it. She says so or I tell her. The other party works to get the other one there. Simple!

N Yea I completely agree on that when it comes to marraige.

nwaezeemmanuel:
3. Hardcore Sex Is Not What It Seems

Any porn visitor frequents this category more than others - because of its fantasy.

It involves tight hair pulling, choking, ass spanking, strangling, slapping and all sorts (usually combined) - doesn't this sound like torture?

In the real world, the only people that can tolerate that and smile back are porn actors or sex-workers hungry for money - it is not a practical way to have sex.

This category is the most viewed and has poisoned the minds of billions to think sex must involve pain and violence in exchange for orgasm.

what do you think BDSM is?

I think i highlighted this somewhere.

BDSM requires consent and should not play out like is seen in porn - when it comes to couples.

Couples who want to engage in BDSM will have to consent through each act. It will be unhealthy and abusive without communication (this is where porn misses it)

Tabasco23:
what do you think BDSM is?

ReluctantAdult:


Convenient. It shouldn't even be reused at all. Lol.
What nationality are you? I can sense you're not Nigerian.

which one is sea sponges again. Just because of prik

If a lady is in her period, and wants to have sex. It is very important

Benwallt:
which one is sea sponges again. Just because of prik

But the fucking is real bah? I want to know if I've been wasting my time watching gay porns.

True that about the negative effect of porn. I mean I can't get down with a queer guy unless I face Bleep him. I mean, I'll have to see him as a IndecentStar before having sex with him .

Of course, it is. The thing about porn is that the extra effects they add on confuses and misleads a good number of people sexually.

So, you're gay?!

FuckHomophobes:
But the fucking is real bah? I want to know if I've been wasting my time watching gay porns.

True that about the negative effect of porn. I mean I can't get down with a queer guy unless I face Bleep him. I mean, I'll have to see him as a IndecentStar before having sex with him .

nwaezeemmanuel:
Of course, it is. The thing about porn is that the extra effects they add on confuses and misleads a good number of people sexually.

So, you're gay?!

Oh now I get, thanks for the clarification. I guess I'll need to undergo therapy because it's seriously affecting me. I only cum when watching porn and can go as far as the entire video length up to an hour plus before releasing.

But when it's time to perform the real action, my dic.k goes hard and flaccid at the same time because I don't usually find my sexual partner as attractive as those pornnstars.

Oh, I am gay.

I understand. This just means porn has hijacked your normal sex drive.

You can mend things by abstinence. Your sex drive will recover slowly. If you cant do it on your own, seek trusted help.

This was my experience as well, but after my last commitment to quit my addiction - I realised a healthier sex drive, my urges were normalised, not the kind that is only triggered by porn.

FuckHomophobes:


Oh now I get, thanks for the clarification. I guess I'll need to undergo therapy because it's seriously affecting me. I only cum when watching porn and can go as far as the entire video length up to an hour plus before releasing.

But when it's time to perform the real action, my dic.k goes hard and flaccid at the same time because I don't usually find my sexual partner as attractive as those pornnstars.

Oh, I am gay.

nwaezeemmanuel:
5. The Cum You See Is Not Always Cum

Shocker! A porn actress once exposed the secret behind the full stretchy projectile of sperm that is always splashed on faces.

What they use often is usually heartburn medicine or soap squeezed from a syringe. They focus their camera on the actresses' face just to hide the source of the fake sperm that gets ladies viewing turned on.

soap ke....but it goes inside there mouth n sometimes they swallowed it....will they consume wat is knowingly harmful to them all in the name of acting?

Not all scenes use fake cum. The fake ones are just for show, splashing on the face or other body part. Usually comes in when the male actor is drained (but they want it to look like he's not)

Porn is still in itself harmful to many of its actors. Especially those that are involved in hardcore scenes where strangulation, slapping and choking are frequent.

valentineuwakwe:


soap ke....but it goes inside there mouth n sometimes they swallowed it....will they consume wat is knowingly harmful to them all in the name of acting?

nwaezeemmanuel:
I understand. This just means porn has hijacked your normal sex drive.

You can mend things by abstinence. Your sex drive will recover slowly. If you cant do it on your own, seek trusted help.

This was my experience as well, but after my last commitment to quit my addiction - I realised a healthier sex drive, my urges were normalised, not the kind that is only triggered by porn.

Thing is I've tried so hard in the past to but mehn, I keep falling back.

Trusted help? The last person I collaborated with to quit together went back and it affected me.

Oh, I forgot to mention, I may have normalised masturbation and watching porn.

Oh wait, it seems I'm mixing it up. Are we talking about masturbation or porn?

Relapse is not new. I relapsed several times.

Your experience requires PM abstinence - staying away from porn and masturbation.

To normalise your sex drive, you don't want to get turned on or cum only when you watch porn or masturbate. There is a huge link between the two.

If you feel you may need therapy, go for it. Normalising masturbation and porn can have so many downsides. Can you at least try to dial it down?

FuckHomophobes:


Thing is I've tried so hard in the past to but mehn, I keep falling back.

Trusted help? The last person I collaborated with to quit together went back and it affected me.

Oh, I forgot to mention, I may have normalised masturbation and watching porn.

Oh wait, it seems I'm mixing it up. Are we talking about masturbation or porn?

nwaezeemmanuel:
Relapse is not new. I relapsed several times.

Your experience requires PM abstinence - staying away from porn and masturbation.

To normalise your sex drive, you don't want to get turned on or cum only when you watch porn or masturbate. There is a huge link between the two.

If you feel you may need therapy, go for it. Normalising masturbation and porn can have so many downsides. Can you at least try to dial it down?

PM abstinence mehn, okay to be frank with you, during the day, I don't usually think about things that'll get me turned on. But during the night, especially at midnight, the urge to watch porn and masturbate is very killing. Like I would feel like dying. It doesn't help the fact t that my huzzle requires me to be up at night hence there's no escape.

P.S: I don't even know why I'm baring my mind here. Wow

My God! This is similar to my story. Bro, i believe you can control it. My nights used to be terrible, would masturbate multiple times after watching hours of porn - it didn't change even when i would fall sick.

I was that messed up. As much as you can, don't blame yourself - addictions thrive in guilt. What helped me was that i started to have conversations with myself before watching it.

Porn never made me happy and the more i understood that, the lower the chances i watch it in the end. Up until i formed new healthy habits and it became history.

FuckHomophobes:


PM abstinence mehn, okay to be frank with you, during the day, I don't usually think about things that'll get me turned on. But during the night, especially at midnight, the urge to watch porn and masturbate is very killing. Like I would feel like dying. It doesn't help the fact t that my huzzle requires me to be up at night hence there's no escape.

P.S: I don't even know why I'm baring my mind here. Wow

Sharing this much because you're sharing too and because i want you to know it is possible to gain control.

Be ready for that. It is hard, but you would better off in the long run.

People that know me say i am a good listener, perhaps that's why you're sharing this much. Who knows?

nwaezeemmanuel:
My God! This is similar to my story. Bro, i believe you can control it. My nights used to be terrible, would masturbate multiple times after watching hours of porn - it didn't change even when i would fall sick.

I was that messed up. As much as you can, don't blame yourself - addictions thrive in guilt. What helped me was that i started to have conversations with myself before watching it.

Porn never made me happy and the more i understood that, the lower the chances i watch it in the end. Up until i formed new healthy habits and it became history.