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What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by sirdumle: 9:10am On Oct 24, 2020
1. *Many young people have too high expectations of human nature and love.* They always tend to have unrealistic expectations, so it's easy for them to get hurt.

2. *Many young people think too much, but do too little.*
We should take care of the things in front of us. Especially in work, we must find ways to make ourselves outstanding. We don’t have to compare ourselves with others, but we can compare today with yesterday.
After starting to work, there are many things no one tells us specific answers, so we need to observe the changes around us, learn what we are not good at and improve.

3. *Many young people are too eager for success.*
What they only value ​​is the result, while the process is ignored. But without the right process, how can people get good results?

4. *Many young people are too rash about lifelong choices.*
When choosing a school, a major, the first job, a partner, some young people are too reckless. Most of them rely on feelings, and they didn’t do any detailed research or consulted experienced people when choosing. In this way, making the wrong choice is a high-probability event. For most of things in life, once you choose wrong, you can hardly go back.

5. *Many young people are easily influenced by some seemingly right opinions.*

6. *Many young people neglect themselves too much.*
When being bullied, they say nothing. When their own interests are violated, they do not strive for it. When there are something they don't want to do, they do not refuse. Young people should learn how to fight for themselves

7. *Some young people tend to "rationalize" their laziness.*
Subconsciously, they are too optimistic, and always feel that "life will gradually get better" and "I haven't started to work hard", while their planning of life is always lagging behind.

8. *Many young people do not see their future responsibilities , do not cherish time , and do not understand that time is their greatest capital.
They think that their life is still long, there is plenty of time, many things are not in a hurry to do, and they have the opportunity later to work hard to accomplish some things eventually. Thus, they waste a lot of time. But In fact, as time flies by, the cost of testing and making mistakes will become higher and higher.

9. *Some young people always consider many things from their own perspective* , never from the perspective of the industry/organization/leader/trend. They cares too much about themselves, enlarges their feelings, and ignores the facts itself.

10. Many young people are unwilling to compliment others.

Source: quora.com
Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by dingbang(m): 9:12am On Oct 24, 2020
Very true.
Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by thesicilian: 9:14am On Oct 24, 2020
Many of us are too busy with "now" and have no solid plans for the future, like 10, 20yrs from now.

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Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by Nobody: 9:16am On Oct 24, 2020
Humans not youths
Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by dingbang(m): 9:17am On Oct 24, 2020
thesicilian:
Many of us are too busy with "now" and have no solid plans for the future, like 10, 20yrs from now.
my brother. Same thing I was telling someone months ago, the person was really focused on the "now" and I wondered whether they just wanted to force God to leave his throne and attend to all their wishes.
Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by icebird25(m): 9:18am On Oct 24, 2020
Nice write up bro ...If you are a young man here and your dad isn't among the elite group in this country or a politician ..and you decided to heed to what the op is saying ..on your own .you all should go and join HK and let's bomb together ...we are the monsters they made
Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by Shortyy(f): 9:38am On Oct 24, 2020
Your number 8. See, sometimes there's a situation you'll find yourself, you'll have no option than to take life easy. No one wishes to be in pathetic situation. But when you find yourself there, have patient, try your best and believe that things will get better.

Don't go struggling and worrying yourself over things you can't control nor fix. Yes, time waits for no one, but don't kill yourself because you are not where you want to be yet. With great hard work, and prayer. You'll surely be favoured.
Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by Nobody: 9:42am On Oct 24, 2020
Hmm
Re: What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by chatinent: 10:06am On Oct 24, 2020

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