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Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Chingyyy878: 7:14am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Weddings are so expensive nowadays. To young people that want to start their lives, go to court and have a small dinner with your close friends and family. You can do the party if you’d like years later. Thanks! 203 Likes 16 Shares
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Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Lovemeharder(f): 7:54am On Dec 02, 2023 |
I also prefer a small marriage blessing or court wedding, cos after all the huge spending in doing one Big white wedding nobody will look you and your wife's face. The last wedding I attended, I saw very few gifts that was presented to the couples and it was not encouraging at all. People will come, eat and drink well, then go back to thier respective homes. 152 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Lovemeharder(f): 7:55am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Chingyyy878: God bless you sir. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Nobody: 9:22am On Dec 02, 2023 |
What about traditional wedding? 9 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by ednut1(m): 9:42am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Samantha124:have you seen the bride price list of some places in Nigeria You have to settle people in the villages many items. Court is the way to go. But there are alot of women who want the paparazzi wedding of which they will contribute nothing financially. 99 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Nobody: 9:45am On Dec 02, 2023 |
We are Africans and traditional wedding is part of who we are. ednut1: 63 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by ednut1(m): 9:48am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Samantha124:rest, court marriage is recognized by law and it’s cheap 46 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 02, 2023 |
So to hell with our African heritage, right? ednut1: 23 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by ednut1(m): 9:54am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Samantha124:female gender mutilation is an heritage in many African societies. Child marriage too. Are you in support of , After-all its heritage 97 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 02, 2023 |
It doesn't matter how I feel or think about it because they're not part of my culture and we need to learn to respect other people's cultures as long as they don't interfere with ours. And besides, traditional wedding is a celebration which involves uniting two people who are in love. ednut1: 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by ItisWell22(f): 10:06am On Dec 02, 2023 |
The crowd sef can be scary atimes. 😟 Do it small, and live your personal lives large. ✌️ 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Chingyyy878: 1:19pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
ednut1: 💯 |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:12pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Some young couples have the money to do big expensive wedding, so rest, at the end of the day couples would do whatever they like. 3 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Magnoliaa(f): 2:16pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Well, since it's for people who want to "start their lives now," no problem. Not for me by a long stretch. And why is a marriage referred to as 'starting one's life?' All the years wey you don dey live, nko? 14 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Reelmii: 2:57pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
...like i always tell people,, wedding is 24hrs....while marriage is for life..... But people focus more on preparing for wedding and only few prepare for marriage.... So weather u are having a big or small wedding.....focus more on preparing for marriage 13 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Treasure17(m): 2:57pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Marriage is overrated. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by b0rn2fuck(m): 2:57pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
True talks, you can't spend millions on wedding that might not even last to a year. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by BigDawsNet: 2:58pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Make it simple... No do pass urself You can always make it up with anniversary when things get better 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by zombieHUNTER: 2:59pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Lovemeharder: Loud weddings means long life together Small weddings means divorce in 6months time choose wisely |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by GboyegaD(m): 3:00pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Unfortunately, as a people, irrespective of age bracket, we love to seek validation even from people who don't matter; thus, many wouldn't yield to such noble advice. 14 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by AntiChristian: 3:01pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Court wedding na bondage! You can increase the chains if you go abroad together! I have the options of up to four Nikaah! 9 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by JagabanBorgu: 3:01pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
White wedding is a western culture that the church made it look like that's what God wants. Even in the west, it's not as expensive as they make it look in Nigeria. Weddings and Burials are expensive events in Nigeria which is uncalled for. 14 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by TrustNone: 3:01pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:that is for immoral sinners like you that advocate for cohabiting and sex before marriage |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by casualobserver: 3:01pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Chingyyy878: You stole this from twitter verbatim . At least be decent enough to acknowledge the author 16 Likes
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Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by TrustNone: 3:02pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth:just shut up please 7 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by ATEAMS: 3:02pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Oook |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by uchwar1: 3:02pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Many females on this topic |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by CoronaVirusPro: 3:03pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Brilliant! Marriage is not about the celebrations, it’s about the life after the celebration! 1 Like |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by being(m): 3:04pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Samantha124:Who says culture has to be static?! Culture is dynamic samantha.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by Babyboyforeal(m): 3:05pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
ednut1:in where i came from Edo state we don't play with traditional marriage it's highly regarded 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by jiz: 3:05pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Parental consent is the marriage then notify the government about it at registry and proceed to God's presence for blessings. That's all......Reception will drain your resources. Use that money to start your home ! 6 Likes |
Re: Advice To Young People Who Want To Wed by tollyboy5(m): 3:06pm On Dec 02, 2023 |
Samantha124:I will not do court wedding . God 4bid, i will gather money do traditional wedding in a little way that's all. 2 Likes |
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