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Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by eaddyboy: 7:02pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
I have observed that some married women later on in life start loving and caring for their children even more than their husband (her lover) by her actions, words, body language and also her inactions. Even to the point of abandoning and neglecting the man even at old age to align with the children and having more emotional attachment to the children than the man, could it be as a result of hormones or blood but they do this in such a natural way that they feel right and good about themselves concerning their actions and inactions which i am not comfortable with I don't know why but I would want some contribution leading to clarity on this, if you can relate or have an experience as regards to the topic I would appreciate if you share with us. N/B: I'm not in any way against women or bashing them, just seeking clarity as I'm concerned. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by swiz123(m): 7:08pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
What is your business if your wife loves your kids more than you? Heck, you should love your kids more than her 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 7:15pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
eaddyboy: The truth is many couples don't know how to keep the love they share burning So wen work, children and other activities come,it dosent give them space to work on their relationship. That's why the oyibo:s keep going on date night, vacation , even therapy to make sure their relationship keeps going. So it's up to the couple to consciously work on their relationship weda children dey or not. Also they must make time for each other by all means 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 7:22pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
swiz123:smh.... |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 7:38pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
swiz123: Spouses should be each other's first priority, and not the kids. The children should be secondary. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 7:40pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
eaddyboy: I believe these kind of issues should be addressed at the beginning of the relationship to avoid misunderstandings and resentments later on. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 7:46pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
eaddyboy:This issue tire me, I think it starts when, the kids start coming, smart ladies strike a balance between the hubby and kids. Well, men are like tractors used in constructing road, but usually don't enjoy the road. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 7:47pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:True, but things can change along the line.. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 7:55pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: Well, it is up to the couple, especially the husband, to make things work no matter what. They should try to take time to themselves aside the kids, no matter how occupied they are. Like a You and me time The husband also should be involved with the kids, not leaving most of that responsibility to the wife. That is how the neglect usually starts. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 7:58pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: That usually happens when most of the responsibilities concerning the kids are left to the wife. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 8:43pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Na so.. I have a family frnd, her kids are taken care of by domestic staff, no one cooks her hubby's food except her. Infact, some weekends, they usually hang out to return sunday...Despite her undivided attention towards her hubby, she still have special time for each of her kids... And still manages some of her hubby's business. Na wife weh share her time well go enjoy hubby and kids palliative... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 8:48pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Not so all the time o, some women are so glued to their offspring, to extent of forgetting the man weh pound the work.. My aunt na case study. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 8:58pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 9:09pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:lol, ur partner is your partner o, the kids will grow up, to have their own partners, and it will definitely not be any one the parents... Watch match ke... The woman is equally, enjoying na, abii na only the man follow th go weekend getaway... She has enough time for herself o. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 9:15pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Wetin happen?. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 9:18pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: I been confuse your comment, then I come see say we dey the same boat, come delete my post Although, I don't agree that the children should be left to the domestic staffs. No way! Men are always looking to buy their ways out of responsibilities. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 9:22pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: The men should get involved with the kids. The more you spend time with the kids, the more they'd love to spend time with you, instead of only mummy. It's called Connection seeking |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 9:27pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:To wash their clothes and cook... Men are battling to secure more time from their women. Some women always hide behind taking care of kids to run away from oga,wit i am tired... |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by frozen70(f): 9:31pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
eaddyboy: Your observations are in order But the truth is that, men who abandon their wives and cheat on them of which the wives knows about it are the ones who fall into this category of men Women are like a garden, once you abandon or neglect your garden, weeds will take over it and you end up with poor cropping and harvest 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 9:33pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Na so, mtn connection...house husband o kwaya... |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
some men dedicate all their time hanging out with friends ,when they return home at night they will be too tired to bond with their wives instead they will bond with their phones and the woman when she is tired of seeking for their husbands affections divert whatever emotions they have for husband to the children. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by RightToReject(m): 10:03pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
The reason isn't far-fetched; a thing like this is bound to happen once a wife's core interest (and vice versa) in her husband is based on his material/physical possession. Once the material thing that's the object of attraction isn't appealing to her again or unavailable, her "love" for him will automatically die. However, when a wife's core interest in her husband is based on his attribute/immaterial thing, her love for him will never die, provided that he remains true to himself. Summarily, a husband's ability to maintain and sustain his wife's core interest in him is the only sure way to continually command her love. Every aristocratic man knows this secret; thus, the reason why the most important thing he observes in a woman of interest is her core interest in him and establishes if it's something he can cheerfully sustain and maintain in the short run or long run. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 10:06pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: Make oga go stay oneside small na...ogini di? |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 10:08pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: Excuses |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 10:15pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
mariahAngel:.. If oga begin stay one side with one sabi babe, una go complain... |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by mariahAngel(f): 10:35pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Munzy14: Hey! ...and they resort to blackmail Men and tantrums are like....help me insert that Zuma meme |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by Munzy14(m): 9:16am On Oct 27, 2020 |
mariahAngel:My favorite bible part, na booK of proverbs, especially the areas solomon advised men and wonen... |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by eaddyboy: 9:25am On Oct 27, 2020 |
HRHQueenPhil:Exactly! You've made valid points |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by eaddyboy: 9:27am On Oct 27, 2020 |
swiz123:My concerned is that the love and bond between the husband and wife should be intact even after children comes into the picture. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by eaddyboy: 9:30am On Oct 27, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Oh yes, they knew each other first before the children arrived, hence their accord and bond should be intact. |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by eaddyboy: 9:34am On Oct 27, 2020 |
frozen70:A classic case of what goes around comes around abi |
Re: Why Do Some Women Do This To Their Husband ? by eaddyboy: 9:39am On Oct 27, 2020 |
Chimpretty:in some cases, could be due to the nature of the husband's work as he could be away for weeks or months and the wife is left with the children, in this situation it's natural for the children to bond and have more emotions with who they spend time with the most and vice versa as the case maybe. 1 Like |
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