IkpuNnegiEwu44:



Red flag! I won't judge until I hear from the other side.

Your husband had crisis and was taken care of by his siblings(abduction according to u) what effort did u make? Are u sure u didn't abandon Ur husband?

He died in 2018, why is this story coming up now?

I won't judge this until i hear from the other side.

Playing the tribal card won't sell.

A woman whose sick husband is being taken care of by relatives, should give an intelligent person hindsight that all is not well with the marriage. If you dig deep, u may find out she abandoned the husband until he died, she now came to claim property.

I'm not in support of the man's siblings, but a wife that abandons a sick husband or was in dispute with a deceased husband must not be allowed to near the man's inheritance.

thorpido:


Those saying she abandoned her husband when he was sick,i don't know how some of you read!
She travelled to be with her mum when she was close to give birth.It is not stated that the husband was sick at that time.He most likely developed a crisis after she had left.

By the way,is that why she would even be denied access to her husband's remains in the mortuary and even denied burial presence?Uwa mmebi.

Cantonese:




Your judgement is completely one sided.

You did not hear from the man's family. You did not hear from her how she related with her inlaws. You did not hear from her if she encouraged the man to cut off his family? You do not even know whether she charmed the man into marriage with her. Don't forget that some women get juju to make men marry them?

The woman said in her statement that she travelled to be with her mum when her husband was in crisis. That's very sad to hear. Who did she abandon the man for? The siblings obviously covered up for her when she travelled as her children were too young to play the role. I take it that there was no good relationship between her and her inlaws for 13 years and they cut her off in their pain.

The woman then turned sentimental and has tried to blackmail the Igbos. If she married a fellow Yoruba would that not have happened to her? The Yorubas are known to battle it to the last over properties of their deceased sons.

It is very important for women to have good relationships with their inlaws. Do not wish your husband's mother to die. Do not wish to marry a man without a mother. Do not stop a man from relating with his family, especially if the man comes from a united and peaceful home. Do not carry the war in your own father's house to your husband's home. Try to make good friendships with two or more of your husband's people. In the sad case of a loss or battle for properties, your friend's within your husband's siblings will fight for you.

Yorubas prefer to marry Igbo men because they feel better taken care of. You may verify that. Please erase your sentiments and let's all live in peace.

IkpuNnegiEwu44:



Red flag! I won't judge until I hear from the other side.

Your husband had crisis and was taken care of by his siblings(abduction according to u) what effort did u make? Are u sure u didn't abandon Ur husband?

He died in 2018, why is this story coming up now?

I won't judge this until i hear from the other side.

Playing the tribal card won't sell.

A woman whose sick husband is being taken care of by relatives, should give an intelligent person hindsight that all is not well with the marriage. If you dig deep, u may find out she abandoned the husband until he died, she now came to claim property.

I'm not in support of the man's siblings, but a wife that abandons a sick husband or was in dispute with a deceased husband must not be allowed to near the man's inheritance.

Midas01:
Even before reading this I knew the husband had to be igbo.

Sincerely, igbos need to do away with the culture of depriving their late brother/son's wife of her right to his property.

Stop setting your eyes on things that are not yours, work for your own.

I have never heard of such case in my tribe. It doesn't happen. Your brother's property is for his wife and children.

Advice to women : Pls, if a man deprives you of your right to work and earn your own money, DO NOT HEED TO IT. If you must heed to it then he should pay you monthly salary.

Never ever live your life at the mercy of someone else wether you're married or not.

Yoruba Men (Families are also guilty of this)My case as an example.cos when he my hubby died they took everything from me I was only lucky to leave with my credentials but all thanks to God.

Cantonese:



Taaaaaaaaa make we hear something.

Is it better in Delta state. In such cases Delta state ranks among the worst please. I mean all communities in Delta state, whether Urhobo, Isoko, Itsekiri, Ijaw, Ukwuani, Agbor, etc. Do you need examples in Delta state?

These issues happen in families where you have greedy, covetous nd wicked people, irrespective of tribe.

thorpido:
Oga read the English well.There's nowhere in her statement that she travelled when her husband was in crisis.

ransomed:
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Are you daft?
She went to take care of her pregnancy and before she could return the man was gone. She gave the history of the late husband's ailment and all you could gather was gold digging. If the man had been your brother, you would have done worst than the usurpers.
Apri ogologi...

Lucyspa:



It's clear that you don't understand English. She said that she was pregnant then travelled to stay with her mom in Ondo state. The husband then had a crisis because of his ulcer and family came to take him away to an unknown location. If u read without being bias, u will understand that she is what she said. Before you quote me chatting shit know that I am from Orumba North local Govt, Agbiligba Nanka, Nanka in Anambra state.

Odidigboigbo:
You lied, the whole worlds knows that it is only Igbos that extended families drag properties with nuclear families. Don't try to cover-up, you people should change your ways.

Mrscarter:


So the man would have wanted his family on the streets begging after his death?
Wat I'm seeing is greedy siblings.
I agree his children should atleast inherit and children need their mother

Cantonese:




Your judgement is completely one sided.

You did not hear from the man's family. You did not hear from her how she related with her inlaws. You did not hear from her if she encouraged the man to cut off his family? You do not even know whether she charmed the man into marriage with her. Don't forget that some women get juju to make men marry them?

The woman said in her statement that she travelled to be with her mum when her husband was in crisis. That's very sad to hear. Who did she abandon the man for? The siblings obviously covered up for her when she travelled as her children were too young to play the role. I take it that there was no good relationship between her and her inlaws for 13 years and they cut her off in their pain.

The woman then turned sentimental and has tried to blackmail the Igbos. If she married a fellow Yoruba would that not have happened to her? The Yorubas are known to battle it to the last over properties of their deceased sons.

It is very important for women to have good relationships with their inlaws. Do not wish your husband's mother to die. Do not wish to marry a man without a mother. Do not stop a man from relating with his family, especially if the man comes from a united and peaceful home. Do not carry the war in your own father's house to your husband's home. Try to make good friendships with two or more of your husband's people. In the sad case of a loss or battle for properties, your friend's within your husband's siblings will fight for you.

Yorubas prefer to marry Igbo men because they feel better taken care of. You may verify that. Please erase your sentiments and let's all live in peace.

Lucyspa:



They don't drink water anymore but they still shave their heads.

coolsegun2002:


If you don’t , that’s an indication you are the one who killed your husband...double wahala!!!

favor914:
Ethnicist is Akwa Ibom igbo?

Indigbo:


Best LESSON is:

MAKE SURE YOU ADD YOUR WIFE'S NAME ON YOUR PROPERTY like Mr Burnaboy Okoro and Mrs Savage Okoro.

Any family member near the property will rot in jail. Tested and Trusted. Thank me later!

Cantonese:



Stop playing the ostrich here please, especially if you are from the south west.

This issue of properties after the demise of any of the couple is not confined to the Igbos only. It is an age long matter with the Yorubas and other African tribes. It is even worse in the south west. It is the norm of Africans to lay claim on properties at the demise of their siblings.

I have met Yoruba women who have requested their husband's to build personal houses for them so that at the demise of the man, her husband's family in claiming the man's properties would not claim that particular one.

Go to the courts today and you'll find too many cases of family members battling over properties.

dadavivo:


This thing happens in other tribe. My friend step brother died and his own mother children bounced on his wife and took all their properties in Abuja, but she went to court and won, hands down. They're both from Ogoja Cross River State

Cantonese:


Thank you my English teacher.

"Chatting shit" depicts improper mannerism in a public forum as this.

I perceive Nanka people to be very brutal as I had a bitter first hand experience with the a Nanka lady in such a matter 10 years ago, with the loss of a young man very close to me.

I've not looked at the matter from with a bias, if you look at my comments carefully. You agreed with the lady's story, hook, line and sinker without taking your time to think about the extremes in such issues. I looked at the extremes on the basis of experience. Women give wrong information in such matters to make their husband's families look like the devil.

We can proceed decently and objectively, if you want, without recourse to rudeness and insults.

Samcent:


Truth be told it's prevalent amongst the Igbos.

I have them as friends, my brother is married to an Igbo lady and my sister is married to an Igbo man.

My sister's husband is alive and well, but trust me this issue been discussed here is already staring her in the face.

My advice to any lady from outside marrying an Igbo man; be prepared!

heykims:
A lesson. Always do background rigorous check on your partner's ethnicity and cultural belief before marriage, it's not only about love.
And for those going ahead to tie the knot even when not accepted by the husband's family but rely on the ASSURANCE of love6 from the husband, LEARN.
Love is beyond husband and wife.
I hope the widow and children get their rights.

bigiyaro:
I entered to check the region, I was not disappointed, easterners be waiting for their relatives to die and pounces on their properties like vultures waiting for dead meat.

Cantonese:


Reading through her petition, can you not safely say that she was aware of her husband's health condition while she was away? She said "my husband had been taken away to an unknown location, because he had a crisis". Assumimg the crisis developed while she was in Ondo state, what did she do?

Truly no good woman fails to ensure the well being of her husband, but in this case I can safely say there was an existing feud.

Do you know that chronic ulcer is a very dangerous medical condition that needs serious attention?

Women are known to label their husband's families bad names when such things happen.

lindareep:
“I am a caterer, but my husband didn’t allow me to work when he was alive. Now, I have five children to cater for and I have been reduced to begging to survive; I have been hustling and struggling."


Lesson: Allow your wife to work biko, nobody knows tomorrow


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loveth360:
Then why did her yoruba people no give her landed properties.

nedekid:

Dont think it is a tribe issue. I hear same happens within marriage of same tribe also. It happens all over the country. It's either the full story is not being disclosed by madam or the man's family are just bad people.

IkpuNnegiEwu44:



Red flag! I won't judge until I hear from the other side.

Your husband had crisis and was taken care of by his siblings(abduction according to u) what effort did u make? Are u sure u didn't abandon Ur husband?

He died in 2018, why is this story coming up now?

I won't judge this until i hear from the other side.

Playing the tribal card won't sell.

A woman whose sick husband is being taken care of by relatives, should give an intelligent person hindsight that all is not well with the marriage. If you dig deep, u may find out she abandoned the husband until he died, she now came to claim property.

I'm not in support of the man's siblings, but a wife that abandons a sick husband or was in dispute with a deceased husband must not be allowed to near the man's inheritance.