HRHQueenPhil:
We were just friends and he insisted he wanted more . I agreed but noticed teething issues
1. He lives far from me, and since I go to see him,it's expensive for me..I use Uber and don't know how to ask him for transport
2. He dosent call all d time, I have talked about this but he refuses to change
3. He is not a strong Christian..everytime I invite him to church, he will say No..am getting frustrated as I cannot imagine dating someone who is interested in growing his spiritual life
4. He does not seem ready to settle down ..am not a kid so that scares me and I don't want to push.. he is secretive so I don't want to say it's finances that is stopping it

Apart from that, he is wonderful, sweet and so cute

Babe are you sure u are not a side chic to the guy?

PUSSYHOE:
Did he fuck_ you?

Better still. Did you guys make love?

Tadeknkeepcalm:

Tell us how it ended in premium tears. What really caused it.


In my case, it was genotype. I was open that from the beginning that what I want this to be is towards marriage. And then genotype talk came in and things went awry.
But I got a plan. I'm not backing down

You got a plan you ain't backing out. Think of your unborn kids in that your plan.

HRHQueenPhil:
We were just friends and he insisted he wanted more . I agreed but noticed teething issues
1. He lives far from me, and since I go to see him,it's expensive for me..I use Uber and don't know how to ask him for transport
2. He dosent call all d time, I have talked about this but he refuses to change
3. He is not a strong Christian..everytime I invite him to church, he will say No..am getting frustrated as I cannot imagine dating someone who is interested in growing his spiritual life
4. He does not seem ready to settle down ..am not a kid so that scares me and I don't want to push.. he is secretive so I don't want to say it's finances that is stopping it

Apart from that, he is wonderful, sweet and so cute

Errrrm. If he's a good guy and he loves you, I don't think the things you mentioned are too bad.

1) as for Transport for visiting him, when you need assistance tell him you need assistance. Communication is key. Infact how he reacts to your telling him will help you know him better. However, know that he is not obligated to give you TP at all times. Just have a balanced view, and also make sacrifices as you've obviously been making already.

2) the call thingy. Not every guy calls frequently. I for one, don't have that habit, and my woman has complained severely about it. But I keep working on improving daily. So for me, I dont think this should be a deal breaker.

3) what do you mean strong Christian? The question should be does he have integrity, is he moral and conscientious? What is the emphasis on church attendance. Las Las millions of Nigerians are church goers, but the Nation is still as corrupt as it is. See leave that church and religion thing. I for one, I'm not religious. Abeg no because of church pursue good guy o.

4) about this one, this is critically important. Ask him what his plans for both of you are. If he's matured, he shouldn't be angry with this question. Communication should be a key ingredient of your relationship. I don't think there should be no go areas. Talk about every and any concerns you may have openly with him. So that if e go work, you go know on time. Like you said, you are no longer a kid, and time no dey. So ask him without fear his plans for both of you and then you can make your decision.


Wish you guys the best.

Preshieben:
Eyaa

I for date you
unfortunately,i hate guys a lot now

Errrrm . Na to appease you remain.

How many cow we go kill for you na?

On a serious note though, a better guy is on the way for you. It may be that guy you responded sef. Many people have the kind of experience you underwent and even worse, and come out not learning anything from it. You though, seem to have learnt from it. So trust me, you have nothing to fear again. Your good guy is on the way.

Keep the comments coming

Rapsodee:
Guys gave you bad experiences, right?

nightmare

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-0o34y_bcQ

3 months and on... Still going strong.

She don't ask for recharge cards.

She calls me even if I don't call her.

She don't flash, no!

If she missed my calls, she would call.

TBH, if she asks for money and I say I don't have, she won't be angry or question me... No!

And she cooks for me with her own money. Yes!!

3 times sex with her was awesome but I want to back outta the sex for now.

Well...

YoungGeniuz:


You got a plan you ain't backing out. Think of your unborn kids in that your plan.

Yah, I am. You must be AA.
Na dem Dey dable Into matter wey no be their own

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Preshieben:
Mine.....

he called me every 2 seconds to check up on me...
took me on a date three times a week
Got me gifts and cards
las las...it all ended in premium tears


Share yours

[s][/s]

This small girl..come, Na relationship full your head?

SmellySperm:

shey if i use the same lamba will i also get the cookie?

Lol your moniker just rhyme with this post.

franklingud:
3 months and on... Still going strong.

She don't ask for recharge cards.

She calls me even if I don't call her.

She don't flash, no!

If she missed my calls, she would call.

TBH, if she asks for money and I say I don't have, she won't be angry or question me... No!

And she cooks for me with her own money. Yes!!

3 times sex with her was awesome but I want to back outta the sex for now.

Well...

What are you doing on your part to the relationship??
I mean if she does all of these, what do you contribute if I may ask

Anoth:
What are you doing on your part to the relationship??
I mean if she does all of these, what do you contribute if I may ask

Are you too dull that you don't understand simple English language?

This is what I experienced

dukeprince50:
Young man? smellysperm is in his early 70's o. pls respect ur ancestors

guy why!
I be young guy o

SmellySperm:

guy why!

I be young guy o

just catching fun bro

Gloria042:
.

Thank you young man,it's me.

wahala for who no get fine virgin hair..

where's your location?

dukeprince50:
just catching fun bro

lol i know bro...me sef need the fun pass u

life hard

Preshieben:
No dear you need to use another lamba

wahala for who no get lamba.. oya but shey the cookie go sure for me?

PUSSYHOE
ForestHill
Smellysperm

Which kind monica am I seeing on this thread.


Someone should help me tell Gloria042 - she's beautiful

franklingud:
3 months and on... Still going strong.

She don't ask for recharge cards.

She calls me even if I don't call her.

She don't flash, no!

If she missed my calls, she would call.

TBH, if she asks for money and I say I don't have, she won't be angry or question me... No!

And she cooks for me with her own money. Yes!!

3 times sex with her was awesome but I want to back outta the sex for now.

Well...

Continue deceiving yourself thinking you have met a good lady till the day it will end in premium tears

Dayoebe:
PUSSYHOE ForestHill Smellysperm
Which kind monica am I seeing on this thread.

Someone should help me tell Gloria042 - she's beautiful

you'll make an ebony girl turn red that she's blushing.Thank you Dayoebe

SmellySperm:

wahala for who no get fine virgin hair..

where's your location?

Enugu and thanks for the compliment but the afro bun is attached.

starbuck:





Continue deceiving yourself thinking you have met a good lady till the day it will end in premium tears

I don't blame you

Stephenmoka4:
Okay just get the N100 airtime, send with ID and username to 081-132-619-85

i transferd 4h to ur accnt nwnw betking (19 72 86 0)

Gloria042:
Enugu and thanks for the compliment but the afro bun is attached.

ok dear...can i have ur wats app or FB user?

bantamx:
i transferd 4h to ur accnt nwnw betking (19 72 86 0)

done

It doesn't feel right dating in this climate. I don't talk to girls for rltnshp these days I just want to have fun. I do things when I feel its right so I don't get worked up sorting some irrelevant things out.

I love my single me including the no-attachment fuuccks

HRHQueenPhil:
We were just friends and he insisted he wanted more . I agreed but noticed teething issues
1. He lives far from me, and since I go to see him,it's expensive for me..I use Uber and don't know how to ask him for transport
2. He dosent call all d time, I have talked about this but he refuses to change
3. He is not a strong Christian..everytime I invite him to church, he will say No..am getting frustrated as I cannot imagine dating someone who is interested in growing his spiritual life
4. He does not seem ready to settle down ..am not a kid so that scares me and I don't want to push.. he is secretive so I don't want to say it's finances that is stopping it

Apart from that, he is wonderful, sweet and so cute

Dont u work? ... Y would u ask him 4 money. Mtcheeeew

Stephenmoka4:
done

bless boss

Silentgroper:
Dont u work? ... Y would u ask him 4 money. Mtcheeeew

I have never asked him but I have my expenses, adding the transport to his place is more expenses..maybe I will stop going to his place..let him come to my house