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Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Leezah(f): 12:36pm On Mar 26
Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Share the story.

Yes I have. My partner was too emotional had needed my 100% attention. He gets angry and nags at the slightest thing, he calls like 10 times a day. If I don't answer, it becomes a huge problem.boy is from a very rich home and he runs her dad business so money was not his issue. So he can afford to have me on the phone all day, forget I have a job to do. he love me so much but his love was to toxic and it scares the hell out of me. I ended things off though it wasn't easy.

It was miserable, but it was a fairly natural progression, given the circumstances at hand. I don’t think anyone behaved particularly poorly.

To be honest, I don’t think categorizing people or relationships as toxic is useful. All it does is demonize human beings, when most of the time, all they’re doing is the best they can. Often enough, the intentions are good, even when the actions themselves are horrific.

We’re human. We, and our relationships, are complicated. That’s all.
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by tripplephi: 12:38pm On Mar 26
Leezah:
Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Share the story.

It was miserable, but it was a fairly natural progression, given the circumstances at hand. I don’t think anyone behaved particularly poorly.

To be honest, I don’t think categorizing people or relationships as toxic is useful. All it does is demonize human beings, when most of the time, all they’re doing is the best they can. Often enough, the intentions are good, even when the actions themselves are horrific.

We’re human. We, and our relationships, are complicated. That’s all.


why not start with your own stories. Since all you want to do is hearing bad and sad news from others.

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Leezah(f): 12:39pm On Mar 26
Done that.
tripplephi:



why not start with your own stories. Since all you want to do is hearing bad and sad news from others.
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by JunctionBox: 12:53pm On Mar 26
Here as an observer.

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by padi94(m): 1:00pm On Mar 26
So someone showing you love and giving you his time and attention is now toxic... all these girls eh. Make this Corona thing and first, una go hear from us the players.

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by SimeonOTC(m): 1:07pm On Mar 26
space,,










































bookedgrin

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Brosbeforehoes: 1:21pm On Mar 26
Mm
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by evil1: 1:25pm On Mar 26
I hate it when someone brings up a sensitive topic and some nairaland kids just jump in.

Staying in a relationship that is so toxic, that is, demands a lot of attention, jealously etc is very dangerous as it may lead to the other person thinking or doing an unspeakable thing.

Back then in Nigeria, a Nigerian will say I can't kill myself because of one useless boy/man or girl/woman but in 2020 people are actually committing suicide because of little issues in a relationship.
Yes its good to be in love and emotional but let it be with sense.

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Leezah(f): 2:47pm On Mar 26
evil1:
I hate it when someone brings up a sensitive topic and some nairaland kids just jump in.

Staying in a relationship that is so toxic, that is, demands a lot of attention, jealously etc is very dangerous as it may lead to the other person thinking or doing an unspeakable thing.

Back then in Nigeria, a Nigerian will say I can't kill myself because of one useless boy/man or girl/woman but in 2020 people are actually committing suicide because of little issues in a relationship.
Yes its good to be in love and emotional but let it be with sense.
wink
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Jacqueline22(f): 2:48pm On Mar 26
Lemme book space

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by kenodrill: 3:08pm On Mar 26
tripplephi:



why not start with your own stories. Since all you want to do is hearing bad and sad news from others.




Oga you are sure you can see clearly? Or you don't read properly.

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by hfinest1(m): 3:17pm On Mar 26
Story story??

One upon a time


One time I was dating a girl who talks too much. I mean a walking radio that doesn't know when to keep shut. And babe had mad insecurities too, but her pussy was so sweet it kept me going through the period we dated.



The day I knew her insecurities had gotten the better part of her head was the day she walked into my room in school then, saw me talking with a girl, and concluded she had a competition. Next thing she came, sat on my leg and was forcing me to kiss her. Just so that the girl will know who she is... like booking her space or marking territory.


Turns out the girl in question was my elder sister... Jeez! It was fuckn embarrassing mehn... my sis was just like "who is that frog? See how she's jumping upandan doing bebescout like mumu".


And then her mouth wey no get control. Shit! Then in school, I was actively into students politics and held a post as president of one of the social clubs on campus... Omor, this girl nearly used her mouth to remove me from office o...


The day I broke up with her wasn't easy o... We first had sex, then I broke up, then we had sex again... We were hooked on each other. Two days later, she came crying and asking to get back together. Made all promises to change and all. I couldn't resist her perfume so we bleeped again twice, then slept till night, woke up at past 11 in the night, bleeped again, and then I made it clear that I really wasn't doing again, then she got the message, and l told her to leave my room that night and go back to her hostel. It was crazy but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do... and besides, my new babe was visiting me and passing the night, and I didn't need any disturbance...

Chai! Memories��

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by 24kmagic(m): 3:54pm On Mar 26
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Stephenjay2(m): 4:33pm On Mar 26
Toxic relationship is a very deadly disease

It's kills faster than Coronavirus ����
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by AfroKnight: 4:48pm On Mar 26
Sounds more like a frustrated guy than a toxic one. Did you give him any reason to doubt you?
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by jumpampass(m): 5:50pm On Mar 26
hfinest1:
Story story??

One upon a time


One time I was dating a girl who talks too much. I mean a walking radio that doesn't know when to keep shut. And babe had mad insecurities too, but her pussy was so sweet it kept me going through the period we dated.



The day I knew her insecurities had gotten the better part of her head was the day she walked into my room in school then, saw me talking with a girl, and concluded she had a competition. Next thing she came, sat on my leg and was forcing me to kiss her. Just so that the girl will know who she is... like booking her space or marking territory.


Turns out the girl in question was my elder sister... Jeez! It was fuckn embarrassing mehn... my sis was just like "who is that frog? See how she's jumping upandan doing bebescout like mumu".


And then her mouth wey no get control. Shit! Then in school, I was actively into students politics and held a post as president of one of the social clubs on campus... Omor, this girl nearly used her mouth to remove me from office o...


The day I broke up with her wasn't easy o... We first had sex, then I broke up, then we had sex again... We were hooked on each other. Two days later, she came crying and asking to get back together. Made all promises to change and all. I couldn't resist her perfume so we bleeped again twice, then slept till night, woke up at past 11 in the night, bleeped again, and then I made it clear that I really wasn't doing again, then she got the message, and l told her to leave my room that night and go back to her hostel. It was crazy but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do... and besides, my new babe was visiting me and passing the night, and I didn't need any disturbance...

Chai! Memories��

Karma is right behind you...will soon catch up with you. No worry ohh!!

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Fisher007: 6:49pm On Mar 26
Leezah:
Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Share the story.

Yes I have. My partner was too emotional had needed my 100% attention. He gets angry and nags at the slightest thing, he calls like 10 times a day. If I don't answer, it becomes a huge problem.boy is from a very rich home and he runs her dad business so money was not his issue. So he can afford to have me on the phone all day, forget I have a job to do. he love me so much but his love was to toxic and it scares the hell out of me. I ended things off though it wasn't easy.

It was miserable, but it was a fairly natural progression, given the circumstances at hand. I don’t think anyone behaved particularly poorly.

To be honest, I don’t think categorizing people or relationships as toxic is useful. All it does is demonize human beings, when most of the time, all they’re doing is the best they can. Often enough, the intentions are good, even when the actions themselves are horrific.

We’re human. We, and our relationships, are complicated. That’s all.

I just reread this story and realise it wasn't toxic. He was just obsessed and insecured. But trust me you need a man like that though.

Once a guy doesn't call or check up on you and he is not insecure about you. Trust me he doesn't genuinely care. He probably sees you as one of them. If he really cares , his mind will not be balance until he hears your voice. Although I won't recommend any guy to follow this part, as you can see, she didn't appreciate him.

But apparently you need the heartless one. The one you will be chasing and will be forming busy. The one that will not give you attention. The one that will emotionally mess you up and eventually destroy your career. The one that once he is done with you , your thinking faculty and life will never be the same. The one that will confuse you with his mind games. The one that will abuse you sexually all in the name of forming fifty shades of grey movie scene abi. The one that will give you emotional truama. The one that will make you feel you need to do more whereas you are ok. The one that will always put you on your toes.

This is what I recommend for you guys to be. And I can guarantee you girls love guys like this. The Alpha or fake Alpha wanna be. This is the kind of guys some ladies want.

Wait for it my dear. You will soon get it. They are plenty out there nowadays since they are awoke. By the time they are done with you and have taken your prime years away. You will end up in Shiloh searching for Mr right you initially had.

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by BrainArk(m): 6:53pm On Mar 26
Leezah:
Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Share the story.

Yes I have. My partner was too emotional had needed my 100% attention. He gets angry and nags at the slightest thing, he calls like 10 times a day. If I don't answer, it becomes a huge problem.boy is from a very rich home and he runs her dad business so money was not his issue. So he can afford to have me on the phone all day, forget I have a job to do. he love me so much but his love was to toxic and it scares the hell out of me. I ended things off though it wasn't easy.

It was miserable, but it was a fairly natural progression, given the circumstances at hand. I don’t think anyone behaved particularly poorly.

To be honest, I don’t think categorizing people or relationships as toxic is useful. All it does is demonize human beings, when most of the time, all they’re doing is the best they can. Often enough, the intentions are good, even when the actions themselves are horrific.

We’re human. We, and our relationships, are complicated. That’s all.
What about your smoking Ex? who killed your baby with smoke.... seems you are unlucky with relationship ���
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Alexaonfleek(f): 6:58pm On Mar 26
Will comment if it reaches fp

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Gaggi: 9:54pm On Mar 26
Babe was sweet at first. Then came the anger issues, flares up after any small thing and goes moody for days. Always suspicious and very insecure.
She really loved me but I was tired of the daily arguments over irrelevant things. She was never wrong and the irony is that she has little experience compared to me. Whenever you prove her wrong she gets offended.
I tolerated her for awhile because I did like her but then I became tired of the negative energy and drama. She couldn't believe it when I broke it off. Cried blue murder, reigned insults, pleaded, threatened to take her life etc. Fortunately she later came to terms with it.
A very bitter sweet experience because even though it was toxic, they were lots of fun and adventurous moments.

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by DaddyRochie1642: 10:11pm On Mar 26
hfinest1:
Story story??

One upon a time


One time I was dating a girl who talks too much. I mean a walking radio that doesn't know when to keep shut. And babe had mad insecurities too, but her pussy was so sweet it kept me going through the period we dated.



The day I knew her insecurities had gotten the better part of her head was the day she walked into my room in school then, saw me talking with a girl, and concluded she had a competition. Next thing she came, sat on my leg and was forcing me to kiss her. Just so that the girl will know who she is... like booking her space or marking territory.


Turns out the girl in question was my elder sister... Jeez! It was fuckn embarrassing mehn... my sis was just like "who is that frog? See how she's jumping upandan doing bebescout like mumu".


And then her mouth wey no get control. Shit! Then in school, I was actively into students politics and held a post as president of one of the social clubs on campus... Omor, this girl nearly used her mouth to remove me from office o...


The day I broke up with her wasn't easy o... We first had sex, then I broke up, then we had sex again... We were hooked on each other. Two days later, she came crying and asking to get back together. Made all promises to change and all. I couldn't resist her perfume so we bleeped again twice, then slept till night, woke up at past 11 in the night, bleeped again, and then I made it clear that I really wasn't doing again, then she got the message, and l told her to leave my room that night and go back to her hostel. It was crazy but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do... and besides, my new babe was visiting me and passing the night, and I didn't need any disturbance...

Chai! Memories��





Are you sure the woman in your room that time was really your "Elder Sister" grin grin
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by DaddyRochie1642: 10:14pm On Mar 26
Fisher007:


I just reread this story and realise it wasn't toxic. He was just obsessed and insecured. But trust me you need a man like that though.

Once a guy doesn't call or check up on you and he is not insecure about you. Trust me he doesn't genuinely care. He probably sees you as one of them. If he really cares , his mind will not be balance until he hears your voice. Although I won't recommend any guy to follow this part, as you can see, she didn't appreciate him.

But apparently you need the heartless one. The one you will be chasing and will be forming busy. The one that will not give you attention. The one that will emotionally mess you up and eventually destroy your career. The one that once he is done with you , your thinking faculty and life will never be the same. The one that will confuse you with his mind games. The one that will abuse you sexually all in the name of forming fifty shades of grey movie scene abi. The one that will give you emotional truama. The one that will make you feel you need to do more whereas you are ok. The one that will always put you on your toes.

This is what I recommend for you guys to be. And I can guarantee you girls love guys like this. The Alpha or fake Alpha wanna be. This is the kind of guys some ladies want.

Wait for it my dear. You will soon get it. They are plenty out there nowadays since they are awoke. By the time they are done with you and have taken your prime years away. You will end up in Shiloh searching for Mr right you initially had.




Woski nigga grin



Respect

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by hfinest1(m): 1:03am On Mar 27
DaddyRochie1642:






Are you sure the woman in your room that time was really your "Elder Sister" grin grin
she was man... and it was so embarrassing and awkward��
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Eberechi24(f): 2:59am On Mar 27
You don't understand the meaning of toxic. Your story has nothing to do with toxicity. You had a gripped partner

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Leezah(f): 5:59am On Mar 27
AfroKnight:
Sounds more like a frustrated guy than a toxic one. Did you give him any reason to doubt you?
No
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Leezah(f): 6:01am On Mar 27
BrainArk:

What about your smoking Ex? who killed your baby with smoke.... seems you are unlucky with relationship ���
Yeah, I have never been lucky with relationships
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Brunicekid(m): 6:38am On Mar 27
Wow

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Humanoid01: 6:41am On Mar 27
hfinest1:
she was man... and it was so embarrassing and awkward��
Lol how did she react when she discovered?

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Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Leezah(f): 8:37am On Mar 27
Please!
Fisher007:


I just reread this story and realise it wasn't toxic. He was just obsessed and insecured. But trust me you need a man like that though.

Once a guy doesn't call or check up on you and he is not insecure about you. Trust me he doesn't genuinely care. He probably sees you as one of them. If he really cares , his mind will not be balance until he hears your voice. Although I won't recommend any guy to follow this part, as you can see, she didn't appreciate him.

But apparently you need the heartless one. The one you will be chasing and will be forming busy. The one that will not give you attention. The one that will emotionally mess you up and eventually destroy your career. The one that once he is done with you , your thinking faculty and life will never be the same. The one that will confuse you with his mind games. The one that will abuse you sexually all in the name of forming fifty shades of grey movie scene abi. The one that will give you emotional truama. The one that will make you feel you need to do more whereas you are ok. The one that will always put you on your toes.

This is what I recommend for you guys to be. And I can guarantee you girls love guys like this. The Alpha or fake Alpha wanna be. This is the kind of guys some ladies want.

Wait for it my dear. You will soon get it. They are plenty out there nowadays since they are awoke. By the time they are done with you and have taken your prime years away. You will end up in Shiloh searching for Mr right you initially had.
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by hfinest1(m): 11:05pm On Mar 27
jumpampass:


Karma is right behind you...will soon catch up with you. No worry ohh!!
bros, wetin concern karma for this matter now na


Monkey dey sleep, yanga go wake am... which one be karma again?

How karma take concern this talk abeg bro... I need understand please
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by hfinest1(m): 11:07pm On Mar 27
Humanoid01:

Lol how did she react when she discovered?
she didn't care. She was indifferent. She even insisted she was only trying to protect what is hers and said she didn't trust me...


Although the trust issue wasn't her fault sha... I already had a bad reputation in school then with the girls.

You know how school politicians are na... with power and fame, girls come around and resisting isn't so easy wink
Re: Have You Ever Been In A Toxic Relationship? Share The Story. by Leezah(f): 5:01am On Mar 28
hfinest1:
bros, wetin concern karma for this matter now na


Monkey dey sleep, yanga go wake am... which one be karma again?

How karma take concern this talk abeg bro... I need understand please
Lol

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