Sixfeetbelle:


Or simply stay submissive and endure all the travails and troubles in their relationships just like their mothers did. You'd think that someone who idolises his mother would want to be like her, but no, not these ones. They want another lady to be like their mother.

By biology or common sense, how on earth can a son be like his mom, what happens to genetics ... been like someone is limited to same sex. reason why men find women like there mom and women sometimes pray for men like there dad ... women are just low thinkers it is best one engage you guyz on matters that does not involve reasoning. tew low

SAMBARRY:


Na headache go kill all these Nigerian women bashers

As long as Aisha’s husband doesn’t have headache, they can die of their headache.

pocohantas:


As long as Aisha’s husband doesn’t have headache, they can die of their headache.

amen

naija girls fresh...mitshww spits... Latinas all the way

Shortyy:

But they won't! They want fresh loyal babes.
Lmao omo I tire abeg.

SAMBARRY:
shame on you for your mind you be man?

he he... Yes i am toots, and i don't need a woman to tell me. Any man who openly supports female antagonism towards men either has a low sense of self worth, or doesn't get pussy

We need more feminists and not footmats or f@ggots.

I feel this Hisba never work reach where Aisha dey stay

You for just wear am bra

jornwhite:



By biology or common sense, how on earth can a son be like his mom, what happens to genetics ... been like someone is limited to same sex. reason why men find women like there mom and women sometimes pray for men like there dad ... women are just low thinkers it is best one engage you guyz on matters that does not involve reasoning. tew low

You don't know what "role modelling" means, do you?


Engaging eediots on this forum gives me a headache everytime.

JastSiryin:
he he... Yes i am toots, and i don't need a woman to tell me. Any man who openly supports female antagonism towards men either has a low sense of self worth, or doesn't get pussy

yeah'right

That's what you people tell yourselves to make yourselves feel better?

Like Solomon Buchi Abi?

Make she no too praise am now make sidechick join Twitter talk her part of the story

Sixfeetbelle:


You don't know what "role modelling" means, do you?


Engaging eediots on this forum gives me a headache everytime.

Can you imagine, seems your role models are males oops!


are you just pretending to be dumber or its that period of the month again

jornwhite:




Can you imagine, seems your role models are males oops!


are you just pretending to be dumber or its that period of the month again

So in your own understanding, role models must be someone of the same gender as yours?



Okay. I'm done talking to you.

cococandy:
Watch the guy haters call him a SIMP. Any man who is a feminist, and also loves and supports a feminist is a SIMP? Lmao. Ignorance

From her explanation, he is not a simp nor feminist. the man is just what he is meant to be "a partner". i think bukytane already express my view. learn from her.

I find this lady too flippant for my liking

Wiseandtrue:
The advantage of marrying a matured man

Cherish him Aisha, men like him are not common

Abi, the man is the most civilised muslim man i have seen, even though islam opresses women, the guy is even better than some normal men

bukatyne:
Interestingly, their 'complementing themselves' still fall within standard gender roles. Maybe a 'I change the gas and my husband goes to the market' would have thrilled me.

I am happy for this little expose. At least awon 'marriage stop your goals as a woman' would give us breathing space and realize that their own husbands and not marriage is the problem.

I am curious though: how old is she to be married twenty years?

I thought she was in her early thirties.

Child marriage exists in islam she was probably married at 15-16

Sixfeetbelle:
And when we say some nairaland men are misogynistic, they'll call us bitter and frustrated. See the comments some of them are posting already over a harmless comment.

I remember when this woman was the role model for a lot of you guys on this forum. A woman that championed the cause for a mini rebellion in a country filled with cowards, a woman that became a hero, a reason, a beacon of hope for the "child men" that exists in the country, a woman that gave them a chance to exercise their anger has suddenly gone from hero to zero because she believes and practices gender equality? Why am I surprised.

Let me ask this: did you all think your so-called submissive wives could have been bold to do half of what she has done? Or that a chauvinistic husband would have let her do this much?

You all make me laugh.

Why did you bring sexism come into this, you ladies are always like this, always playing victims even though no one is talking to you, seriously this is low even for a kid.
Most guys love this woman, i fell in love with her ideology and her mindset and her husband is the best muslim man i have even seen even with their high tendency to opress their wives.
If all Muslims could be like this am sure we boko haram and islam extremism would reduce and I won't have to run everytime i hear someone shouting AllahAbubakar

Lightangel65:


Why did you bring sexism come into this, you ladies are always like this, always playing victims even though no one is talking to you, seriously this is low even for a kid.
Most guys love this woman, i fell in love with her ideology and her mindset and her husband is the best muslim man i have even seen even with their high tendency to opress their wives.
If all Muslims could be like this am sure we boko haram and islam extremism would reduce and I won't have to run everytime i hear someone shouting AllahAbubakar

The men who called her husband a simp because she said he practices feminism drew the first sword.

Go talk to them.

Go.

.

Sixfeetbelle:


The men who called her husband a simp because she said he practices feminism drew the first sword.

Go talk to them.

Go.

Everything is not a war, replying them only proves you are at their level

crackhaus:

You're always on point, okay not always but mostly...

Honestly, there's nothing out of the ordinary in their family dynamic if we are to go by what are on those screenshots.
Perhaps the fact that she used the term feminist to describe her husband is the reason why people are reacting.

I mean take a look at this particular tweet below – she says he didn't know when his own kids were writing exams. Doesn't that imply he was not a hands-on father, or perhaps he was, but not to a large extent?
This kind of contradicts that whole feminist narrative.

I get her point though, the summary of it all is that her husband supports her aluta hustle and does not hold her down/back, which would be typical of muslims.

What I don't know is if this makes him a feminist, or simply makes him a supportive husband which is what every sensible man with a sensible wife actually is.

However, being the latter (supportive) does not automatically make one the former (feminist), and she may have being conflating the two.

I am always on point

I read those posts and saw nothing extraordinary.

The standard of Nigerian husbands must have fallen if filling gas cylinders and preparing a kid for school in the morning is 'simping'.

Considering her religious background, I get her referring to him as 'feminist' even if all she wanted to say is 'supportive'.

I would group humans into two:

1. People who look at labels and not actions: once you claim the right label (feminist, anti-feminist, red puller, Christian etc.) they don't care about your actions.

2. People who look at actions and not labels: they don't care what you call yourself or don't, they look at your actions.

People triggered by this thread and similar threads across divides fit into box one.

Some husbands here might be more hands-on than Aisha's husband. However, the label 'feminist' automatically makes him a Simp. On the flip side, the label 'feminist' makes him perfect and ideal even though he did not know when his son wrote common entrance.

Lightangel65:


Child marriage exists in islam she was probably married at 15-16

Someone said she's 46 so she probably married in her mid 20s.

bluefilm:
What a pity!

The man must be so emasculated in that their home.

What shows emasculation in the post she shared?

PAWG:
I bin know say the husband go dey Simpsons FC

What made him Simpsons FC?

thebosstrevor1:
A weak husband

Feminism is not Islam.

She wears the hijab because her handlers say she should

Feminism is a Marxist ideology

What makes her husband weak?

Lightangel65:


Abi, the man is the most civilised muslim man i have seen, even though islam opresses women, the guy is even better than some normal men

Hahahahahahaha

You mean M****** men are not normal men?

Chai!

Lightangel65:


Everything is not a war, replying them only proves you are at their level

You still didn't do what I wanted, so I'm free to do as I please.

They went low, I chose to go lower. No one person has the monopoly for insults and crude remarks.

ReactGA:


I don't have anything against what u said up there but do u think everything about western value is good ?
Don't get me wrong I'm not saying everything is bad, but a lot of the so called western value is really screwed up

what is your definition of western values? The fact everyone is taught to be independent? What we call African values putting women in servitude is crazy.....it is what fuels the "I want a rich husband gang"......If women were more independent, there will be less abuse in marriages. Don't look at old folks and think they all lived happy.....deep down most suffered in their marriages and society defined the terms of their relationships. I am sure if given the chance a whole lot won't go down that path of being dependent again.

Anoth:
small fame she don start to push the "borderline criminal" Feminist Movement.

Watch how the Twitter feminists will flock around her advocating for equal rights but rejecting equal responsibilities.



And her husband is also a feminist? That
synonymous to saying that her husband is an irredeemable SIMP

what exactly is wrong with what she said? Her husband she is married to does not complain. The key thing is that he is happy

JoeEeL:
This woman, you don try for the #endSars but e don do you o.

You go dey do like say you no sabi d kind religion wey you come from wey them like to dey cut head anyhow. We still want you alive. Dishing out back-to-back western values this way in the open is bound to cause severe burning sensation in the hearts of those people across the sahel; those ones that all they know is to subjugate, domesticate and terrorise women and non-muslims.

If her religion will be a barrier then she needs to drop it