Fountainofyouth:



How is Op an outsider? Or did you skip the part Op said she is his sister? How did you know she hasn't told her husband she can't shoulder the responsibilities? Were you there? Are you the lazy ass husband?

If the husband has sense, he will know that bringing not one person, but a whole family to a house where the wife is the sole provider while he is doing basically nothing, is a disgrace and big shame to him as a mn

Sister the man is not jobless that means she's not the sole provider.
It's your type that would spend 10 centimes on your husband and would start feeling so big.

Brandonx:

Sister the man is not jobless that means she's not the sole provider.
It's your type that would spend 10 centimes on your husband and would start feeling so big.

He is jobless as far as I'm concerned cos he isn't contributing nada to the family, or didn't you see that part?

Why won't I feel so big, if my husband is contributing only dust, won't he also feel so big and mighty?

Fountainofyouth:



He is jobless as far as I'm concerned cos he isn't contributing nada to the family, or didn't you see that part?

Why won't I feel so big, if my husband is contributing only dust, won't he also feel so big and mighty?

Are you the wife ? How did you arrive at that conclusion? Even a lunatic would drop something for the wife tho it might not be consistent.
Did you not read about the woman whose husband entrusted a supermarket and what did she do? She sponsored her younger brother to the UK.
This contempt for men won't do you any good ma'am.

Brandonx:

Are you the wife ? How did you arrive at that conclusion? Even a lunatic would drop something for the wife tho it might not be consistent.
Did you not read about the woman whose husband entrusted a supermarket and what did she do? She sponsored her younger brother to the UK.
This contempt for men won't do you any good ma'am.

Pls stop asking silly questions and read the Op again,

And how is it that I have contempt for men? Because I did not support the husband? Are you sure you're okay?

Fountainofyouth:



Pls stop asking silly questions and read the Op again,

And how is it that I have contempt for men? Because I did not support the husband? Are you sure you're okay?

Are you possessed?
If the woman knows she's tired she should move out and file for divorce no one is asking her to remain in the marriage.

Brandonx:

Are you possessed?
If the woman knows she's tired she should move out and file for divorce no one is asking her to remain in the marriage.

That is exactly what I said in my first comment but without the "divorce", you see you're the one going extreme here right?

I wanted to see how you'd at the end of the day, say exactly what I predicted, and you did, so, end of story, I'm done arguing with you at this point, goodnight.

Fountainofyouth:



That is exactly what I said in my first comment but without the "divorce", you see you're the one going extreme here right?

I wanted to see how you'd at the end of the day, say exactly what I predicted, and you did, so, end of story, I'm done arguing with you at this point, goodnight.

You are bitter and mean.
I really feel for the man that would keep you at home.
Tschuss.

Brandonx:

You are bitter and mean.
I really feel for the man that would keep you at home.
Tschuss.

Tsk tsk tsk, your opinion will never matter.

Fountainofyouth:


Tsk tsk tsk, your opinion will never matter.

Sadly it's not an opinion you use curse language too often . It's either you deliberately trolling or you probably are too dumb to know you are extremely bitter and would drag anyone whose opinion doesn't sit well with you.
No hard feelings

valdovas:
My younger sister got a job in a multinational company since before marriage, her husband works as a seller of a certain foreign product but since he started he has been barely mking money, my sister pays rent and kids school fees and buys food while he spends his money mainly on marketing his product. we all tried to help him and get a job in a company and as a lecturer but he refused saying he is used to business and does not want to work under anyone.
So my sister has been the financial back bone of the family for a while.

Her husband now wants to bring in a family from the village that has been having financial problems since their father lost his job in a construction company when covid 19 started and want to stay with them while the man looks for a job in the city

My sister will basically be the one feeding this man and his wife and child.

I feel as if her husband is taking advantage of her ,he can work hard and be a better provider but he insists on doing his meager business that hardly fetches anything.

My sister is very soft spoken and does not like acrimony so I guess that is why he acts like he is not supposed to be the provider, not just that but now he wants to bring in extra mouth to feed when the woman was already stretched to her limit in handling responsibilities that are her husband's.

I plan to intervene and talk her husband out of bringing in another person to the house.

What is your business with that family now?
You are a third party, leave husband and wife alone, its their cross.

Brandonx:

When you asked what was wrong with me that wasn't personal
Do not allow this misandry to becloud your sense of reasoning.

She is just like that, no leave no transfer...

As nairaland SARS...

Munzy14:

She is just like that, no leave no transfer...

As nairaland SARS...

She don jam okuta today
Odè ma gia la aghi la weriegbe ( when road no let you pass you go turn back)

Brandonx:

When the man proposed to her didn't she know what she was getting into?

Marriage is dynamic, total derailment from courtship. Man is prone to change!

[s]

Brandonx:

Sadly it's not an opinion you use curse language too often . It's either you deliberately trolling or you probably are too dumb to know you are extremely bitter and would drag anyone whose opinion doesn't sit well with you.
No hard feelings

[/s]


Think with a complete functioning brain next time, it will serve you well in your existence.

Hard feelings at a 100.

[s]

Munzy14:

She is just like that, no leave no transfer...

As nairaland SARS...

[/s]


You have been noticed, crawl back to the hole you escaped from.

Brandonx:

She don jam okuta today
Odè ma gia la aghi la weriegbe ( when road no let you pass you go turn back)

Dude, kin chi kania n ka Dan iska, Asinwin, ndisime

You don jam work today, bring it on, I'll feed you to the dogs you wouldn't even believe you still exist.

Fountainofyouth:



Dude, kin chi kania n ka Dan iska, Asinwin, ndisime

You don jam work today, bring it on, I'll feed you to the dogs you wouldn't even believe you still exist.

I don't have any bitter energy in me so I won't engage in any childish banters.
You won! You are officially the UHUNDAN 1 of nairaland.
Bye

Brandonx:

I don't have any bitter energy in me so I won't engage in any childish banters.
You won! You are officially the UHUNDAN 1 of nairaland.
Bye

You are a non entity

And also the official BURO UBANKA 1 of nairaland

Run away from this moniker from now henceforth, for your own good.

Fountainofyouth:



You are a non entity

And also the official BURO UBANKA 1 of nairaland

Run away from this moniker from now henceforth, for your own good.

You are even more stupid than I thought! You don't even use words in the right context, translate 'buro ubanka' and ask yourself if you've made sense.
Are you even educated?
You just got yourself another title:
'OGIOMURIA 1' of Nairaland Family Section.

Brandonx:

You are even more stupid than I thought! You don't even use words in the right context, translate 'buro ubanka' and ask yourself if you've made sense.
Are you even educated?
You just got yourself another title:
'OGIOMURIA 1' of Nairaland Family Section.

You think I don't have my reasons why I called you that, cos it fits you perfectly,

Another title for you is; the official EN KAUYE 1 of nairaland,

Go and translate that and off your illiterate self.

SweetCunt97:
Be exposing the kinda family u grew up in. Ode

hey sweet cunt. i am going to hook u up wit a gentlemans called RealSolution001 from nairaland becuz u r sweet lady & i want u to be his beautiful chrisssmas present coz he need a girl friend. will get back to u sir!! (THANK ME LATER)

Fountainofyouth:



You think I don't have my reasons why I called you that, cos it fits you perfectly,

Another title for you is; the official EN KAUYE 1 of nairaland,

Go and translate that and off your illiterate self.

I knew you were a child but I thought you had sense!
You just proved you a stupid child, very insolent child, as lumi once said ' a petulant child' who would troll her father's age mate because she saw them online.

People that you can't even come close to in reality

Brandonx:

I knew you were a child but I thought you had sense!
You just proved you a stupid child, very insolent child, as lumi once said ' a petulant child' who would troll her father's age mate because she saw them online.

People that you can't even come close to in reality

Bla bla bla, keep insulting your linear and existence

If you really know who I am, you'd wimper like a child, and keep licking the sole of my feet, best believe.

Fountainofyouth:



Bla bla bla, keep insulting your linear and existence

If you really know who I am, you'd wimper like a child, and keep licking the sole of my feet, best believe.

I understand, everything will be all right.
Just give me your full name, I'm going to my alter now I'll get an image candle for you so I can pray for you. You'll be alright you can send me a pm don't be shy.

Brandonx:

I understand, everything will be all right.
Just give me your full name, I'm going to my alter now I'll get an image candle for you so I can pray for you. You'll be alright you can send me a pm don't be shy.

You have got to be kidding, nl guys are so predictable it's pathetic and pitiful, you can run along now, you've entertained me.enough.

Fountainofyouth:



You have got to be kidding, nl guys are so predictable it's pathetic and pitiful, you can run along now, you've entertained me.enough.

I understand you got off on the wrong foot don't be shy, I'll still pray for you , you can send a Dm with another moniker if you wish.

I did not say bring money, I'm buying the candles for your work myself just give me your full names, you'll come back here to testify.

Brandonx:

I understand you got off on the wrong foot don't be shy, I'll still pray for you , you can send a Dm with another moniker if you wish.

I did not say bring money, I'm buying the candles for your work myself just give me your full names, you'll come back here to testify.

What a clown!!!

Fountainofyouth:



What a clown!!!

Well it's your call!
I'm neither a prophet nor a pastor, I'm just someone that's spiritually inclined.
I've asked you to send your names for prayers to remove obstacle from your life, those bitter energy would leave and the good things would start coming to you but you refused. Goodluck!
Tschuss.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Can you just shut your[b]pie hole[/b]?

You spent about four paragraphs typing balderdash. I don't know why you people just chose to turn every topic concerning marriage into a gender war. Would you say the same thing if your sister were in her stead?

Overgrown kid!

i just learnt a new word

valdovas:
My younger sister got a job in a multinational company since before marriage, her husband works as a seller of a certain foreign product but since he started he has been barely mking money, my sister pays rent and kids school fees and buys food while he spends his money mainly on marketing his product. we all tried to help him and get a job in a company and as a lecturer but he refused saying he is used to business and does not want to work under anyone.
So my sister has been the financial back bone of the family for a while.

Her husband now wants to bring in a family from the village that has been having financial problems since their father lost his job in a construction company when covid 19 started and want to stay with them while the man looks for a job in the city

My sister will basically be the one feeding this man and his wife and child.

I feel as if her husband is taking advantage of her ,he can work hard and be a better provider but he insists on doing his meager business that hardly fetches anything.

My sister is very soft spoken and does not like acrimony so I guess that is why he acts like he is not supposed to be the provider, not just that but now he wants to bring in extra mouth to feed when the woman was already stretched to her limit in handling responsibilities that are her husband's.

I plan to intervene and talk her husband out of bringing in another person to the house.

Husband and wife are one not two
Every money that comes into that family belongs to both of them n to no one person.

It's like u are jobless n hoping on ur sister's money better go n hustle n let that home be

Brandonx:

She don jam okuta today
Odè ma gia la aghi la weriegbe ( when road no let you pass you go turn back)

Na frustration be her problem..

He is not acting like someone who loves his wife.
If he did, His first step would be to alleviate her burden by increasing his earning power (considering that he even had the opportunity to do so). It shows he doesn’t care if she stresses to death. We know what we call women who behave that way.

Now he wants to bring in another entire family for his wife to cater for. Only an idiot won’t see anything wrong with arrangement. Can she ask him what his plan is for them while they are living with them?

Let him say in his own words who he expects to bear the responsibility. Instead of keeping quiet , she should bring it up in form of a financial plan. Ask him what he thinks will happen while this family is there.
Hopefully that will get him thinking. He’s obviously too comfortable to worry or think about anything.
His work-horse seems capable.