What makes a person a male or female?

Biologically/naturally, a male has a penis and two testes. His chest is flat and he neither develops breasts like a female nor does he produce breast milk like a female. These are the core physical features of a male.

A female, on the other hand, has a vagina and develops breasts and breast milk.

The organ - penis or vagina - a person is born with determines their gender.

The point of all these is stated below.

No matter how handsome, good looking, pretty, beautiful or whatever a male may appear, he is not a woman. Regardless of how "soft" or even feminine a male may appear, it should never make him sexually desirable to other males.
It doesn't matter how stone-faced, "ugly", hard or whatever, a male may appear, he should never desire a person of the same gender or be desired by a person of the same gender for any form of sexual relationship.

It is an aberration for a male to desire another male for sexual relationship. A male should not be a sexual object to another male. It is abnormal. It is an abomination.

Also, no matter how "ugly" or stone-faced a female looks, she is not a male. No matter how hard, muscular or even masculine a female is, she is female and should never be sexually attractive to other females. Such an attraction, wherever it exists, is an aberration. It is an abomination.

Regardless of how soft, pretty, beautiful, or whatever, a female may appear, she should neither desire nor be desired by a person of the same gender for any form of sexual relationship.
Sexual reassignment is an abomination. YHVH of Hosts sees it as detestable. It is from the pit of darkness. It is of the devil. What a person feels within - as long as gender is concerned - is irrelevant and shouldn't determine the person's gender. The mind can be tampered with - deceived or influenced. But the physical features don't lie with respect to gender.

The feeling of being a male trapped in a female body or a female trapped in a male body is satanic.

The Crux of the matter is that no physical feature of a person should ever make such a person sexually appealing to the people of the same gender. No physical feature of a person of the same gender should ever make such a person sexually attractive to you.

Same-sex attraction is a thing of the mind. The mind can be tampered with - deceived, influenced, manipulated, etc.

Allow the Word of YHVH of Hosts to rule your mind. Don't let your mind rule you into destruction.