rokiatu:

I do wear a bit of make up.

I find nothing wrong with it as long as you don't look like a clown.

Mrs.Chima:

You also not putting all that poo in your head.  Perms, glue, plastic hair, excessive heating, and dye.  You are using natural products and keeping your hair well conditioned that all your hair need.  My friend is a hair stylist and she holds a class every week on hair care to black women.  You will be amaze at how long and healthy the participants hair are.  One lady prior to coming to the class hair was so weak and baldy that it looks like her dog was playing in her hair for a decade.  After six weeks her hair was full and shiny and it was NOT a weave.

Weave isn't the only thing black women are doing to their body either to enhance somewhat beauty or beauty period.  They are wearing fake eyelashes, fake nails, getting injection in their nyansh, getting bosom implants, bleaching their skin, putting blue or green contacts in their eyes, and injecting fat into their lips.  

I also find it funny when I see women go all out to look good and MEN shouting they want a natural woman.  That what you call a big gender communication failure.  

endmoll:

It has gotten to a point where you wake up in the morning and look at the person by your side and you begin to wonder if it was the same person that you were with in the evening.
Most women now are trying to avoid chemical in there body system by trying to stay natural,i am not saying that make up are not good but try as much as you can to be your self. God has given the African sister what other race are jealous of and we tend to rubbish it for the sake of artificial beauty.
The last time i was in Nigeria and i went to eat at a Calabar joint in ABJ,in my vege soup i found an artificial finger nail in my plate and i was not surprised because of our lack of hygiene and[b] i can't imagine the quantity of fake hair that i had digested in the vege soup.[/b] Wish i could go back to the ages of my granny when all they could do was braid or cut there hair and looked wonderful.
I hope and pray that our African Goddesses will begin to realize that they are beautiful without all these artificial syndrome.

ogugua88:

After finding the artificial finger nail, you still proceeded to eat the soup?
[/quot Did you fall down with your head when you were a kid? There is no way i can eat the food with such discovery.

endmoll:

Did you fall down with your head when you were a kid? There is no way i can eat the food with such discovery.

endmoll:

The last time i was in Nigeria and i went to eat at a Calabar joint in ABJ,in my vege soup i found an artificial finger nail in my plate and i was not surprised because of our lack of hygiene and i can't imagine the quantity of fake hair that i had digested in the vege soup.

Mrs.Chima:

You also not putting all that poo in your head.  Perms, glue, plastic hair, excessive heating, and dye.  You are using natural products and keeping your hair well conditioned that all your hair need.  My friend is a hair stylist and she holds a class every week on hair care to black women.  You will be amaze at how long and healthy the participants hair are.  One lady prior to coming to the class hair was so weak and baldy that it looks like her dog was playing in her hair for a decade.  After six weeks her hair was full and shiny and it was NOT a weave.

I also find it funny when I see women go all out to look good and MEN shouting they want a natural woman.  That what you call a big gender communication failure.  

Liss:

Lol,  Very true talk, or why else would the women increase their artificial level if the men did not want it,

You could be dropping us some hair CARE tips given by your friend,   It would go a long way to help the women improve their desire for naturalness,  

Mrs.Chima:

Hold on.  Let me attempt to laugh.  I will get back to you on that.  (yawns)


Back to topic,

Omoloa, the problem is that men are blindsided by the media and their "homeboys" to what they should expect their women to look like and not knowing that every man has DIFFERENT desires.  But unfortunately, that life. 

Mrs Chima. Madam, But why r u hating becoz u r fat? 

Some guys like fat women. Actualy, Thats y i like u!

Mrs.Chima:

Mr. Cock,

Can I ask you SERIOUSLY to leave me alone.  I am not in the mood today SERIOUSLY. 

Ok. say it sweeetly nicely!