LadySarah:


This life no balance at all. The woman learnt well from men.

spinna:
Sorry bro just indulge me.. What tribe are this couple?

Kuns84:


I didn't create this thread for childish gender debates/comparisons from you and your ilks please. Grow up.

thorpido:
How will he lose his house to her?Is the house abroad?

baby124:
His family members should get him out of that house first. Then get someone to change the keys of the house, when she goes out. Inform her family members that they should make space for her. He will just die for nothing or end up killing her and spend the rest of his life in prison. Don’t take in such mother in law sha because, she will destroy your home and turn you to a shell of yourself. Let her go and stay with those family members who begged for her.

thorpido:
This kind person you want to change locks for?
In less than 30mins,she's back to the house with 2 carpenters to pull down the doors.

Klass99:
Kuns84, I don't doubt your story and it was entertaining to read. I found myself LOL at some parts of it.

If your wife and her siblings are financially capable, why don't they rent him a small but cozy place in a gated estate? The kind where residents need to call the gate before any visitors are granted access.

That sort of arrangement will keep your mother-in-law away from further harassing your father in law. I said rent because I don't know if, they can collectively afford to buy him a house now.

I think if he truly wants to severe ties with this woman and have peace of mind, giving up his current house to start fresh else where, will be his best bet.

I don't like the suggestion of him giving up his house for such a nasty woman but hey, what other options are available for permanently ending this madness? His mental health and overall well being is also more important than a structure which I suspect holds lots of bad memories anyway.

I have learned from this story the importance of having a strong will and a mind of your own. If FIL had stood his ground and not allowed this woman back into his life, with the persuasion of relatives who begged on her behalf, we won't be reading this.

baby124:

Well he owned the house before marriage. He can ensure security to prevent her from access Into the house. He should also pack a few things she will need and even money to help her with relocation. Then in future, request a few relatives of hers to come and carry the rest of her things well packaged outside the gate.

At the end of the day, it’s up to him if he wants to live for his children and, enjoy the fruits of his labor. If he makes up his mind, no amount of begging from her will stop him. If she tries to pull the door, when she sleeps in jail a few nights she will respect herself. She cannot do this with a crazy/strong willed man.

As the wife is doing all she can to kill him before his time to inherit. Some times you have to think of self love, when people are trying to deprive you of your peace!

Righteousness89:
The Truth is that your FIL is her Husband!
It's unfortunate she does all the evils u put out here!
It's Good that you Have your FIL in your place.
The only you guys can do now is put your MIL in Prayers.
GOD Almighty knows How best to settle things as these..

thorpido:
Unfortunately,the man is the opposite of a strong willed man hence the troubles.He will need external help like the courts.

Viktor1983:


Prayers can't cure narcissist personality disorder..
I've dated a girl with NPD.
The best thing is No Contact

Righteousness89:


What u do not value cannot work for you..

Prayer in the Name of JESUS is the Highest Force that Brings Divinity to intervene in Earthly matters..

Prayer Works/ Cures ALL things..

spinna:
Sorry bro just indulge me.. What tribe are this couple?

Viktor1983:


My ex is an astute member of her church.
At a point babe carries me along for evangelism and ls very prayerful.
NPD is an ugly psychological condition. There's nothing I can write here to change your mindset.