There's This Lovely Lady we are together, I think she loves me but the issue is that she is older than me. So my concern is; Age gap in relationship is it a blessing or curse? because I never want anything that could make me regret my actions if we should end up together.
So, my fellow nairalanders with in-depth experience about this very State of mine, what do you suggest I do?[color=#990000][/color]

as in you think she is love with you
you mean you don't know?

What the difference in the age? is it that much.

Are you ready to deal with the fact that in 10years she might look much older than you?

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Nope, Just A Year Older if I should go by what she told me.

virginprincess:
What the difference in the age? is it that much.

Bro, You Think So

Abouwaza:
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Love is relative these days. People now claim they love you dearly even go as far as expressing it just to meet their ulterior motive(s)

baralatie:
as in you think she is love with you

you mean you don't know?

grandee4u:
Nope, Just A Year Older if I should go by what she told me.

An age gap of just 1 year is quite small but since it already bothers you it is better for you to walk away now

u alone should know weather age difference would be a big deal for u wen dating.u are a man and you should know wat u want..not other guys telling u wat to do

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Does she know??

aarin29642:
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Evening newspaper

grandee4u:
There's This Lovely Lady we are together, I think she loves me but the issue is that she is older than me. So my concern is; Age gap in relationship is it a blessing or curse? because I never want anything that could make me regret my actions if we should end up together.
So, my fellow nairalanders with in-depth experience about this very State of mine, what do you suggest I do?[color=#990000][/color]

How many years did she use to senior you?

Abouwaza:
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Abouwaza
bad guy

grandee4u:
There's This Lovely Lady we are together, I think she loves me but the issue is that she is older than me. So my concern is; Age gap in relationship is it a blessing or curse? because I never want anything that could make me regret my actions if we should end up together.
So, my fellow nairalanders with in-depth experience about this very State of mine, what do you suggest I do?[color=#990000][/color]

Grow up.. So many people are married to women older than they are

Hi, Happy Sunday.
Let me ask you this, why do men get married to women they are older than by over 10 years and not afraid for the future?
Is it because they are in "love"? Or because it is normal in the society and there's nothing special about it... The truth is in Nigeria it is a norm for the man to be older. Why that? People believe when the man is older he will be feared in his home, and this will enable him be the boss. How true is that? Guess what? It was never true. Women in ancient times had much respect and honour for their husbands not because of the age difference, but cuz that's how they were trained to be(it was a norm then to reverence your husband). In those times, females from their little ages, were trained for marriage, so irrespective of age, looks, wealth, they loved and adored their husbands. Now marriage isn't taught in homes anymore, women are to learn on their own(part of the reason for a lot of failed marriages and high divorce rate). Age difference is not a criteria for marriage, people will ask you, will you still love her when those curves aren't there anymore? And out of fear you tell yourself it's true ooo. Ask yourself, why do women stay with their husbands when their body wanes? The answer is you'll never notice it. Love advances with time.
Don't be weak to think she wouldn't respect you because she's older, just as men fear when their partner is richer.
Understand your position in a home, the strongest foundations (men) have the biggest buildings(family).
Stay blessed!

ZIINI:

Abouwaza
bad guy

abi u no see ni Big Zini