Hello Nairalanders,

So I believe 2020 has been wasted. But going into 2021 I would like your suggestions how a young Nigerian man can develop himself in this country not particularly to just get a job but to live better, socialise better, do better.

I feel I’ve been too focused on my business for far too long and left my personal life unattended to and stuck.

cc: lalasticlala
farano
rocktation

Set goals.(business, personal, financial et al)

Write down plans on how you will achieve those goals.

You must make sure you have means of exchange for achieving those goals, things like skills, time et al.

Your goals must be achievable, time-bound and concrete.

Bonus: read at least 1 book everyweek

Laslas, ask God for directions.

Much love from Luckyheart.

Changing is sometimes a hard task, but don't worry — it's not Impossible.
Here are my suggestions:
1: Stop betting — better money don't come so easy.
2.Dont fall for women's game — if you want to go far in life.
3: Learn how to be independent on others — you own 99.9% of your life.
4: Stop blaming others —sometimes you should accept that it's your fault in order to move on.
5:Work silently, keep others clueless, and they won't know how to get you down.
6: Stop Procrastinating — it is now or never!
7: Read books — it will help you to explore the world and see it in different angles.
7: But most Importantly — try to get closer to God (He has been on this planet for more than 2 million years — he knows the best, he is able, and he can help you!!

I wish you the best!!!

Luckyheart:
Set goals.(business, personal, financial et al)

Write down plans on how you will achieve those goals.

You must make sure you have means of exchange for achieving those goals, things like skills, time et al.

Your goals must be achievable, time-bound and concrete.

Bonus: read at least 1 book everyweek

Laslas, ask God for directions.

Much love from Luckyheart.

Thanks a lot Brother

EdricBond:
Changing is sometimes a hard task, but don't worry — it's not Impossible.
Here are my suggestions:
1: Stop betting — better money don't come so easy.
2.Dont fall for women's game — if you want to go far in life.
3: Learn how to be independent on others — you own 99.9% of your life.
4: Stop blaming others —sometimes you should accept that it's your fault in order to move on.
5:Work silently, keep others clueless, and they won't know how to get you down.
6: Stop Procrastinating — it is now or never!
7: Read books — it will help you to explore the world and see it in different angles.
7: But most Importantly — try to get closer to God (He has been on this planet for more than 2 million years — he knows the best, he is able, and he can help you!!

I wish you the best!!!

Thank you

1. Know what you want to become
2. Write down a daily plan that increases your chances of becoming that person
3. Follow your daily plan religiously
4. Don't neglect the God factor

"Whatever you'll become, you're already becoming"

Most times we are more developed than our minds give us credit for..

Anything that's intentionally learned in life turns out to be a total disaster...

It's either you develop by experience or obliviously...

But no matter how long you live you cannot learn it all or fully developed.