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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Thattallgirl(f): 10:32am On Nov 30, 2020 |
Kokaine:
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Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by samieea28(f): 10:39am On Nov 30, 2020 |
There's nothing wrong in it. Am 3years older than my hubby, we have been married for 8 years and no regret so far. 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by sylve11: 10:43am On Nov 30, 2020 |
real691: this is the post that actually deserved plenty ''likes', not those ones that got likes because they came first before this one. Sense full this your post jare. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by olumide4christ: 10:48am On Nov 30, 2020 |
supereagle: Its well... God's grace is sufficient! |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by sylve11: 10:54am On Nov 30, 2020 |
hmmm @ op. |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by bayocanny: 11:21am On Nov 30, 2020 |
Thattallgirl:Tall girl? |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by okewumi: 11:57am On Nov 30, 2020 |
supereagle: Thanks for your response. Women doesn't send you if you are older than them by 10 years. If she is respectable type she will and if she is an arrogant type, you are in soup. I have dated mature lady that is older than me by 4years and l really enjoy her level of reasoning on different issues 1 Like |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by isaacfreeman99(m): 12:06pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
No matter how educated you are
you can't be wiser than your
mother. Mothers know why they
warned you against the same
lifestyle they are living or have
lived, no wayward mother will like
to see her daughter become a
prostitute, she will beat the hell out
of her when she see her with an
irresponsible man. same thing with
the father who is a thief or criminal
except they don't love their child.
1. When you marry a woman that
has a child its possible that the
father of her child may Come back
and take her away from you or her
attention will be divided between
you and her ex husband except if
he is dead.(Okafor's Law).
2. When you marry a woman that
is older than you there is lot of
possibility that the woman will be
the one controling you, using her
age seniority and experience to
manipulate you. And no woman or
mother will love to see her
daughter being manipulated or
control by another woman.
3. And If the husband is death, it is
very difficult to satisfy a widow,
she will always be comparing you
with her late husband and nothing
you will do that will be good
enough as compared to her late ex
husband.
4. Another reason why most
women or mothers don't want
their children to get entangled with
divorcee is that, there is always
two side to a story, no divorced
person will tell you their wrong or
mistakes, even if they were caught
cheating, they will always blame
their ex, and you know women are
so good at blame game. I've never
seen a woman that can boldly say
or confess that her ex was a good
man but they fumbled. They are
always the saint and the man is the
devil.
5. Why buy a donkey or horse that
has fallen its former owner?? Why
are you sure that it won't fall
you
This is why most mothers don't
want such, but it depend, so good
women fall into the hands of bad
men. Example in the bible are
Naomi, Abigail, Ruth, Anna etc and
most times the come the best
wives and mothers because they
learned from their past relationship
mistakes and change except the
proud and arrogant like the
samaritan woman jesus met at the
well. This is my opinion. Happy
sunday. |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by demmy66: 12:29pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Zeinymira:yes i remember ma 1 Like |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by lathrowinger: 12:30pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
demmy66: Then what happen to that beautiful woman |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Smyk13: 1:05pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Go ahead and marry her bro! She will treat good and feed you well just as a good wife treats her husband and a loving mother feeds her son. So, there is nothing to worry about bro, cause you 're in a good hand! |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Uniquekriss(m): 1:09pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Vickygirk:u are a lady and ain't ready to banter words with u buh u also know that African women misplace priorities when it comes to being wealthy and being a wife, 95% of 'independent' ladies in Naija would tell u all I want is to be able to take care of myself and don't need a man. That's y u discover that big women are hardly married |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by KenModi(m): 1:21pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Ninejaywon: Marrying a lady younger than you is no guarantee of a peaceful home/marriage Use your head |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Ikennamurphy: 1:39pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
chinonyinye:Nne are you still single |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Thattallgirl(f): 1:43pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
bayocanny:Yea? |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Ikennamurphy: 1:47pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
PastorandMentor:Please educate us to learn one or two things from it |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by bayocanny: 2:03pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Thattallgirl:can I dm? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Marisujuaku(f): 2:19pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
BrainResetter:That's true but not all ladies. my original dob is 90 and I didn't change it at all. I graduated last year and still waiting for NYSC but my age didn't discourage me. Even if at the end, I'm not qualified to go, it's still fine. Life success doesn't come from that only, provided that one makes himself very productive. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Kaymansion(m): 2:24pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
follow your mind bro |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Ikennamurphy: 2:28pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
samieea28:You know people try to get problem where there is non |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by botrix(m): 3:17pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
sKeetz: CONGRATULATIONS. I WISH I AM THE ONE |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Benprass(m): 3:38pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Kobicove: With management that can't happen, Especially when they are not giving birth like cows � � |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by sweetilicious(f): 7:55pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
If she gives you peace,abeg stay where you are.Age is just a number.My ex got married to an older woman and they are living in peace.Marriage is more than some things that single people don't understand till they get in. The most important thing is your peace and love being intact.Forget societal acceptance and live your life.Life is too short. |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by yembet(f): 9:22pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Kobicove: I don't agree with this, that the lady will be much older, than the man. The age difference is just 2 years and I can't see the woman getting too old for the man. The main thing in a marriage is love commitment, loyalty and understanding. Beauty will fade, marry someone who is beautiful inside, out. |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Exedyne: 10:39pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
sKeetz: You better hold her tight if everything you say about her is true |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Kobicove(m): 10:57pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
yembet: Who even gets married for love in Nigeria these days? |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Ferrocene: 11:36pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
samieea28: How did your family take it |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by ebijimi7(m): 2:01am On Dec 01, 2020 |
Kestolove:that was what one of my ex said just because she was older than me with 5 years now I'm married she is still single all her age mates and people older than her they all broke her heart and I'm here now happy with my family she does chat me up the only thing she keor saying is that i realised age is just a number but it was too late 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by isax(m): 12:30pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
Kestolove: Receive sense Someone should epp me with that father Mbaka picture |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by isax(m): 12:31pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
ebijimi7: God bless your generation |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Greatihex(m): 1:00pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
Thattallgirl:you are beautifully and wonderfully made. I appreciate God for you. |
Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by Thattallgirl(f): 3:10pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
Greatihex:Thanks |
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