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| Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Nobody: 8:58am On Dec 05, 2020 |
I have learnt to give benefit of doubt to people so as not to judge them wrongly or hastily. There is this lady I started liking and thought of marriage, but she made some statements that made me bothered, and thinking of changing course with her. Truly, I am not looking for a perfect person, but a person that is good. Please can this be true? Or can I still give some chance? I do call this lady and we enjoy gisting, but there have been issues at some points... (1) I called her one day and as we were gisting, I stopped hearing her on phone. The reason she gave was that "her phone fell down".... Your phone fell down while gisting? (2) I sent her a WhatsApp message, I didn't force her to reply, but she said "I didn't have data to reply". But she has data to see it. (3) I called at a time, as we were gisting, I stopped hearing her and her reason "I slept off"... This was not at night ooh! I was considering to take a marital step with her, but these statements above are troubling me... Guys, I am not a SIMP, I just want to be more mature in handling this, and do not want to act hastily.... I want your views or advise because I want to go for someone.. |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Bornsinner7: 9:04am On Dec 05, 2020 |
Are you actually looking for answers to this shit? 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Thattallgirl(f): 9:08am On Dec 05, 2020 |
It seems like you're possessive. If a lady isn't into you, you'll know. She may like gisting with u as a friend and nothing more. It doesn't even look like u guys are dating sef. Are u dating? 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by PUSSYHOE(m): 9:11am On Dec 05, 2020 |
All women lie. |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Thattallgirl(f): 9:13am On Dec 05, 2020 |
PUSSYHOE:And all men tell the truth? 3 Likes |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by WrittyWritter(f): 9:14am On Dec 05, 2020 |
They all kinda of seem reasonable..but what do u want us to do..how can we give u advise just based on those three little things  |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 05, 2020 |
keep gambling with ur life bro,ride on 3 Likes
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| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by odinson1(m): 9:22am On Dec 05, 2020 |
spoked: Pls dont take Advice from any woman here.They don't care about you,they are just looking out for their Fellow woman,so they will Give you any advice that will benefit only her(which might end in tears from you) And as for your Girlfriend,bro she is lying to you and she's not interested! Ignore her for A few weeks let her come back to her senses 5 Likes |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by khingTony(m): 9:25am On Dec 05, 2020 |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Pierocash(m): 9:45am On Dec 05, 2020 |
Marriage is not by force. If someone isn't interested in you, you should know. I am not this type of man that believe in making calls with a woman I admire, I don't make calls often, if I like you, I let you know and leave the rest decision for you to make, and that determines my next line of action with her |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Theslumflower: 10:05am On Dec 05, 2020 |
Lol the gist must be so boring she slept off, I can imagine  Op let it slide. She doesn't like you. 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Zabiboy: 10:11am On Dec 05, 2020 |
spoked: A lady told a grown up guy like you this crap @ bolded and you still haven't deleted her number??... Mehnn....It is well... Ashawo( not including coded runs and those in relationships trading sex for money) in lagos alone don dey hit 30Million....and you are still thinking of marriage... GL bro 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by MagnateCalibre(m): 10:17am On Dec 05, 2020 |
spoked: Bro, na serious knacking and banging dey fall phone like that or the guy collect the phone. I have side babes dat do talk wit their real boyfriends on phone while we are banging and I do collect the phone most times and cut the call myself. Your beloved friend or acquaintance is someone's bleepmate 3 Likes |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by alphaNomega: 10:37am On Dec 05, 2020 |
spoked, she's lying |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Donmoscojaja(m): 11:00am On Dec 05, 2020 |
so you self need advice?? nairaland self....can you guys post something meaningful |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Geniemoi01(m): 11:16am On Dec 05, 2020 |
If she loves you..you'll know. Of she doesn't, you'll get confused. Understand this: If you strive to remain where you are not accepted, You'll be used! Cut her off ASAP. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Nobody: 11:43am On Dec 05, 2020 |
Omo see as girl matter dey skre my nigarrrs head kai |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by seanwilliam(m): 11:50am On Dec 05, 2020 |
Well all I will say is that in anything u do , avoid ordinary friendship relationship with ladies.. |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by tunize(m): 11:53am On Dec 05, 2020 |
Nvr force communiction with any woman, woman wen like you go dey into you. Bro mehn wen i like a lady i tell her my mind straight up as e dey hot and i dont believe in too many calls or whatever and i move no time for chidlish parol immediately i observe the connection is 2G and not 4G. 3 Likes |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Nazgul: 11:56am On Dec 05, 2020 |
spoked:Withdraw from her for a while, stop calling her, stop messaging her on WhatsApp, stop viewing her status... etc. If she doesn't bother to call or message you after your withdrawal then you've gotten the answers you want. She's obviously into someone else. As for whether or not she lied, you wouldn't know 100% until you try out that little experiment. 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Angelacruz: 12:07pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
maybe she was in another man's house wen u called. |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by femi4: 12:10pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
spoked:A typical response from a SIMP is "I m not a SIMP" 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by egharevba72047: 12:19pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
Well all I will say is that in anything u do , avoid ordinary friendship relationship with ladies.. |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Ruudy: 1:21pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
| guy go swellow redpill, it will be easy for u to detect when they lie |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by NobleDeSage001: 3:23pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
She is simply not interested in you. Check the next available girl... |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Tonymegabush1(m): 6:44pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
Don't really if advising you will be the right call, once som1 makes u uncomfortable why stick to them, just maintain ur lane for now her response to that will give you clue for your next line of action but no matter what never beg her to stay in your life.,... |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Franktom247(m): 7:04pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
What the bull crap did i just read |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Jodha(f): 7:28pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
Take yhur time and straighten things with her...I don't think yhu guys are on the same page in the relationship... Marriage is not something to rush o ...take yhur time...and find the perfect person for yhu |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by TheSERAPH: 7:36am On Dec 06, 2020 |
spoked: Young Man, why are you been paranoid for no reason. To make the matter worst the kids here are telling you to do away with the lady. You are just feeling so insecure cos you felt maybe she is too beautiful to be faithful to you. Ignore the advice saying you should let her go. To the accusations you lay against her-- 1. Phone could slip and fall from anyone while on a call. And that can make the call end without any prior notice. 2---If you are conversant with mobile device esp android app you will notice that some apps can work sometimes even when your data is exhausted(whatsapp inclusive). I can receive messages on my whatsapp even without having data and I can reply the same message but it will take time for it to deliver provide my data connection is On(MTN 4g sim users can relate). 3---As people will say no one can cheat nature. I have on many occasions slept off while on phone with someone at night. Not because what they are saying is boring but because I was stressed out and my face is heavy with sleep. It can happen to anyone. Be at peace young man all your accusations are not valid and doesn't make sense enough for you to do away with the girl. #shalom |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by austine4real(m): 7:42am On Dec 06, 2020 |
My people should we tell him !!!!!!! |
| Re: Help Me: Please Is This Lady Telling Lies? by Kiddogarcia(m): 7:47am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Are you guys even dating in the first place,but phone falling off is new to me tho, never heard of that,na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement no forget |
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