Sexual Liberation is the freedom to have sex as you like without judgement, These ideology brought about the normalization of contraception and the pill, public nudity, pornography, premarital sex, homosexuality, masturbation, alternative forms of sexuality, and the legalization of abortion.

Every Nigerian liberals and feminists love to preach about sexual liberation, in other word, freedom to have sex, some will say a woman is not to be judge, a woman can sleep with whosoever, she likes and whenever without criticism, also some men have bought into these idea.

You are not the first to support these ideas, as far back as the 60s, the liberals and feminists all cultural Marxists promoted that idea and it led to a STD epidemic in Europe and America (The AIDS Epidemic).

Nowadays, you see Nigerian feminists aka Marxists, promoting sexual liberation among women without telling them the consequences, It seems the more they claim to empower women, the more they help to degrade women and make them look like mere sex object.

The only thing sexual liberation will bring to our society is more STDs, more teenage pregnancy and more rape, neither will it empower women or society but make them more promiscuous, unable to bond and also increase the single motherhood home which inturn will create a bad society.

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Very useless people them no fit create employment na nonsense them they think of

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Very useless people them no fit create employment na nonsense them they think of

Imagine, people thinking sex is a form of empowerment

Purity culture has been branded as all of the ways women can stay protected and holy in today’s society. The truth of the matter lies in the fact that this only serves to subjugate women even more. By placing women on these pedestals, it places the onus on women to cover up and ensure that they are not temptations for men, forgetting that rapists are not dissuaded by the physical appearance. Purity culture is also set up in such a way that encourages women to avoid taking charge of their sex life. It paints women that deviate from this as whores who need to be shamed and punished, hence why when a women is raped and she is vocal about her sex life, it is brushed off because she asked for it by taking charge of her sex life. This is how purity culture normalizes and trivializes sexual assault .  


Most Religions do give women right to make decisions concerning her body
It does not define Consent

Women who have been raised religiously have been taught in some way by socializing influences, that they do not exist for themselves. They are to keep themselves holy and covered up, and to wait patiently in their fathers’ houses until a man approaches said fathers for marriage. It is in all the biblical stories and anecdotes describing model women of faith and religious principles.

This is problematic because not only would the woman lack individuality, there are no boundaries of consent. There would be nothing that says that she can say no to her husband. In Nigeria currently the law does not recognize marital rape as rape. So even when it feels like rape, when she knows that it is rape, when there is physical evidence of rape, she says nothing because she has been conditioned to think that the man has only taken what was his in the first place.  

Good girl/ Bad Girl Binary

Purity culture divides women into two groups ; the good girls and the bad girls and pray to God you don’t fall into the latter group. When a girl who is seen as a bad girl is abused sexually or physically, people see it as a punishment for her behaviour.

Guilt and shame are products of purity culture, when girls are taught that they become worthless after they have sex outside marriage they live with guilt and shame and it is even worse when they experience sexual violence because the victim automatically assumes it is just a punishment for the way she behaved or even dressed. What I don’t understand is how people expect women who finally have sex after they get married to just shake off

The consent workshop
https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/01/does-it-make-her-cheap/

Absolutely correct.