A normal Nigerian girl at 23-25 feel life just begins.

adams4real:

Most girls think they have luxury of time when guys are asking them out for marriage. A normal nigerian girl at 23-25 feel life just begins. You ask them out and they tell you they are not interested, all because they still want T̶̲̥̅Ơ̴͡ play around and make some money with their body a bit longer. They now come back T̶̲̥̅Ơ̴͡ the same guy about 5yrs down the line and they expect the guy T̶̲̥̅Ơ̴͡ take them. Absolute rubish.
They don't know that when a guy ask you out at 23 he want you at 23 and 5yrs later when you think he should still love you, he's still eyeing a 23 year old girl, fresh blood, a girl at the age when he was triping for you.
So girls, wise up and save the best part of your body for the guy you would spend the best part of your life with.

WORD!!

I probably wont stick around a lady wanting 2 settle down at 30's i mean
30's subtracted from when she starts having children, how many years is left

Give me the younger age any day any time

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
Let me get this clear, are you saying that any gal of 23-25yrs of age who get a marriage request from any he goat out there should automatically accept rather that wait for better suitors?!

No hes praticaly saying that most ladies of that age should start planning their lives earlier
instead of wasting time around running after men for money, selling their bodies for BB's and Brazilian hair
@tymes if i were a lady at my current age i would have been married by now, I shake my head for some women~

women these days waste their best part of their youthful age doing NOTHING but selling their bodies from one guy to another
instead of worrying about their future

MRbrownJAY:

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Women running after money has nothing to do with age, they do it from about 17yrs old and onward.
Its all down to maturity, if anyone believe that ALL 23/25yr old women are ready (or should be) for marriage then he is surely on crack.
Some may be, other may not, but the important point is that IF the guy is not the right one IN THEIR MINDS then they should definitely wait rather than settle for anybody.

If YOU aint married(and in that age bracket) then why should they automatically be? no difference here!

You have seen me are u telling me, im ready for marriage ( Jokes)

MRbrownJAY:


So contradictory!!!!
If they look for a rich man to take care of them, we say they are golddiggers and when they want to take care of they own selves, we say they wanna play the field. So which one is it? Should they simply say yes (like donkeys) to just about anybody or anything a man wants from them?!

SA Lady:

aahhhh! @MRbrown, you are an emoticon with a light bulb above his head.

Guys do you understand that if you are going to marry anyone at the age of 23 this person has only lived 4 years of her entire life to come.

Let me break it down 23-19=4 (19 represents the teen years) Now tell me what could a 23 year old who has lived for 4 year possibly know about herself, let alone raising a family.

Guys please let us start depending more on our senses for reason. asseblief.

SA Goddess:

Is that Zulu?

MRbrownJAY:

@SA LADY
Are you claiming that a person marrying at 18, will never make a good parent? Look around you, how old were most of our parents when they got married? Oh and does the MAN marrying her counts for nothing in family?
Maturity doesn't come with age but
life experiences and they don't always come AFTER teenage years.

SA Goddess:

^^^ was only pulling your leg, how can I not know

SA Lady:

well I thought since via Lesotho, you know

MRBrownJ:

@SA lady
Not everyone is meant to grow "that way", some grow while married. Its a different growth but it doesn't automatically doom this union.
Many out there have been taking care of their siblings ALONE Day in and day out since a very young  age (while parents are at work), thats family value for you right there.
Wouldn't such person make a great family orientated wife? Do you believe that she HAS to grow as an individual and know herself to make this marriage work?

It is not for everybody but some CAN be great wives/mothers at a young age. They can't miss what they never had!

[size=18pt]A well respected NLer, Jennykadry, was married well before she was 23 and is blissfully/happily married 10 yrs down  the line[/size].

wow!!     


Thats frigging awesome

SA Goddess:

I am not so bad girl. . . .besides, my son translates for me

Anyway, back at topic. . . . . .Personally at 23 I had no business being anybody's wife, I had no idea who I was or what I wanted and boy am I glad I was given the time to discover ME, with age comes wisdom . . . .what I see happening is most of those marriages that happened when the partners were in their early 20s have now dissolved or are unhappy because suddenly people realise just how little they "lived" before they rushed into marriage!

MRBrownJ:

@SA lady
Not everyone is meant to grow "that way", some grow while married. Its a different growth but it doesn't automatically doom this union.
Many out there have been taking care of their siblings ALONE Day in and day out since a very young age (while parents are at work), thats family value for you right there.
Wouldn't such person make a great family orientated wife? Do you believe that she HAS to grow as an individual and know herself to make this marriage work?

It is not for everybody but some CAN be great wives/mothers at a young age. They can't miss what they never had!

A well respected NLer, Jennykadry, was married well before she was 23 and is blissfully/happily married 10 yrs down the line.