I have dated a married woman for one year. I realised it is so wrong so pulled out. I confided in my friend about this my sins. He told me I have done well, but I have to complete the good word. According to him, I should go to the woman's husband to confess to him. The woman's husband is a soldier. I am in a dilemma now.
Should I go to the barracks to make this confession until I am totally forgiven? Won't this break the woman's marriage? Should I block the woman?

Thank you

Save your life and avoid her family.
Soldiers are usually wicked for no reasons, and he(the husband) won't forgive you, NEVER! .
If you want to be forgive from the root, then go to Church and confess your sins to God and ask for forgiveness.
Please, don't listen to your friend's advise, it would end in premium tears, and you would eventually come and create another thread for it .

Arrrrrrrh

Gosh !

You see reason why I don't like Nigerians falling inlove. The moment they enter they lose complete foresight. They can't think well. You have no clue about the repercussions of what you are doing.

How can you date a married woman in her home and a soldiers wife for that matter. Bloody civilian like you.

You better defy from that relationship completely, if you didn't sleep with her, just ask God forgiveness. Unless you do, go and beg the man for clear conscious.

Some guys eh, kai I pray my future wife never fall prey to such predators.

Don't try it. Bury it like that ooo

A woman is a woman.

You have pulled out ? Yes ! Why won't you let sleeping dog lie?

Your religious friend will be your death since you don't want to use your head.

I can see some up there advising you to go confess to a pastor.

Heed their advice until you will become the subject of a Sunday sermon.

I hate people that can't handle their affairs.
They keep telling everyone all in the guise of seeking advice.

ur friend is like 80% of Nigeria pastor, very good @ putting people in trouble, avoid ur friend, nah beast him b

Keep whatever you do to yourself. A secret shared is a secret known

It's called restitution but you're looking for death, he might kill you and harm the woman. It'd certainly lead to something you won't like, even if you leave the place alive, you might not leave well. It'd take the grace of God for him not to do a thing to you and his wife. You can try sha.

UndauntedYOCA:
It's called restitution but you're looking for death, he might kill you and harm the woman. It'd certainly lead to something you won't like, even if you leave the place alive, you might not leave well. It'd take the grace of God for him not to do a thing to you and his wife. You can try sha.

Hmmmm

Hmmmm

BUSHYANUS:

I have dated a married woman for one year. I realised it is so wrong so pulled out. I confided in my friend about this my sins. He told me I have done well, but I have to complete the good word. According to him, I should go to the woman's husband to confess to him. The woman's husband is a soldier. I am in a dilemma now.
Should I go to the barracks to make this confession until I am totally forgiven? Won't this break the woman's marriage? Should I block the woman?

Thank you

See this one...it's like you're a learner.

You've confessed to God, that's all you need. How can you walk up to a man and tell him that you've be fvcking his wife for the past one year and expect him to shake hands with you for a job well done?

Just keep it to yourself

God has the final say, inasmuch you have totally surrendered all to God, there is no need to go to the husband. Don't ever try to make that mistake again

Bola146:
God has the final say, inasmuch you have totally surrendered all to God, there is no need to go to the husband. Don't ever try to make that mistake again

My friend says I must do restitution

Hm.

Nigerian girls are useless.

How can a married woman open her legs for you to fucck? What is wrong with Nigerian women?

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Keep whatever you do to yourself. A secret shared is a secret known

blinking001:
How can a married woman open her legs for you to fucck? What is wrong with Nigerian women?

What about the guy? Is he right to have sex with a married woman

BUSHYANUS:


My friend says I must do restitution

Then go Na heaven straight when you are late
Just prepare your will should in case of anything

Please drop a picture for ur obituary.

another lie from a nairalander....how do you guys compose stuff like this??

unu gisike!

BUSHYANUS:

I have dated a married woman for one year. I realised it is so wrong so pulled out. I confided in my friend about this my sins. He told me I have done well, but I have to complete the good word. According to him, I should go to the woman's husband to confess to him. The woman's husband is a soldier. I am in a dilemma now.
Should I go to the barracks to make this confession until I am totally forgiven? Won't this break the woman's marriage? Should I block the woman?

Thank you

What exactly is the purpose of going to her husband to confess?

Hes chasing clout .. all these gullible people who commented above me though... lmao

BaddieFreak:

What about the guy? Is he right to have sex with a married woman

It's his right to fucck. Men are natural predators, it's the job of the woman to resist his advances. She's a disgrace to womanhood while the guy remains a champion.

So you all didn't notice that the OP was just making a joke?

Mekanus:
So you all didn't notice that the OP was just making a joke?

Asin


This shows the kind of Brain we have here on nairaland

It's appalling

Henrywalker:
Save your life and avoid her family.
Soldiers are usually wicked for no reasons, and he(the husband) won't forgive you, NEVER! .
If you want to be forgive from the root, then go to Church and confess your sins to God and ask for forgiveness.
Please, don't listen to your friend's advise, it would end in premium tears, and you would eventually come and create another thread for it .

Na person wey dey alive dey create thread.

BUSHYANUS:

I have dated a married woman for one year. I realised it is so wrong so pulled out. I confided in my friend about this my sins. He told me I have done well, but I have to complete the good word. According to him, I should go to the woman's husband to confess to him. The woman's husband is a soldier. I am in a dilemma now.
Should I go to the barracks to make this confession until I am totally forgiven? Won't this break the woman's marriage? Should I block the woman?

Thank you

Not all friends are truly your friend.


Read it over and over again.