Hi, I need someone's advice on how to strike up a conversation with a girl that I like. There's this girl that I like, she knows who I am a little and doesnt really mind people talking to her.

Whenever I would like to talk to her I never know what to say, I get really shy and when that happens, I never speak out. The only thing I could think of saying to her is "isn't this boring?" or whatever phrases like that.

Not that I said that to her or anyone else, because I know saying something like that is awkward. I'm pretty shy and I need some help on this thx, because during class time I really have nothing to talk about.

Sry guys, off topic i guess, maybe this should go to the Dating Zone.

em ... are u a teenager?

Young adult

there are several topics that are great to discuss with women. But instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do yourself a favor and think for a minute.

What topics do women PAY to hear about?

c0dec, you mean how to commit fornication and still get to heaven right?

Seun:

c0dec, you mean how to commit fornication and still get to heaven right?

huh?

heyy Blade i'll help u out aight! i'm good at these stuffs! i mean realllyy good!

kk Blade letz work as a team here aight! how about we do this, follow theze steps aight:

When you see a girl you like
you walk straight up to her
And u'll be like(uhh), Heyy girl how you doing?, you are the girl that I'm really pursuing, I would like to get to know you,
can you gimme your name, if you jot down your number you'll get mine in exchange,
See... I'm the guy of this town, and I hope you would'nt mind if I showed you around,
so when you go to certain places you'll be thinkin of me, we got people to meet and many places to see...

And she'll be like heyy heyy boy i'm doing great! how about you fix up a date!.. damn! you know what! i'm really digging your lips..as well as all u'v been talkin about...i think i'v gatt no choice than to fall for you! whoa!

BANG!!

trust me that would surely work!...this ain't no joke!!

NOTE!!:
Make sure u flowww easily aight, no touchin your face and stuffs like that
Make sure you make eye contact!
Make sure you Listen to what shez got to say
gimme your feedback and i'll definitely give you more tips aight!

chillin:

When you see a girl you like
you walk straight up to her
And u'll be like(uhh), Heyy girl how you doing?, you are the girl that I'm really pursuing, I would like to get to know you,
can you gimme your name, if you jot down your number you'll get mine in exchange,
See... I'm the guy of this town, and I hope you would'nt mind if I showed you around,
so when you go to certain places you'll be thinkin of me, we got people to meet and many places to see...

stop playing around. that's not going to work.

Isn't it reasonable to asume that chillin will not mind that kind of approach, since she's a girl and the one that suggested it? c0dec, isn't it presumtous to dismiss what a girl says about how girls would like to be aproached by men?

c0dec:

stop playing around. that's not going to work.

Ohh it will!!(i'v got other tips tho) just like i said! i'm not jokin around!

Seun:

Isn't it reasonable to asume that chillin will not mind that kind of approach, since she's a girl and the one that suggested it? c0dec, isn't it presumtous to dismiss what a girl says about how girls would like to be aproached by men?

Haaaaa please!! i DO NOT approach guyz! b/t/w i'v got my game tight! i'm just being a counselor thatz all!

You misunderstod my statement.

possibly!

Seun, i'm still puzzled with what u meant here.

Seun:

c0dec, you mean how to commit fornication and still get to heaven right?

well chillin's method might work but it'll depend heavily on confidence and body language. Anyway, the thread is about conversating with a girl not meeting her.

I was trying to imply that the information on how to fornicate and remain a saint is the sort of information that Nigerian women will be wiling to pay for!

all well!

Seun:

I was trying to imply that the information on how to fornicate and remain a saint is the sort of information that Nigerian women will be wiling to pay for!

funny

For whatever reason, women tend to love:

- Drama
- Conflict
- Romance
- Famous people and their lives

So... it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these topics.

just walk up to her and say hey girl how you doing? and she will say fine and then you say what your name? and she tell you and then you say i will like to get to know you if you don't mind, do you have a boyfriends if you don't i love to be one to you. _{try that one first}

Icing!! u lil criminal!! waz dat my remix?? lol lol

gurl that ain't no remix from yours that my flow right there.

i see u! u flowin aight!

or he can't try this, hey girl you so beautiful does you boyfriend know you out alone because i'm about to steal you from him and if you don't have one you already mine.

hahahahaha u must be jokin Icing!! thatz one weak pick up line!.... if a guy tells me that he'd get a spank in return!

some guy use that line for me, i told him can you move along.

hahahaha the guy surely need sum more experience! pick up lines are no longer in existence!

I'm willinnnn to be Bladez counselor!! Icing u welcome to be the co-counselor aight!

ok girl i will love to help him.

great!! datz team work *nodding* now we'v gat wait till Blade getz back!

@blade55 take small marijuana or burukutu then u will v enuff confidence which is what u need.

this is hilarious, the advice from chilling wouldn't work on a girl like me, i'd probably tell you to shove off or better still laugh so hard that u'll hate me for the rest of your life!

if you are in the same class, the most likely conversation would be about a topic... lets say you in a biology class, it'll be sensible to talk about cells, ask her stuff like what cell organnel she likes, functions man basically anything to do with the lesson or you can just blankly say you didn't understand something and get her to eplain it to you and all that. once you've got her talking then you can ask her out *now thats a winner, trust me it'll work* don't forget to post the feed back

this is hilarious, the advice from chilling wouldn't work on a girl like me, i'd probably tell you to shove off or better still laugh so hard that u'll hate me for the rest of your life!  

if you are in the same class, the most likely conversation would be about a topic... lets say you in a biology class, it'll be sensible to talk about cells, ask her stuff like what cell organnel she likes, functions man basically anything to do with the lesson or you can just blankly say you didn't understand something and get her to eplain it to you and all that. once you've got her talking then you can ask her out *now thats a winner, trust me it'll work* don't forget to post the feed back

al'liyah has it goin on


but in a situation where u aint in a class,just run past her give her ur books or phone and plead with her to hold it for you 4 a moment,dont give her the chance to say no.

run 2 a corner,stay there 4 like say 2-5 minutes depending on where u think she was going,then run back and tell her thanks 4 holding it 4 ya.from then on, Your on ur own
ok,from then on, as her about her last class or something relating to education and play dumbo......gurls like it when a guy makes them feel intelligent.
from then on........ur OYO



or better,just walk up to her and ask her, i love u talk ur own