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Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by chineduuf: 3:53pm On Dec 12, 2020
Guys please I have this girl I like and she likes me too. We met each other once back in school over 4 years ago. Somehow we got chatting this year and are into each other. I was supposed to take her out last week, but she couldn't make it and I had a wedding to attend too. She then decided to make it up to me today, taking me out instead.
Earlier she texted me that we should meet in her house instead. It is just she and her elder sister.
I am still planning on taking her out today, but my problem now is getting to the house. Should I get something for she and her sister? Since I am still taking her out. And what would be nice? Thanks guys.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by fati2001(m): 3:58pm On Dec 12, 2020
chineduuf:
Thanks guys.

YOU ARE WELCOME

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Nobody: 4:01pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:



YOU ARE WELCOME
Nairaland freak smiley
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Henrywalker: 4:02pm On Dec 12, 2020
You are confusing me.
One moment you would say she will be taking you out, and you would again say you would be taking her out.


Never let a girls take you out for the first time— especially Nigeria girls. There's a reason behind it!

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 12, 2020
grin grin

Let her take you out first nah cheesy grin
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Bornsinner7: 4:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
Just shave before you go

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Nobody: 4:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
Henrywalker:
You are confusing me.
One moment you would say she will be taking you out, and you would again say you would be taking her out.


Never let a girls take you out for the first time— especially Nigeria girls. There's a reason behind it!
Lol so typical! Making up rules just to suit the moment! In few seconds on another thread same you will type : Nigerian Ladies are stingy,they can't take a Man out on date or spend on their Men".

Lol.....

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by MJBOLT: 4:19pm On Dec 12, 2020
what is wrong with all these guys sef?ordinary take a girl out and you created a thread to seek advice/opinions,how do you even take decisions sef undecided

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by fati2001(m): 4:29pm On Dec 12, 2020
Palema007:
Lol so typical! Making up rules just to suit the moment! In few seconds on another thread same you will type : Nigerian Ladies are stingy,they can't take a Man out on date or spend on their Men".

Lol.....

not their fault... it's the effect of negative and dark thick heart..

Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Nobody: 4:40pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


not their fault... it's the effect of negative and dark thick heart..
Nigerian Electricity versus Nairaland guys, I don't know which is more stable. grin

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Nazgul: 5:14pm On Dec 12, 2020
chineduuf:
Guys please I have this girl I like and she likes me too. We met each other once back in school over 4 years ago. Somehow we got chatting this year and are into each other. I was supposed to take her out last week, but she couldn't make it and I had a wedding to attend too. She then decided to make it up to me today, taking me out instead.
Earlier she texted me that we should meet in her house instead. It is just she and her elder sister.
I am still planning on taking her out today, but my problem now is getting to the house. Should I get something for she and her sister? Since I am still taking her out. And what would be nice? Thanks guys.
Just buy bananas. N300 own is enough, give it personally to the elder sister and tell her it's for her. Since you're taking your own girl out, there's no need to get her anything. When you go out you can eat all you want there.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by shamsin6300(m): 5:30pm On Dec 12, 2020
Just give her your monthly salary when you reach her side.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by ifex370(m): 5:31pm On Dec 12, 2020
Henrywalker:
You are confusing me.
One moment you would say she will be taking you out, and you would again say you would be taking her out.


Never let a girls take you out for the first time— especially Nigeria girls. There's a reason behind it!

Listen to this guy

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Stephenmoka4(m): 5:42pm On Dec 12, 2020
A drink and some greetings to her elder sister.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by paulolee(m): 5:45pm On Dec 12, 2020
buy 3 pakets of c.d,..incase party comes knocking, make poor planning no make u miss dt sweet opportunity...
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by tobechi74: 6:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
Go empty handed
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by heniford2: 7:33pm On Dec 12, 2020
chineduuf:
Guys please I have this girl I like and she likes me too. We met each other once back in school over 4 years ago. Somehow we got chatting this year and are into each other. I was supposed to take her out last week, but she couldn't make it and I had a wedding to attend too. She then decided to make it up to me today, taking me out instead.
Earlier she texted me that we should meet in her house instead. It is just she and her elder sister.
I am still planning on taking her out today, but my problem now is getting to the house. Should I get something for she and her sister? Since I am still taking her out. And what would be nice? Thanks guys.
alot of kids in Nairaland this days
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by muller101(m): 7:40pm On Dec 12, 2020
Op are you telling us if you were about to visit your babe in her parents house, you will even create a website so people can advise you.

Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Nobody: 7:51pm On Dec 12, 2020
Use taxi and call her when you get there to come out and pay. Go there with empty stomach possibly with two of your friends, eat everything she has at home and get a takeaway food for guys in your hood too. Also make sure she gives you money for uber when you are leaving. No gender has monopoly of golddigging.
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by chineduuf: 7:59pm On Dec 12, 2020
Henrywalker:
You are confusing me.
One moment you would say she will be taking you out, and you would again say you would be taking her out.


Never let a girls take you out for the first time— especially Nigeria girls. There's a reason behind it!

Thank you for the response. The agreement was her taking me out, but my intention is to pay the Bills. Allow her take me to wherever she wants to.

And that's exactly what we did. Thanks a lot.
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Karleb(m): 8:01pm On Dec 12, 2020
Guy, don't be shy. Go to their house, met her and her sister. Since you'll be taking her out, don't buy anything while going there.

Spend sometime with them.

Make sure you thrill her especially her sister, keep it simple while at it though.

You be guy! I'm sure they are as anxious as you are.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by chineduuf: 8:02pm On Dec 12, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
A drink and some greetings to her elder sister.

Thanks
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by chineduuf: 8:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
Karleb:
Guy, don't be shy. Go to their house, met her and her sister. Since you'll be taking her out, don't buy anything while going there.

Spend sometime with them.

Make sure you thrill her especially her sister, keep it simple while at it though.

You be guy! I'm sure they are as anxious as you are.

Thanks a lot man. It went quite well.
Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by MediMedi(m): 8:06pm On Dec 12, 2020
For the first time going.....just go first. Maybe after outing get something for the other older sister. That's how real men do!

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Hoodyrich(m): 8:09pm On Dec 12, 2020
chineduuf:
Guys please I have this girl I like and she likes me too. We met each other once back in school over 4 years ago. Somehow we got chatting this year and are into each other. I was supposed to take her out last week, but she couldn't make it and I had a wedding to attend too. She then decided to make it up to me today, taking me out instead.
Earlier she texted me that we should meet in her house instead. It is just she and her elder sister.
I am still planning on taking her out today, but my problem now is getting to the house. Should I get something for she and her sister? Since I am still taking her out. And what would be nice? Thanks guys.
When dealing with women don't begin what you can't keep up with for a long time.So what I would say to you is do whats on your mind and leave the rest.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by anochuko01(m): 8:21pm On Dec 12, 2020
At some point I thought you were talking about the girl I went out with today.

It was first of this very kind for me too, i had much fun.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by ijeawele23635: 8:32pm On Dec 12, 2020
A drink and some greetings to her elder sister.

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by Dayoebe(m): 9:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
Norms, you should meet at a neutral place... just do it your way. las las, it will end in tears

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Re: Visiting A Girl At Home For The First Time by chineduuf: 9:23pm On Dec 12, 2020
anochuko01:
At some point I thought you were talking about the girl I went out with today.

It was first of this very kind for me too, i had much fun.

My experience was quite fun too mate. Glad you had a nice one.

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