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i really need the ladies opinion on this. what kind of guys do ladies really regard as nice guy? is it a guy who spends foolishly on them? a guy who treats them with respect? a guy who controls them? a guy who understands them? a guy who tolorates their promiscuity? a guy who submits to all their request? a guy who does not sleep with you on the first day? or a guy who they just like.
i have found out that when ladies like a guy, he automatically becomes a nice guy. weather he beats them or treats cruely or loves them.

the fact ladies are so complicated that you can't really understands them. they are so adaptable and so u cant hold them by their words. they one this and act differently; "I hate that guy." the next day the guys is sleeping with them. "That guy is a nice guy" the next day they are spending their who cash on the guy.

now i just want to know wht u really mean by a nice guy. thanks. no beating the bush pls

guys what do u think?

I believe a nice Guy is one who pays his lady all the attention she need and also being a good listener when she wants him to,
Has the ability to love her without any reservation and being prepared to mold her into what he wants inspite of her mistakes and short comings.
However, respecting her and understanding her is very important in making her convenience you are a nice guy and God sent.

Sub5:
I believe a nice Guy is one who pays his lady all the attention she need and also being a good listener when she wants him to,
Has the ability to love her without any reservation and being prepared to mold her into what he wants inspite of her mistakes and short comings.
However, respecting her and understanding her is very important in making her convenience you are a nice guy and God sent.

may i kiss you for this very sensible words you've written?
please allow me


what more can a woman ask for.

There are a lot of definitions of a nice guy, but I think the best definition to describe a nice guy is one whom thinks of the other FIRST before himself. Women are the queens of this earth. It is our job, as their potential kings, to make sure they are cared for, nurtured, loved, respected, and most importantly treated as equals among this world.

There are some nasty women that would take advantage of kindness, I admit, but it's through experience that I avoid those women at all costs. It's one thing to be nice, it's another to be played.

Someone who licks aśses.

Crude Oil:
Someone who licks aśses.

from a daft point of view,yeah right!

Someone no woman wants to sleep it until they are ready to marry.

HaveSense1:
There are a lot of definitions of a nice guy, but I think the best definition to describe a nice guy is one whom thinks of the other FIRST before himself. Women are the queens of this earth. It is our job, as their potential kings, to make sure they are cared for, nurtured, loved, respected, and most importantly treated as equals among this world.

There are some nasty women that would take advantage of kindness, I admit, but it's through experience that I avoid those women at all costs. It's one thing to be nice, it's another to be played.

Sub5:
I believe a nice Guy is one who pays his lady all the attention she need and also being a good listener when she wants him to,
Has the ability to love her without any reservation and being prepared to mold her into what he wants inspite of her mistakes and short comings.
However, respecting her and understanding her is very important in making her convenience you are a nice guy and God sent.

Very nice points but easier said than don. When we voice out our wish and aspirations we tend to forget about the complications of the world. Honestly, you really cant be all these to someone if they cant give it back. Your everyday hustle and bustle might sometimes also distract you. And then, u are not perfect, cos you will also make mistakes.
Now, there comes her own thinking.
I have seen some guy do all these but these women perhaps because they don’t really like them don’t cee them as nice guys. What then do say about women who stick to men who obviously always hurt them.
Most times, women meet a guy today and because he spend heavily on them, they he is a nice guy

Inked_Nerd:
@topic: Hmmm, interesting responses.

You like a nice guy yourself. I'm sure whoever you're with will be very grateful

Thank you I try in this wretched world, believe me dear.

may i kiss you for this very sensible words you've written?
please allow me Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

@ Goldieluks, You are free dear and thanks for the kisses.

Very nice points but easier said than don. When we voice out our wish and aspirations we tend to forget about the complications of the world. Honestly, you really cant be all these to someone if they cant give it back. Your everyday hustle and bustle might sometimes also distract you. And then, u are not perfect, cos you will also make mistakes.
Now, there comes her own thinking.
I have seen some guy do all these but these women perhaps because they don’t really like them don’t cee them as nice guys. What then do say about women who stick to men who obviously always hurt them.
Most times, women meet a guy today and because he spend heavily on them, they he is a nice guy

@ frank3.16, Honestly,you are right some how but i will say if you are talking about a nice Guy,He Most be one that can endure till the end selflessly and base on other issues you raised about this other women, their own understanding of Nice guy is base on the satisfaction they get. And some times they just stay put because they feel the have sacrifice so much to move on even when they know this guy is not a nice. They may not say it but down deep in their hearts, they know he is not.

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The nice guy? Does he really exist?
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Adrenaline:
what's all the mushy shyte, you guys are just deceiving yourselves for nothing. Trust me, ladies usually refer to their MUGUS or MAGAS as nice guys, please trust me on that, I have a Phd in women psychology.

ha ha, very funny but u have a point

Phate07:
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The nice guy? Does he really exist?
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are u trying to say that u are not a nice guy? so whats ur strategy?

[color=#9900ff]I think a nice guy is someone considerate, sympathetic and sweet.  Not necessarily a doormat.  He doesn't have to agree or give in just because he understands or whatever.  Personally i think 'nice guy' is almost interchangeable with 'good guy'.[/color]

da student:
Someone no woman wants to sleep with until they are ready to marry.

End of thread. In other words, a nice guy is one for whom blue-balls is a permanent affliction.

Any mushy guy that believes what these girls say would die mas.t.u.rbating while his girlfriend (who told him 'no sex till marriage') is being bleeped mercilessly by other no-nonsense guys out there. Nice guy my arse.

[color=#000099]Even though in reality i am a very nice guy meaning[/color]

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I think a nice guy is someone considerate, sympathetic and sweet.  Not necessarily a doormat.  He doesn't have to agree or give in just because he understands or whatever.  Personally i think 'nice guy' is almost interchangeable with 'good guy'.[/color]

Which, err, gets me in the friend zone every time i show that part of me which is my true inner core self.

Unfortunately,i am a very sensual person and i need to kiss,make love and f, k .So whenever i need that, i go into a.s.sH,arrogant,fun,self,amusing mode and go into scripted seduction material(meaning i become pick up artist) and the results are awesome .Plus a lot of me giving her squirting or, ms even though i hate having to do the pickup bulls, t in the first place.

Nice guys are like wuzebags(mumus) to women of the world we live in and its quite hard to find a a girl that really likes you for being the cool,sweet,dude that you are.

@havesense,
Nice peom.Guy,be real.that is d definition of a nice guy in an ideal world.
In this world we live in,a nice guy is one who spends foolishly,thinks dat d girl is doing him a favour by dating him. Most babes would say u are nice if u are not as smart as they are. Nice guys are d less smart guys.these type of guys allow d women dictate to them.they end up on d losing side in everything.Nice guys finish last.

a genuine nice guy is someone who is courteous and nice to everyone when he has the chance, a guy that respects women as humans and someone who see's things from other angles, an easy going guy.

Ask Jada

who is jada, jada smith?

Don't worry about nice guys. You're going to meet so few

in life it won't even matter. lol

Jada Pinkett Smith = Will Smith's wife

Thirst4Lif:
Jada Pinkett Smith = Will Smith's wife

wow thanks for pointing that out, i never knew that, now my life is better

da student:
[color=#000099]Even though in reality i am a very nice guy meaning[/color]
Which, err, gets me in the friend zone every time i show that part of me which is my true inner core self.

Unfortunately,i am a very sensual person and i need to kiss,make love and f, k .So whenever i need that, i go into a.s.sH,arrogant,fun,self,amusing mode and go into scripted seduction material(meaning i become pick up artist) and the results are awesome .Plus a lot of me giving her squirting or, ms even though i hate having to do the pickup bulls, t in the first place.

Nice guys are like wuzebags(mumus) to women of the world we live in and its quite hard to find a a girl that really likes you for being the cool,sweet,dude that you are.

[color=#9900ff]Huh?
Alot of people associate nice with doormat.
It's kinda like saying people who are blunt are unkind Too many associations that don't even come close to who a person really is.
Anyhoo. . .whatever floats one's boat [/color]

d bigrod:
@havesense,
Nice peom.Guy,be real.that is d definition of a nice guy in an ideal world.
In this world we live in,a nice guy is one who spends foolishly,thinks dat d girl is doing him a favour by dating him. Most babes would say u are nice if u are not as smart as they are. Nice guys are d less smart guys.these type of guys allow d women dictate to them.they end up on d losing side in everything.Nice guys finish last.

[color=deeppink]How much did you pay those ashawo you took pics with
I know both wont cost more than N1,000 rite [/color]

a guy man who has all it takes to love a woman.

A niice guy is maga!!!!! through story