and dem dey wonder why women dey turn into lesbians. why dem no go fashi men? most of them are pretty useless anyway, apart from their contribution to reproduction. sorry, my brodas, but na true talk.

@ tonim, you'll save yourself a lot of apologizing if you can learn to wait a minute before responding or replying people. (I'll just keep it that simple)

@ topic, Men should put a sock in ''this is femine, thats isn't manly'' attitudes. Whether to back the baby or front the baby, just carry ur baby somehow and let baby momma rest a bit or do her own things.

Plus the poster was only suggesting an easier way to do both the baby carrying and whatever it is the hubby was doing.

I'm in total agreement, Mide.

me three o. no just dey rush judgement anyhow in people. shuuu!

any man that wouldnt want to carry their OWN child, let alone in the house, he is not worth it.

ah, some naija men, i feel so sorry for una. your wife is asking you to carry your own child, you dey do "smesme". wow. i just don't get it! since when did it become solely a woman's responsibility to carry the child at all times. fine, i know most mothers are over-protective and wouldn't feel comfy letting even the husband carry the child or do some of the tasks, but haba now, if she has to ask you to help, you shouldn't even utter a word of complaint. i'd be very upset if my spouse gave me attitude when asking him to carry OUR baby. what crap!
pls, men, try to show some extra support when it comes to caring for your child. afterall, its your "sperma-kini" that helped to create the baby, isn't it? biko o.

how i also wish women wont utter one word of complaint if we asked them to help a bit with some of the bills afterall na you dey use the phone call your mother 23hrs a day!

You intend to pay your girl's cell phone bills David?

Btw what kind of lame thread is this?

davidylan:

how i also wish women wont utter one word of complaint if we asked them to help a bit with some of the bills afterall na you dey use the phone call your mother 23hrs a day!

Most women are able to juggle a full time job, look after the child, clean the house and go shopping, cook everyday, AND still provide 50% of bills.

Some men r very bitter

blue-sky:

Most women are able to juggle a full time job, look after the child, clean the house and go shopping, cook everyday, AND still provide 50% of bills.

Some men r very bitter

Most men are able to juggle a full time job, endure 24hrs non-stop nagging, double as the household handy man AND still provide 100% of bills.

Some women are very bitter!

ThiefOfHearts:

You intend to pay your girl's cell phone bills David?

What's wrong with it?

davidylan:

What's wrong with it?

Nothing really but dont complain if you're willing to do it

ThiefOfHearts:

Nothing really but don't complain if you're willing to do it

i'm not complaining, its always a pleasure doing so. Dont just nag if i refuse to bathe the baby or choose a night out with the boys watching the champions league instead of joining you to cook egusi. If i pay the bills you cook the food, no arguments!

@davidylan
its in a womans nature to nag

blue-sky:

@davidylan
its in a womans nature to nag

Its in a man's nature to refuse to back his baby.

davidylan:

Its in a man's nature to refuse to back his baby.

dont back the baby , BUT U WILL CARRY THE BABY

@davidylan
so ur saying if ur own child was crying, u wouldnt see to the babys needs?

omogenaija:

don't back the baby , BUT You WILL CARRY THE BABY

is it by force? 

blue-sky:

@davidylan
so your saying if your own child was crying, u wouldnt see to the babys needs?

If his mother is not close by sure i will see to his needs as long as it does not involve changing smelly nappies.

when u get a child, come bak to this thread and tell us if your views have changed

davidylan:

. If i pay the bills you cook the food, no arguments!

Dream on.

If anything I'll be the one off watching the championship games while I expect to see my hot amala ready for me when it's over.

Bushbaby! 

blue-sky:

when u get a child, come bak to this thread and tell us if your views have changed

they are not likely to change dear, i stand by my refusal to change smelly nappies!

ThiefOfHearts:

Dream on.

If anything I'll be the one off watching the championship games while I expect to see my hot amala ready for me when it's over.

Bushbaby!

No be your fault. Better remove your head from the clouds and wake up to reality. Amala koo pounded yam ni.

No not a fan of pounded yam. Amala!

amala tastes like flour and water. digusting!

Better learn to make it right then

Plus it's all about the accompanying stew and okra anyway

some men are lazy, period. a woman can multi-task even if she's a houswife, yet common to ask for a favor - carry your OWN baby, na wahala. some guys shouldn't be called MEN at all. you think its just chooking your kini into a woman's kini that makes you a mad? no, siry-bob. its your maturity and responsibility that does. get with the programs, guys.

soulpatrol:

amala tastes like flour and water. digusting!

of course it is flour and water!  

ThiefOfHearts:

Better learn to make it right then

Plus it's all about the accompanying stew and okra anyway

you forgot to include periwinkles, goat meat and bokoto. Better learn to cook it now, your husband wont be helping you out.

goat meat ko, mad cow meat ni.

ThiefOfHearts:

Better learn to make it right then

Plus it's all about the accompanying stew and okra anyway

that shit makes me throw up everytime i eat it.   no offence. pounded yam makes me sleepy and lazy. i can manage eba, but its also heavy in my stomach. no wonder yoruba girls dey always get big nyansh (ass). na all that heavy heavy food wey we dey chop. haba.

soulpatrol:

some men are lazy, period. a woman can multi-task even if she's a houswife, yet common to ask for a favor - carry your OWN baby, na wahala. some guys shouldn't be called MEN at all. you think its just chooking your kini into a woman's kini that makes you a mad? no, siry-bob. its your maturity and responsibility that does. get with the programs, guys.

some women are lazy, period. a man can multi-task even if he's a handyman, yet common to ask for a favor - cook your own food and carry your baby, na wahala. some ladies shouldn't be called WOMEN at all. you think its waiting for a man to chook your kini that makes you a woman? no, ma. its your maturity and responsibility that does. get with the programs, ladies.  

Eba is ugly.

Amala is nice, smooth and pretty

like a baby's bottom! lol 

_{Btw i agree with you about the 'heaviness' of our damn food}

ThiefOfHearts:

Eba is ugly.

Amala is nice, smooth and pretty

like a baby's bottom! lol 

_{between i agree with you about the 'heaviness' of our damn food}

no wonder the baby dey cry sef, you don chop the bottom along with your amala!  Poor thing.

David you don craze

and before Im attacked by the all mighty psychos of Nairaland, I will apologize for using "damn" in my previous posts

Thankfully Im not a mother yet so I cant be attacked based on that.

@davidylan. copy copy

@thiefofhearts. abi o. gotta be careful how we use the almighty word "damn" less we be crucified on this thread.