AsiwajuNdigbo:


I agree brother Ahudiya.

Men must startbtaking these women before deity to take her womb swear oath of good behavior and submission to his captainship. The man is authority and captain of that household. No miscreant sailor in the shape of wife should rock the boat while the captain is steering.

These yeye wives nowadays are useless. When im ready im going o village to find one i can control. Not all these oloshos that are as wide underneath as lagos ibadan expressway. They lack sense and their toto sef lack home training to recognize who captains the ship.

Take her before deity. No more bible oath. Shit

Frustrated007:
I wonder who the unfortunate guy is ...the guy that married you.

Favourchris:


Teaching ur sons how to worship women doesn't make u a wise mother.

Teach your son how to treat people right. Humanity b4 gender.

You guys are trying to solve a problem and creating another.

See, the world will squeeze out life out those boys... make them soft and watch other men match life out of them.

Out here even men don't give a f*ck about men. Is survival of the fittest.

Teach them how to treat people right, teach them decency of life...

If teach them how to worship women..

I pitty those boys, because even women won't spare them ..

The world is never perfect and can't be..

Is eat or be eaten

Hathor5:


Many women are willing to treat their husbands like kings, abroad or not, the problem is that too many men are far from marriage material and far from understanding what it means to be a good husband.

OchoL:


Gibberish.

What happens to a Nigerian woman abroad is the case of what happens when you give a hungry policeman a uniform and a gun to patrol the streets - they will extort and abuse power!

Why is it that Indian & Chinese women don't do such when abroad? Despite how much these women earn, the value their culture and stay in their lane when it comes to domestic life. But Nigerian women? Power hungry, vicious and callous to the core.. any small power and they start displaying inbred witchcraft behaviour.

What gender is more culpable in child abuse and the maltreatment of househelps? ...this is to tell you what the average Nigerian woman is capable of when in a position of power.

Deep down, you yourself know the truth about female nature and will not take it lightly if someone does to your Male relatives what some of these women abroad do to our men.

OchoL:


This in itself is a major contradiction.

A man TAKES you abroad, and you call that a partnership?

Gosh I can't with this mentality

Cocao:


It is possible I used a strong term. Slavery here does not literally mean slavery...a better suited word will be domination, maybe annihilation?

It is one thing to make decisions, it is another to be inclusive and considerate in the decision making process.

OchoL:


Nah, you've been coyly rude and subtly spreading lies and deceit which is why you caught my attention.

You desperately wanna belong to the resident crew of dumb NL feminists who obviously are clueless on what feminism truly stands for - so you write silly one-sided epistles which make no sense just so stupiid cunts like zzorr and co.. can cheer you on.

Yet despite all your effort, dem still no send you.

In this entire forum, no one has given you the attention you so desperately seek more than me

Adios to you too!

JovialJune:



Lol I already have sons, I am and will continue to train them and teach them right on how to treat ladies well, regardless of where they are in future

Cheers.

OchoL:


She's lying.

JovialJune is a recent graduate from Covenant uni. She only said that to add credibility to her useless post.

Bizibi:
story!!!

Cocao:
Men,

Taking your wives to a civil society means that you should begin to see them as worthy partners. Do not think you can be their master and God abroad, instead, work in a partnership, like marriage was intended to be.

Women, this abroad is for everyone. It is not gender specific. If you want to be in a society that values your contribution as a woman, you can make the move for yourself without waiting for any man that would continue to use that help as a chain on your neck. Do your thing biko.

Hathor5:


You better listen and learn before you start another dysfunctional family.

odinson1:


Oh what a pity!
Those poor innocent boys are gonna learn the innate nature of women the Hard way. I really wonder what you will gain from Teaching your son's how to respect(worship) women. just Have it in mind that Girls are gonna turn those Sons of yours into Rags who will be begging them(the girls) for just a lil sniff of their panties

MrColdsweat:
The modern woman is emotionally chaotic, psychologically violent and destructive.


Boycott marriage.

Cocao:


I apologize for quoting you in the first place. Your history with online arguments have not been particularly favorable. Please feel free to do you and encourage the people around you in your own line of thinking. Have a nice day.

Ishilove:

Why do I need his consent to build a property with my own money?

MrColdsweat:


Look at what the idiot wrote.

She's going to teach her sons to respect women and treat them right.

She will not teach her sons that respect is earned. She will not teach her sons the way of women. The importance of loyalty and brotherhood.

That is why we have a generation of weak men. Women raise their sons to be utilities for their fellow women.

God forbid that I will allow a woman raise my son.

Martinez39s:
Is this not what I have been saying since? If you like don't swallow the red pill. One of the worst mistakes an African man can make is to get married abroad or bring his wife abroad to stay permanently. Western societies and their laws are gynocentric. The marital laws put all the power and authority in the wife's hand and gives her the room to misbehave, abuse, control and coerce her husband with impunity. The husband can't leave the marriage easily or he risk losing his house, properties, and his children. Divorce over there is simply mental rape to a man. Even worse, he can face deportation. Women are cruel, emotional and sadistic beasts when they have power and leverage over you.

A word is enough for the wise.

Hathor5:


Keep boycotting. The capable men are enjoying their wives and the cosy, loving homes they create for them.

UwaMmebii:


Hmmm marry her here, leave her here so that another man will be fucking her? Nah I will rather marry a black America there

OchoL:
OP, you better be careful before JovialJune, apatheticme & CHoccolaTE will soon accuse you of being a male pretending to be female.


Meanwhile.. the biggest disgrace to womanhood are those urgent 2k girls - dirty lazy girls who refuse to work legitimate jobs for their money.. rather they whoore around, begging for alms from men up and down, then come on NL forming feminism.

bambiala girls putting real hardworking women to shame.

luminouz:
..

Did you just say annihilation?
Its simple, y'all women want to eat ya cake and have it.

Frustrated007:
there's nothing women offer in marriages that a man earning decent money can't get without marrying.
You Women should stop trying to hoodwink men into marrying you!!
Marriage to most modern women is a bad deal! only fools and men with limited intellectual capacity engage in it.

afroxyz:
It is only nigerian women that this bullshyte is predominant. Forget all that talk about being trained to be submissive in nigeria. Asian women are also trained to be submissive, yet they stick to their husbands when they go abroad. Why naija women own come different.

Cocao:


Your post reeks of assumptions. Yes, I know what the word means, and yes, I mean it as it is.
Your marriage may be the one where domination is important, it does not have to be like that.

Before you speak of other nations, maybe be familiar with their statistics. That you don't hear about them does not mean it is not prevalent. You are obviously a product of search engine and social media algorithms. This link gives a brief insight to domestic violence in other immigrant communities.

http://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/userfiles/file/Children_and_Families/Immigrant.pdf

Zzor:
Only irresponsible men opt for transactional sex.I don't know about relationship to be subtly transactional sex