mummyire:
morning famz, am a bit popular here on nairaland but I had to create a new account for this thread. most of u here might finally guess my other moniker after reading my story but I don't wanna reveal my identity because some guys here might mock me later with it.
so guys, I really need ur advise and help. I met this my partner some years back in a party and we had our introduction but no wedding yet. along the line. I got pregnant and we had a son now 3 years old. I am into catering and also an event planner but my partner has no job but he's trying his best to get one, though he's from a wealthy family. but I am d one who fund all the bills because I always believed he will get a job soon an will do the needful. during the pandemic I sat him down and advised he should start a business and he said he has plans for that but he's not financially buoyant to fund the business and he said his father promised to give him some money to do the business. then after 2months(august) I saw no changes, then I asked him why d delay, he said his father hasn't given him d money then I asked how much he needed for d business, he said 2million, but I had only 1.4m with me, I promised to give him 1.2m to start from somewhere, which I did. after a week he said he needed just 300k to complete the business he's venturing to, I had nothing with me but because I believed in him, I sold my only car for 400k, and I gave it to him just to satisfy him. this is a car I use for business stuffs also. a week after I gave him all dis money, she stopped coming home, whenever I call him. he gives excuses about his business bla bla bla.. I tried to understand. meanwhile i gave him some money to pay d landlord earlier dis year which he didn't pay unknowingly to me. I was shocked when the landlord brought his boys, police, to throw out our properties last month. I asked d landlord why he would throw out my properties out of the house without any notice, he said he has been giving my husband d notice and our time is up. I am still trying to move from this shock, last I heard, my husband isn't in d country his numbers hasn't been going through, though he sent me a message that I shouldn't bother looking for him. my business has collapsed, I moved back to my mother's house. my son is really suffering, it's my mother that feeding both of us with the little things she sells. am really heartbroken and embarrassed. I have not bought clothes for my kid for this festive period. though I recently got a space where I can always sell sharwarma and BBQ with snacks. but most of my equipment are spoilt and stolen. I really need help from u guys to please help raise me up again, I have been fooled by love, but pls because of my innocent kid and mother, u guys pls make some contribution for me so I can start my business this January. I forgot to say, I went to his parents place but they said their son won't do such a thing and sent me away with their grandson. I really suffered, and I hope I can stand up again. for any doubts, I now stay at my mother's place jibowu yaba(railway line) if there is anyone that wants to make confirmation I am ready to see u with my son. or send me a pm. my WhatsApp number. 08134547928. though I don't have data to check messages now but can check later if I buy card.

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pcguru1
lovethaa
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Dominique
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and lots more. u guys should pls help me out, u will never be put to shame.

Seanjay:
Oh sister Thy Lord Is Your Strength.. I can feel your pains even me right now hate”s love so badly now, am so scared of getting married with how much this love thing has DAMAGED ME... so many times I cried myself to bed and woke up still crying..
still found it very unbelievable how someone could told you they love you and still hurts you really bad without looking back..
Now a days I really do not Trust anyone and it affecting me.. I doubts almost everything now
Heartbreak is the father of Depression.. Please Don’t Be Depressed It is just another phase Of life it shall pass
SOMETIMES LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH
May God Send You The Help That You Need

chronique:


How and where do you guys meet all these kind of people and characters? Sorry though.

tobechi74:
I love your story. I need the wassap chat between you and him as evidence

madridguy:

CalliDora1:
How can you be so carried away by love not to notice all the fishy moves by your man?

May God see you through o.

Seanjay:



Bro smiles covered a lot of what people are going thru
If you meet me in the physical world you will say am a strong person (hard guy) mere looking at me but have got some mad scar that always make me cry if I remember I was broken badly after investing some much in the relationship,
STILL WONDER HOW PEOPLE WILL TELL YOU THEY LOVE YOU BUT TURN BACK TO HURT AND BROKE YOU REALLY BAD AFTER THEY KNOW HOW MUCH YOU CARE ABOUT THEM..

I Will Try Best To Fine But Am Really Depressed

mummyire:
I understand how u feel when u have done so much all in name of love. it's really heartbreaking, and some times we would forget about our loved ones thinking about suicide. be good sir, the right person will come.

Dijita:
I am very sorry to learn of your situation I pray God almighty will favor you and restore you. However given the number of fraudulent claims people used to get money. I am finding it hard to believe your story is as narrated. Please forgive me, the fact that I am not fully convinced doesn't means it didn't happen.

This is where I am skeptical. You have been living with your husband for about 3 years and you gave him all your money without having a good knowledge of the business he is going to do. You have not seen any returns on the over 1million plus you initially gave, you sold the major asset in the business that is currently supporting your family. I have a feeling we heard your own side but if we heard your husband's side it is most likely to be different. I probably would have been convinced if you said you gave him all these money to sponsor him abroad and he is no longer answering your phone.
You said he is from a wealthy family have you approached them?

Mide3367:
I beg you in the name of God. Flee from that man. I have seen someone like him before. He ruined his wife.. Flee!!! Abeg flee!!! Count your loss and start again biko.

mummyire:
sis, I really messed up. I was fooled by him. I know he will also meet his doom wherever he is because I hardly sleep nowadays, Why could he do this to us? but I really need to start again and be better than my former self.

mummyire:
sis, I really messed up. I was fooled by him. I know he will also meet his doom wherever he is because I hardly sleep nowadays, Why could he do this to us? but I really need to start again and be better than my former self.

CalliDora1:
How can you be so carried away by love not to notice all the fishy moves by your man?

May God see you through o.

Froshloaded:


That man is a beast.

CalliDora1:



Don't worry. The good Lord will help you get back on your feet again, bigger and better.

Froshloaded:


That man is a beast.

Ulunne777:
He will surely come back from where they creep out from, of course after squandering it ,with his mother and a cleric who will come and tell you how some other women experienced worse yet are still managing with their husbands. How a wise woman builds her home.


When you refuse, they ask you to at least let him see his son, in a way that he'll try to get to your heart.Then you start reminiscing. Old lovely memories prescamming times and how your son needs his fatherly presence.

He is a big time Scammer .

God will see you through.