She is a considerate person. She probably wanted to help you because of your complaint of lack of funds. Otherwise she would have returned everything including the 2000 naira.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

I dont understand the beef here She refund you money, is it a must to buy her things for xmas? Na she dey celebrate? She celebrate her birthday, Christ no follow, now it's Jesus Christ's birthday and she wants to buy what Man, she never deny you kpekus. Just dey form no understand until she wan come break na. Why are u putting the cart before the horse??

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

Ti alale ba ni ko da fun e, alaro o ni je ko da fun e. Olofo oshi

Don't break up with her, behave like you didn't felt what she did, she may have justification to reveal to you later, as i see you, you are yet to study the kind of lady you are staying with.

OlayemiAshraf:
Ask your self this question "do you love her" ....if yes... Then ask her if she love you.... If she said no... forward me her number.... I'm love therapist

Women love conditionally and that is audio. Women have no love to give to men who's not their son, the earlier men understand this, the better.


That's why in the entire bible, there's no where it was written that wives should love their husbands.

Thank you. I have the same opinion too. It's not every issue one must bring to public attention.

thesicilian:
When will you guys learn to manage your private sh*t without bringing it online?

Serves you right. Thought you guys don't give ladies money at all? Una yansh don dey open.
So you still date a lady that cries for Christmas clothes...manage your under 20 in peace don't come here to bother us. We sef get wetin dey worry us.
Afterall no be her birthday na Jesus Christ own.

OP please, send the money to me.

Keep her.
She is a good lady

Just123:


I can't believe what I just read, the entitlement in this one is strong ooo.
I blame the op for turning himself to a cashcow for his girlfriend.
Them never born anybody birthed by a woman both guy and ladies way I go "dash" money to tell me "it's not enough"

Oya dash me 10k first

Wahala no dey finish for Naija again?

You decided to break up with her, where we there when u were toasting her?

Okay, here’s some free advice.

Whether married or single, Nigerian men are kept on their toes by their women folk. Forget all that feminist crap they mumble occasionally, ure expected to cater for their every need & desire or u lose ur respect/favorite kittycat.

Dem fit briefly lock up for the desire part, but we all pay for getting laid one way or the other.
If u can’t negotiate ur way out of a heavy bill with a girlfriend now, marriage won’t make the process any easier. Practice dey say makes perfect nwanne!

I love this kind of baby. I give you money, you reject it I will be the happiest person. Why I don't have luck to get this kind of good girls.

Buhari is too tribalistic he wants everything situated at the north

samzyini:
she told you with style by refunding the money that she is not after your money but love and care

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes.

The audacity

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

She has a business where she make profit daily and it's your responsibility to buy her soap all the time. She doesn't look like a good woman to me, maybe you are dating those early 20s ladies that knows the world is on their feet.

she bi runs girl, that money no reach short time weee she de collect so discard her in a trash can bro and move on.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

Before you leave her. Make sure you enjoy her kpekus well.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

You just dodged a bullet

Who is faithful in little is faithful in much and vice versa.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my gra8ndma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

Guy is u okay? U still seeking advise? Na so she sweet reach? U no go run 4 ur life. She will soon ask for money for bone straight hair

FashionCookie:
Serves you right. Thought you guys don't give ladies money at all? Una yansh don dey open.
So you still date a lady that cries for Christmas clothes...manage your under 20 in peace don't come here to bother us. We sef get wetin dey worry us.
Afterall no be her birthday na Jesus Christ own.

Nne, midlife crisis?
No Christmas presents?
No commit die o

OscarJaden:
say no to girlfriend and see how much you will save in 5 months


I Rather drink sniper than to date a Nigerian girl

all of them are ingrates in one way or the other

Make we hear word jare. Na your type be OP.

OscarJaden:
say no to girlfriend and see how much you will save in 5 months


I Rather drink sniper than to date a Nigerian girl

all of them are ingrates in one way or the other

You are wrong.

Na trap run o

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

how do u like ur slap..doggy,cowgirl..69..cause u really need it

FashionCookie:
Serves you right. Thought you guys don't give ladies money at all? Una yansh don dey open.
So you still date a lady that cries for Christmas clothes...manage your under 20 in peace don't come here to bother us. We sef get wetin dey worry us.
Afterall no be her birthday na Jesus Christ own.

Premium advice from a 30+ lady

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

Stop this cheap emotional blackmail. Do u know sm gals are even giving their guys stuffs this same Yuletide?? One ingrate is saying 10k is not ok. She shud have returned and said Smtn better. His fellow guy wud be more appreciative bt that’s entitled gals for u. U owe this and that and this.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

Una sense of entitlement is nauseating.

Chai!!

paulolee:
she asked for 2k and u sent her 10k for total package and she refunded 8k back saying that it cant get her Christmas things and maybe bone straight and u didnt ask her abt the remaining 2k??
I swear she must refund that 2k before we break up

This made me laugh really hard.

Lol.

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.

What has the girl done to deserve 10k??

OscarJaden:
say no to girlfriend and see how much you will save in 5 months


I Rather drink sniper than to date a Nigerian girl

all of them are ingrates in one way or the other.

Some still get sense but dem nor pass 7

Bro, I don't think this issue should be discussed here. You said she has been your babe for good two years, though this is an open forum, but this is personal. Who knows the babe here that is in the position to justify her actions.. Only or close friends would know what could her have led to her swift action. She is not a stranger to you, talk to her.

Petsolo1115:
My babe of over 2 years called me this evening for 2000 naira to get some body soap products.

I transferred 10,000 naira to her. She called back and asked what the money was meant for. I told her to manage it for her personal needs for this yuletide season. I made her to understand few days ago that i won't be able to give her enough money for Christmas due to the fact that I have to support my Dad financially for my grandma's burial which is in 7 days time.

To cut the whole story short. She refunded 8,000 naira and told me it was better I keep my money than giving her what she can't manage to buy clothes. My babe has a business which gives her profits on a daily basis. The money I spent on her from November 1st to 30th is in excess of 30,000 naira.

I am currently contemplating on breaking up with her or forgetting the whole issue..

Your advice please. Criticisms are allowed

I once gave a girl that spent 5k to visit me 8k when she was leaving and she was ungrateful and asked me what is this i am giving her as if she gave me money to keep for her. That was the last day I had anything to do with her again. Mind you, I have spent over 80k on this this girl in question before. So my advise is cut her off. You don't need ungrateful girl around you, even knowing fully that you have a burial at hand.smh

Break up if you want to break up with her, stop disturbing us with story. When last did you invite any of us to come and follow you gbadun the girl?