Havesomesense:
I'm in a relationship with a girl i like very much, she's a good girl, she takes good care of me, I take care of her bills but the issue is that she's broke.

she's not lazy but she's too nice and not business minded like me.

she's relaxed and comfortable with what i provide for her

I'm tired of taking care of her, i have other important things to do with my money.

Another thing I don't like is that, i feel too comfortable in the relationship, i added weight, big stomach, I lost my good shape.

Also, I haven't saved much since our relationship started, i like her a lot but i want to quit the relationship so I can invest more on myself because I believe that if i were a broke ass she wouldn't have fallen for me



what do you think ?

Havesomesense:


I gave her oil perfumes to sell,

i told her not to do free stuffs for casual people cus she's dexterous and her friends and other people would take advantage of her niceness.

I told her that she's relaxed and feels too comfortable with me and i don't want that..

the thing is if I let her go, i may not see her type again, she's everything i want in a woman but she's broke and her immediate family too is broke.

SocialJustice:
Na only you waka come, you can also waka go. Look for a girl that earns like you.

Havesomesense:


She's a very good cook, sometimes she bake bread, cake, fry chin chin, make ice cream etc

As for the questions I'll ask her

SimpDetector:


Loving relationships only exist within the pages of romance novels and in movies and TV shows. Women don't even want loving relationships. Show them love and they will hate you. To have a successful relationship with women you need to make them feel a mix of positive and negative emotions. Never make them feel certain that you love them. Always keep them on their toes. They are addicted to uncertainty.

Relationships between men and women are transactional and if you don't realize this you will end up with the short end of the stick. A man should always view his interaction with a woman as a business deal, and like every business deal you want to get more than you invest. Women naturally view relationships this way, so why shouldn't men?

Women want to be seen and treated as objects, sexual objects to be specific. When you treat them any differently they will despise you.

Ishilove:

@bolded. Only God knows where you people are getting all these satanic ideas from. Show me negative emotions and I will respond with negativity that will shock you. Make me feel loved and you have my mumu button.

All I can say to you and your ilk is "repent and allow God back into your hearts". Anyone that has the fear of God will not write the cow dung you people write in the name of redpill.

Let God be true and every man be a liar.

Ishilove:

@bolded. Only God knows where you people are getting all these satanic ideas from. Show me negative emotions and I will respond with negativity that will shock you. Make me feel loved and you have my mumu button.

All I can say to you and your ilk is "repent and allow God back into your hearts". Anyone that has the fear of God will not write the cow dung you people write in the name of redpill.

Let God be true and every man be a liar.

Ladyhippolyta88:

That guy you quoted is something else.
I even engaged him yesterday in a discussion he has a very sick mindset about women he claims to know everything about women but he does not know shit about us he said women don't know anything about themselves that a woman should be emotionally abused to stay with a man and that it is called trauma bond blah blah blah.
I want to believe he is not like this offline but I worry about the gullible men he will mislead on this forum as a result of the sick mindset he preaches here about what men should be and how women are check his post and see for yourself

Ishilove:

@bolded. Only God knows where you people are getting all these satanic ideas from. Show me negative emotions and I will respond with negativity that will shock you. Make me feel loved and you have my mumu button.

All I can say to you and your ilk is "repent and allow God back into your hearts". Anyone that has the fear of God will not write the cow dung you people write in the name of redpill.

Let God be true and every man be a liar.

SocialJustice:
Na only you waka come, you can also waka go. Look for a girl that earns like you.

odinson1:


Smart men have learnt never to take relationship Advice from women. Because you don't really care about us,no woman does. You only give us Advice that is Favourable to the woman only because at the end,your only allegiance is to the sister hood

It is IMPOSSIBLE for a woman to Love a man,women only go into relationships and friendships to exploit, manipulate and Milk men dry of their resources.

Ladyhippolyta88:

That guy you quoted is something else.
I even engaged him yesterday in a discussion he has a very sick mindset about women he claims to know everything about women but he does not know shit about us he said women don't know anything about themselves that a woman should be emotionally abused to stay with a man and that it is called trauma bond blah blah blah.
I want to believe he is not like this offline but I worry about the gullible men he will mislead on this forum as a result of the sick mindset he preaches here about what men should be and how women are check his post and see for yourself

Ladyhippolyta88:


Thank goodness I will never meet men like you.
Enjoy your doomed relationships with this terrible mindset of yours.

Havesomesense:


I gave her oil perfumes to sell,

i told her not to do free stuffs for casual people cus she's dexterous and her friends and other people would take advantage of her niceness.

I told her that she's relaxed and feels too comfortable with me and i don't want that..

the thing is if I let her go, i may not see her type again, she's everything i want in a woman but she's broke and her immediate family too is broke.

Ladyhippolyta88:

That guy you quoted is something else.
I even engaged him yesterday in a discussion he has a very sick mindset about women he claims to know everything about women but he does not know shit about us he said women don't know anything about themselves that a woman should be emotionally abused to stay with a man and that it is called trauma bond blah blah blah.
I want to believe he is not like this offline but I worry about the gullible men he will mislead on this forum as a result of the sick mindset he preaches here about what men should be and how women are check his post and see for yourself

Ishilove:

@bolded. Only God knows where you people are getting all these satanic ideas from. Show me negative emotions and I will respond with negativity that will shock you. Make me feel loved and you have my mumu button.

All I can say to you and your ilk is "repent and allow God back into your hearts". Anyone that has the fear of God will not write the cow dung you people write in the name of redpill.

Let God be true and every man be a liar.

SimpDetector:


You are always quick to bring your Christian faith into every discussion, yet your attitude doesn't reflect the basic tenets of your faith. You are the opposite of everything Christ represents; short-tempered, egotistical and rude. You need the fear of God more than I do, hypocrite.

But though I be rude in speech, yet not in knowledge; but we have been throughly made manifest among you in all things.
Have I committed an offence in abasing myself that ye might be exalted, because I have preached to you the gospel of God freely?

CalliDora1:
Make we hear word.

So if you start having children you won't take care of them? You'll say because you spend money on your children, you'll disown them?

People don't want to be responsible any longer.

CalliDora1:
Make we hear word.

So if you start having children you won't take care of them? You'll say because you spend money on your children, you'll disown them?

People don't want to be responsible any longer.