everything I know about sex was taught by my OG Father

Not calling penis and vulva by their names - parents make children shy of their private parts.
But that's not what makes folks sexually promiscuous. If you're sexually promiscuous, it's you and whoever introduced you to it. If parents told you where babies come from, does that mean you'd not try it? You're not married, you don't want babies, you know where babies come from yet you're having sex. You think your parents could have done better? Except you expected them to castrate you, they did their best within the means they have. Na you turn to whatever you did. Gracias!

thebosstrevor1:
Most people were curious about sex because of what they watched on Tv and saw on social media. Children naturally do not talk about what they don't know about.

Sex education makes you justify having premarital sex.
Sex education has nothing to do with educating the child about sex but all about enabling the act of sex without feeling quilty.

Why should a child be concerned about sex education at a age when the child is suppose to learning tools to be independent and successful.

Sex education is all about the obsession of sex

You're the only one that made sense in this thread.

A child that wants to explore will explore. In fact, sex education will fuel their urge to practice it.

Although I was never given sex education by my parents, I got it in school.

Yet, it didn't stop man from exploring different sizes of pussies, even the ones that smelled like dead fish and I had to run away.

We're now in the age of information, where the knowledge of an entire generation can be in your hand.

The only way you can harbour the wrong notions of sex is when you're dumb.

As early as 13 years old, I always validate every information I get from a simple Google Search, and people were wondering why I'm so smart.

Please, no one should blame their parents for their promiscuous lifestyles. Your parents didn't get any sex education either, but they turned out fine.

My advice is to expose them to a reliable source of information as they grow. Teach them how to seek for answer, especially with a phone or computer.

We're in the information age!

In America and Europe, children are taught about sex education but it still doesn't reduce the desire for sex... It only teaches them about ways to prevent unwanted pregnancies and STIs.

You should understand that this world is sex saturated. And whether you teach sex education or not, it doesn't stop people from having sex.

Henrywalker:
Lucky you! Your mom told you something (though it's fallacy), but mine told me nothing — absolutely nothing!

Sometimes, wrong information can be more dangerous than no information.

Sapiosexuality:
But even abroad, where there is sex education, the level of sex is even higher than what we have here. So, I don't think it is a problem of sex education.

Who told you this?

Apparently, you are still thinking like our African elders.

Sex education doesn't stop you from having sex.

It only teach you what to expect when you have or don't have sex.



Sex isn't a taboo.

Karleb:


Who told you this?

Apparently, you are still thinking like our African elders.

Sex education doesn't stop you from having sex.

It only teach you what to expect when you have or don't have sex.



Sex isn't a taboo.

What's your point? OP argued that sex is high because of lack of sex education and I said even where there is sex education sex is still high. My point is, sex education has nothing to do with the increased rate of sex in Nigeria. It is all about understanding what's it all about and taking precautions where necessary. What's your point?

billynoni:
Sex education? With the way African parents are strict with sex talks, with their children... It makes you wonder some times as a child how they gave birth to you... like did I fall from heaven? Was I adopted?

As i was told back then that if i touch any girl she will get pregnant.......


Jst imagine dat kind of sex education........


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Sapiosexuality:
What's your point? OP argued that sex is high because of lack of sex education and I said even where there is sex education sex is still high. My point is, sex education has nothing to do with the increased rate of sex in Nigeria. It is all about understanding what's it all about and taking precautions where necessary. What's your point?

You claimed sex is higher in America where they have sex education, how do you know this?

Americans, European et al are only liberal than us. We have sex more than those people.


Even though one of the core teaching of sex education is abstinence, sex education is all about having sex responsibly.

Cutehector:
StacyO thank God for porn that yarns by liposure hit differently

I barely watch porn.

Just once in a year. Though the urge is always there. Lol

Karlifate:

Sometimes, wrong information can be more dangerous than no information.

Yeah! That's true.

D

Op your premise is very faulty like many people have said here. Sex education won't tame or reduce your desire. At best it will only avoid unwanted pregnancy or save you from STD. Our parents are conservative yes, so was theirs and they somehow manage to turn right. Don't shift blames please.

Nigerian girls are useless.

Karleb:


You claimed sex is higher in America where they have sex education, how do you know this?

Americans, European et al are only liberal than us. We have sex more than those people.


Even though one of the core teaching of sex education is abstinence, sex education is all about having sex responsibly.

How do you know that we have sex more than them?

You don't know what you are talking about.

The sexual revolution of the 60s spread by marxists in America created a sex obbession and increase STDs in their society, till today, many Americans regretted about that period. No wonder, America is the home of pornography and different sexual pervertion that destroys bonding. No wonder divorce is rampant in their society.

If the core teaching of sex education is abstainance then many parents are doing their job. Maybe you are not listening or you are more obsessed about sex than the message of abstainance which your parent are preaching to you.

Why are you interested in sex if your parent have already taught you about abstainance.

You want little kids to start having sex from a young age so that when they have reached maturity, they see sex as nothing to the extend that they can't bond with their partners.

What is more important to a kid for development?

Sex education or education about maths, English and various sciences

thebosstrevor1:


How do you know that we have sex more than them?

You don't know what you are talking about.

The sexual revolution of the 60s spread by marxists in America created a sex obbession and increase STDs in their society, till today, many Americans regretted about that period. No wonder, America is the home of pornography and different sexual pervertion that destroys bonding.

If the core teaching of sex education is abstainance then many parents are doing their job. Maybe you are not listening or you are more obsessed about sex than the message of abstainance which your parent are preaching to you.

Why are you interested in sex if your parent have already taught you about abstainance.

You want little kids to start having sex from a young age so that when they have reached maturity, they see sex as nothing to the extend that they can't bond with their partners.

They have porn sites and all because they are liberal.
How do you expect us to talk about sex when an actress was sanctioned in the north for showing her back?

We have sex more! I mean, look at how drastic our population increase has been.

You know why I hate the brute force approach of Nigerian parents, it's because it never works.

Young people can't abstain from sex! It's a fact.
Their hormones are high and they want to explore. It's natural. You can argue it all you want but that fact won't change.

Even though we don't want kids to have sex, they will!
We can only advice them on how to have it properly.

Some people even share condoms after giving sex education.

Karleb:


They have porn sites and all because they are liberal.
How do you expect us to talk about sex when an actress was sanctioned in the north for showing her back?

We have sex more! I mean, look at how drastic our population increase has been.

You know why I hate the brute force approach of Nigerian parents, it's because it never works.

Young people can't abstain from sex! It's a fact.
Their hormones are high and they want to explore. It's natural. You can argue it all you want but that fact won't change.

Even though we don't want kids to have sex, they will!
We can only advice them on how to have it properly.

Some people even share condoms after giving sex education.

Stop writing things that are not factual. So you use population growth as a facts that people are having sex...how absurd, sex is for procreation.simple and our population growth shows that...

Young people can abstain from sex, many young kids do. There is what is called self control.

Promoting sex all in the name of sex education to young kids when they are suppose to be getting real education on how to become a doctors, lawyers etc is evil.

A sex obsessed society brings STDs.

Which is more important to kids and society? sex education or education about sciences

The reason an African elder will never get it is because they choose not to get it.

Sex is more of recreation than procreation.

Our population increase has been drastic!
If people don't have sex, how will this occur?

You need to go to where a lot of young people are to know they are having sex from time to time.


One thing I've noticed is the more we stigmatize sex, the more young people have it.

So keep on calling it a bad name, we all know how our societies are affected negatively because of things like these.

The sex education African parents even offer is even Bullshit.
How do you expect Deeper Life members to give sex education.

You're teaching sex education and you won't even pronounce peenis and viggina? You'll rather call it male and female reproduction organ?

Karleb:
The reason an African elder will never get it is because they choose not to get it.

Sex is more of recreation than procreation.

Our population increase has been drastic!
If people don't have sex, how will this occur?

You need to go to where a lot of young people are to know they are having sex from time to time.


One thing I've noticed is the more we stigmatize sex, the more young people have it.

So keep on calling it a bad name, we all know how our societies are affected negatively because of things like these.

The sex education African parents even offer is even Bullshit.
How do you expect Deeper Life members to give sex education.

You're teaching sex education and you won't even pronounce peenis and viggina? You'll rather call it male and female reproduction organ?

Yes, that's true. They will hardly call the reproductive organs their real name. They act as if they are still virgins and as if they know nothing about séx .

billynoni:
Sex education? With the way African parents are strict with sex talks, with their children... It makes you wonder some times as a child how they gave birth to you... like did I fall from heaven? Was I adopted?

I remember little me then. I asked my mum how woman become pregnant and she said you will have to eat very well. That pregnancy is caused by overfeeding
Ignorant me was eating up and down because I want to have baby

Henrywalker:

Yes, that's true. They will hardly call the reproductive organs their real name. They act as if they are still virgins and as if they know nothing about séx .

Don't mind them.

Do you know some ladies don't know what a female condom is talkless of how to use it.

I laugh when people say their kids don't know anything about sex. These kids know more than parents and a lot of them learnt these stuffs in the wrong way possible because their parents wouldn't put them through.

They won't even tell their wards that pornography is film and people don't have real life sex like so.

If you keep talking education and don't even take time to ask your mature kids about their sex and relationship life, what kind of parent does that make you?

Karleb:
The reason an African elder will never get it is because they choose not to get it.

Sex is more of recreation than procreation.

Our population increase has been drastic!
If people don't have sex, how will this occur?

You need to go to where a lot of young people are to know they are having sex from time to time.


One thing I've noticed is the more we stigmatize sex, the more young people have it.

So keep on calling it a bad name, we all know how our societies are affected negatively because of things like these.

The sex education African parents even offer is even Bullshit.
How do you expect Deeper Life members to give sex education.

You're teaching sex education and you won't even pronounce peenis and viggina? You'll rather call it male and female reproduction organ?

This is very dumb.
.
Sex is for recreation not procreation as you wrote then you went on to write about population increase.

If sex is for recreation Rather than procreation then why is their an increase in population?

America population is 300 million, Nigeria is 180 million, according to your logic, who is having more sex?

You don't know what you are writing.

Abstain from sex that is the best sex education every parent can give to a child.

Our society is affected by lack of sex education, as if sex education is more important than actually physical development like good road, electricity etc.

You don't understand anything about sex, you are just obsessed about it.

I choose not to quote you because you obviously don't know what you're talking about and I won't go the abuse lane with you.

Incase you don't know, there's a state in US that's almost the size of Nigeria. Mind you, USA has up to 50 states.

In year 2000, USA population was 282 million while Nigeria's was 122 million, 20 years later USA is 300 million and Nigeria is over 200 million but it is the Americans that love sex more?

Besides, if sex was for procreation alone why do people have sex with pregnant women? Or do I define recreation so you'd understand?

Good road, electricity whatever are what a government do for you, sex education is what you do for your own self and future.


You say I'm obsessed about sex?

My obsession is on something else man!

Don't know how to handle my sister for this.

The guy I feel like using hammer on his head

The world would be a better place when we learn to take blames rather than push it to another person.

They Sha thought you all not to lie and scam but must you'll turn scammer anyway

True

Henrywalker:
One of the main reasons why there are so much immorality on the side of séx is because our parents didn't gave us séx education. That's an ugly truth right? I mean most of us (including me) find out about séx by ourselves. It's through our curiosity to know the difference between the men and women's body that led us to finding and believing whatever that's exposed to us through the internet, peer pressure, or books. And most of the times, the informations that we got weren't genuine.
Children are curious beings. They have a long way to go, a lot of things to learn, and that's why parents should guilde them when it comes to choosing what to read, see or learn. Unfortunately, many parents failed in this area, because they were too busy with work (or some time consuming activities)that they forget their children's need for them.
For example, My parents didn't gave me séx education, I found out everything on my own. I as a kid was curious to know what I don't know, and out of my curiosity, I was exposed to the wrong kind of information. I got the information in the wrong way (through peer pressure, books or the internet), and the negative effects were not left behind.
Honestly, I wish my parents taught me what I needed to know about séx when I was a kid, but they didn't.
Curiosity is like a force of attraction; the more you want or think about something, the more you are likely to do it. So out of curiosity, many kids has been exposed to the wrong knowledge of séx. The funny thing is that social media or peer pressure will always tell you what you wish/want to hear; they will tell you the exciting and fun part of it. They won't tell you the side effects behind it until it's too late.

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Alright, let's confirm if this information is true! Did your parents gave you any séx education when you were a kid? Comment your answer below!

Stop blaming your parents.

Go and ask your parents now if their own parents taught them anything about sex.

That will put things in a better perspective for you.

Henrywalker:
One of the main reasons why there are so much immorality on the side of séx is because our parents didn't gave give us séx education
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For example, My parents didn't gave give me séx education,

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Alright, let's confirm if this information is true! Did your parents gave give you any séx education when you were a kid? Comment your answer below!

Corrected.

Karleb:
I choose not to quote you because you obviously don't know what you're talking about and I won't go the abuse lane with you.

Incase you don't know, there's a state in US that's almost the size of Nigeria. Mind you, USA has up to 50 states.

In year 2000, USA population was 282 million while Nigeria's was 122 million, 20 years later USA is 300 million and Nigeria is over 200 million but it is the Americans that love sex more?

Besides, if sex was for procreation alone why do people have sex with pregnant women? Or do I define recreation so you'd understand?

Good road, electricity whatever are what a government do for you, sex education is what you do for your own self and future.


You say I'm obsessed about sex?

My obsession is on something else man!

You didn't make sense at all.

Wish you good luck in your perceived reality

emmy512:
Don't know how to handle my sister for this.

The guy I feel like using hammer on his head

How old is your sister.

Delete the app and tell her to go and read her books or learn some tailoring. An idle mind is the devils workshop

Threatened the guy and block him.

Even the founders of all these chatting app do not allow their children to use them until they reach a certain age of maturity.

Don't be deceive by all these woke generation nonsense, if you don't monitor now, you might end up regretting.