I really need help on this one. There is this guy i like so much that is in a 2 year old relationship. I am so sure he's not too happy being in it and i wish to do him a favor by taking him away from the girl.
I also knows he likes me very much but i think he's finding it difficult to leave as well.
Can i get some help here from experienced sisters?

Why do you seek help from experienced sisters instead of experienced brothers heh? For doing that, i'll reserve ma comments. Lets hear out the experienced sisters.

I dont think you need to help him move,if he likes u enough,he would move

spoil him with sex. Hw abt dt?

go and look for your own man, uninvited guest.

@poster

not to worry, if it is u he wants, its only a matter of time, he will come to you.

Let no one fool u, all these boys that pretend, MEN USUALLY KNOW WHICH SIDE THEIR BREAD IS BUTTERED ON, which babe they want to keep, and which one they wanna use for fun, forget all those their lies about being confused, or not wanting to hurt the other girl because she has done soo much for him etc, its all BULLSHiT, so, be careful, d same guys, can be heartless to same girl, if all they want is OUT of the r/ship lying thieving pieces of sh*t

let him run wild, if he's yours, he'll come back, no mind, if na u him want, he will come of his own free will, dont try to break them up, because sombody else will do same to u, cos of that very guy

someone else somewhere is also learning how she will snatch the same from you as soon as you succeeds in snatching a man from his girlfriend. Bad lesson.

My ex was snatched about 2 years ago and he has been happy with the girl ever since. I finally realized we were not meant to be and i moved on. So if u feel the relationship will last, go ahead girl! Rescue him from his unhappy, stagnant relationship and save the girl's time as well 

luxoire:


lying thieving pieces of sh*t

Oh my God !

whats all the talk about "snatch" like peeps are now "disposable cups"
ain't nobody "snatching" nothing from nobody c'os if it ain't yours, it just goes right back to where it came from!

@ Poster,

you crack me up - you're sure he's not happy with his r/ship; you in his head and what makes you think with you, he'd be any happier
get a grip girl !

@ Luxoire,

I'm p'urty sure that this dude ain't never even noticed this broad - w'anna bet ?

dis is nonsense. u open ur mouth 2 vomit dis dichotomy.
Even if finally succeed it must surely boomerang.
Go ahead nd snatch ur fellow girl guy. if i may even ask u; how do u knw d guy is nt hapy wth d r/ship? if nt dat d girl in question is also ur friend.

@RuuDie, lol, thats just down right rude!!, amybe he has noticed her, but doesnt wanna leave the other one, he wants to eat his cake and have it

@ g girl
When a man walks into a kitchen and sees a piece of chocolate cake, he wacks it. He wacks it not because he's hungry, he wacks it simply because it's available. This guy's seen that u're available. . he simply wants to wax that a$$ n' get right back to his legit chick.

_{Not happy in his rl'shp my narrow black ass}

RuuDie:

whats all the talk about "snatch" like peeps are now "disposable cups"
ain't nobody "snatching" nothing from nobody c'os if it ain't yours, it just goes right back to where it came from!

This comment got me laughing and rolling on the floor. LMFAO

Bolarge:


_{Not happy in his rl'shp my narrow black ass}

hahahahaha, had to crack up with lafter, @bolarge, is dat a legit description of ur booty?

You shouldn't be trying to take a guy away from a relationship he's already in. Like has been said when he's ready to move on, then he will.

Pls forget abt d guy and move on n am sure u will not want another lady to snatch ur man from u,

you should be a shamed for posting something as stupid as this .If the guy wanted you he would be yours stop playing yourself. silly rabbit

Oh ma goodness girl - why do u wanna 'rescue' him, if he wanted to leave, nobody is stopping him sha.

Girl, u wanna either look for your own or wait till he is cpmpletely free.
Otherwise whatever you build on a faulty foundation, will always crumble.

@topic

Leave the guy where he is if was unhappy he would not be there as one person already said men know what side there bread is buttered on they want fun on the side and will do everything to keep there fun happy. Why "snatch" this guy do u think he can be faithful to you then If he can a relationship for u he can leave ur relationship for another woman, Find ur own sincere and honest man,

@topic
Which kin thing be dis sef? You want to 'snatch' a guy from his two-year old relatonship (and here's me best part) cos you're so 'so sure he's not happy being in it'!!!

Gurl PLEEAAZZEE respect urself and move on with your life hopng for more respectable stuff. Whille i agree that our hearts could play stupid games with us, i believe our heads save us from the folly of our hearts.

@poster
be very careful how you go about it cos you might just get your fingers burnt and look very silly,see a thread here about a lady regreting her actions,we guys are cunning,you might just be giving him the needed fling every man wants once in a while,he will use you for that purpose and then go back to his girl,leaving you hurt, burnt and stung.

@poster
nooooo please snatch him, aproko . you would get what your looking for. but trust me nothing you do in this world goes without a reward. both good and bad there's always a reward. you might be feeling good once you have done it, but that feeling might not be for too long. if you don't experience it now, later. except you decide not to get married.

@ poster
awon gbokogboko aye  
God should help u

shame no catch u ? u want to take another woman's man

lol. nairaland will not kill me. Don't be so sure he's into you. yea there mght be problems

1st misery seeks company. U're probably just a shoulder to lean on 4 d moment

2nd Girls are motivated by competition in other words u'll just end up making the g.friend a better person for him thus strenghten their relationship so caryy on.

3rd Go ahead a blow the guy you'll get your ultimate answer then or then again u ight just end up giving him some 4 nothing sake

4th there no 4th runalongtherenothingmoretoseehere.

@Topic

What is so special about this particular man

I wonder ooo

@Poster

Whoever told u he's not happy in his relationship, what's ur problem? Did he also tell you he took an oath not to leave the babe, tu fia kwa, shame de catch me abeg, no just ask dat kain question again for public, u hear?

@poster
Find something better to do

Babes, Do not snatch o! for what goes around comes around. If he truely loves and wants to be with you, he would come calling. Men always know what they want unlike us (very considerate and sentimental). Keep it kool and pray he comes your way.

@ Luxoire,

going by the poster, she says she's pretty sure the guy likes here - i'm not buying that till i hear it from the guy himself. people in love   _{who think they're in love} are like those in a drug-induced stupor, they be seeing stuff you and i don't - so it could all just be in her imagination.
trust me, i been on this guys end of this position b'4, 2ice 2 be precise - don't ask me what i did c'os i'm sure you won't believe me !

@RuuDie

hahahah, now u mention it, i wanna know, how did u handle it?

maybe she's going by what the guy actually told her?, it's true some girls begin to hallucinate when they r in love or infatuated, but she seems like she's got her feet on the ground, just a wrong move she was about to make thats all

luxoire:

maybe she's going by what the guy actually told her?, it's true some girls begin to hallucinate when they r in love or infatuated, but she seems like she's got her feet on the ground, just a wrong move she was about to make thats all

the only reason why it seems like she's still got both her feet on the ground is c'os she knows exactly what her problem is !
true, might be something that he'd said but maybe she just read a l'il too much into it !
you're darned right its a bad move !

luxoire:

@RuuDie
hahahah, now u mention it, i want to know, how did u handle it?

I did nothing - i told 'em i was already spoken for ! guess what i got for a reward