Dreadlock69:
in reverse

in reverse.

ubunja:
always make sure the woman is the one in love. That's Rule Number 1,2,3,4,5 up to 100. Never be in love yourself or you're screwed lol.

Right

Comedian Bill Burr is the most redpilled man I ever met. He had it all figured out. He even swore to never get married because it was an enslaving union.

Today he's married to an African American woman.

How's that redpill going?

Redpill is an ideology. Love is a human behavior programmed into our DNA by nature. Nature always wins in the face of ideology.

I'm redpilled, but I am a realist.

The main goal of redpill is to enlighten men about focusing on their goals instead of making women their goal as society has programed us to think. But it seems MGTOW disciples have infiltrated the redpill movement and started infusing their vapid laws into the redpill movement.

Redpill is not about hating or degrading women. Quite the contrary. It is about putting ourselves as men first and our goals, while women take the backseat and follow us. Redpilled guys actually like women.

Women are programmed to be followers of alpha males. Women despise beta males. Society has programmed men to be betas and hence women treat men like trash these days. Redpill is about programming men to take their original (alpha) positions in the society and family. While woman play their gender roles. Society has warped gender roles and that's why everything has gone to shyt.

Most guys on Nairaland are confusing redpill for MGTOW. They are 2 different things entirely.

Ubunja, remember I'm on your side. I enjoy your posts because they are original and often very true and proven. But I'm also a realist.

"make yourself the wrong man"

Akinbahm:


You deserve this for quoting everything

Lol.

Okay, for the first time I will say you tried

narrowpathy:
Mr Ubunja what happens when an ice cold gold digger and an aware gamed man who has mastered the art of wallet closing(and being chosen) meet but for some reason either one or both are in an emotional state?

I am curious to know what happens when
1. The male is in an emotional state but somehow manages to close his wallet
2. The female is in an emotional state but somehow manages to close legs.
3. The rare occurrence where they both are emotional but the stalemate in 1 and 2 occurs

the gold digger must know not to waste her time with him. She and the game aware man can hold that stalemate while time passes by, but time is something a woman simply doesn't have. Because a woman is a perishable product (her body has a short shelf life) she must always keep it moving at the slightest sign that things are not going anywhere with a man.

You see all that's written in this writeup is easy to achieve for any woman. Problem is women want to try it when they have expired. After 30 when they wanna settle down. A 30 Yr old gold digger and a 20 Yr old gold digger don't follow the same exact tactics. The older has to tweak it to compensate for her loss of Sexual Market Value. The younger a woman is, the stronger she'll be as a gold digger and the less she has to do anything because her youth is her greatest asset. Problem is, younger women are controlled by their pussy, wanting to experience the world and waste time on cute pretty boys when they can get established men ready to give them the world. By the time these women scope the game its too late, they have lost their looks, have become sex addicts, are baby mamas and generally hate men due to their dating history.

Any girl between 19 and 25 is at the prime age to secure the life she wants if she really wants to. Marrying rich men for their money is as viable a career path as getting a college degree is. But feminism has whispered to modern women's ear and they would rather slave 9-5 for a man for peanuts when they can marry that man and get access to his whole wealth. They say they want to make their own money so they won't have to listen to no man, but that 9-5 Monday to Friday January to December is them listening to a man and breaking their back doing his will. Lol.

It's a strange world.

Creeza:
use it to your advantage. No vetting until thou cumest to thy senses- Reverse gold diggin chapter 1 vs 1

The Book Of Reverse Gold Digging.
Lmfao. Seriously, that's a juicy title right there.

ubunja:
the gold digger must know not to waste her time with him. She and the game aware man can hold that stalemate while time passes by, but time is something a woman simply doesn't have. Because a woman is a perishable product (her body has a short shelf life) she must always keep it moving at the slightest sign that things are not going anywhere with a man.

You see all that's written in this writeup is easy to achieve for any woman. Problem is women want to try it when they have expired. After 30 when they wanna settle down. A 30 Yr old gold digger and a 20 Yr old gold digger don't follow the same exact tactics. The older has to tweak it to compensate for her loss of Sexual Market Value. The younger a woman is, the stronger she'll be as a gold digger and the less she has to do anything because her youth is her greatest asset. Problem is, younger women are controlled by their pussy, wanting to experience the world and waste time on cute pretty boys when they can get established men ready to give them the world. By the time these women scope the game its too late, they have lost their looks, have become sex addicts, are baby mamas and generally hate men due to their dating history.

Any girl between 19 and 25 is at the prime age to secure the life she wants if she really wants to. Marrying rich men for their money is as viable a career path as getting a college degree is. But feminism has whispered to modern women's ear and they would rather slave 9-5 for a man for peanuts when they can marry that man and get access to his whole wealth. They say they want to make their own money so they won't have to listen to no man, but that 9-5 Monday to Friday January to December is them listening to a man and breaking their back doing his will. Lol.

It's a strange world.

bro.. you deserve an award I swear

ubunja:
the gold digger must know not to waste her time with him. She and the game aware man can hold that stalemate while time passes by, but time is something a woman simply doesn't have. Because a woman is a perishable product (her body has a short shelf life) she must always keep it moving at the slightest sign that things are not going anywhere with a man.

You see all that's written in this writeup is easy to achieve for any woman. Problem is women want to try it when they have expired. After 30 when they wanna settle down. A 30 Yr old gold digger and a 20 Yr old gold digger don't follow the same exact tactics. The older has to tweak it to compensate for her loss of Sexual Market Value. The younger a woman is, the stronger she'll be as a gold digger and the less she has to do anything because her youth is her greatest asset. Problem is, younger women are controlled by their pussy, wanting to experience the world and waste time on cute pretty boys when they can get established men ready to give them the world. By the time these women scope the game its too late, they have lost their looks, have become sex addicts, are baby mamas and generally hate men due to their dating history.

Any girl between 19 and 25 is at the prime age to secure the life she wants if she really wants to. Marrying rich men for their money is as viable a career path as getting a college degree is. But feminism has whispered to modern women's ear and they would rather slave 9-5 for a man for peanuts when they can marry that man and get access to his whole wealth. They say they want to make their own money so they won't have to listen to no man, but that 9-5 Monday to Friday January to December is them listening to a man and breaking their back doing his will. Lol.

It's a strange world.

Wow. very insightful read. I'll have to read this two or three more times to digest it. Thanks

That aside Ubunja, for the sake of our sisters, mothers, female cousins and those women who love us but we can't be with for some reason, I really wish and hope blue pilled men never stop existing. lol. I know it sounds selfish but I've become less judgemental of simps over the past few months because they help to balance society in some way. They indirectly help the economy too. Long live to simps!!! Hehehe

ubunja:
failure will be when a woman disregards my words and wastes her time on you.

This writeup is for women to pick their target wisely. That's where you miss the point. ITS NOT ABOUT YOU.

Lol....That guy must be a simp, his type are the one who borrows money to impress woman. I have been there!

This post can only mean one thing. I now prefer to have more daughters than sons.

Need me some Simp Retirement Pension Fund

Nightsmoker:
Ubunja what you wrote doesnt apply to me, you failed here. If I chase a girl and she acts cold or indifferent I immediately drop her that moment, I only chase girls who shows quick interest in me.

I am the last man on earth that can ever be manipulated, right from my childhood I acted differently from the average human being.

It's because you are redpilled at heart...I was thinking same until I saw your comment. I no longer also fall into a woman's mind game. A redpilled man sees that manipulation from ahead...and he's most times logical, calm and a bit playful in his approach to woman...no emotional tingles and desperation. That's abundance mentality.
But he still has many points to be garnered from the piece though.....

Nightsmoker:

That means you are still a novice, it takes more than just reading books to become a redpill.
Its an inherited trait, if you lact it you simply lack it.

Lol. All these small small broke boiz sef

Redpill with empty pockets

Nightsmoker:

Am also a p1mp, its a big business you should try, Simps will do anything for puna

Lol. You are peddling women of low self esteem, easy virtue, and societal rejects and hence you think you're a redpilled guy.

Ode.

GregJo:
This post can only mean one thing. I now prefer to have more daughters than sons.

Need me some Simp Retirement Pension Fund

as I said almost a year ago...

ubunja:
I would rather have daughters though.

I have always loved girl children. Boys are just too much work. Even raising my daughter from birth was the best time of my life. I need more daughters.

Besides, daughters carry your genes no matter what. Sons just carry your name and can be conned into raising another man's child. No thanks.

As for family wealth? Doesn't matter. I raise all my daughters to be gold diggers.

BaddieFreak:
Okay, for the first time I will say you tried

Hi

ubunja:
The Book Of Reverse Gold Digging. Lmfao. Seriously, that's a juicy title right there.

IKR

Nightsmoker:

rich Niggas like us dont talk much about cash, I made over 1.8 million from p1mp business. Nigeria>>South Africa

Bruv, ain't trying to knock your hustle. Just do you fam. Big ups.

I just like to keep my hands clean due to the Karmic laws and karmic debts. I don't want to be paying debts in the future due to things I did today.

OGWILLS123:
chai boss am lying down to thank you. What i learned from you this night would have taken me years of experience and life time to know. Knowing all this things at the age of 18 is nothing but a mind blowing experience . thank you very much sir for laying my dating fundation, i will be mentioning you from time to time to seek for advice. once again thank you sir

You dont know what God has done for you, you will have been spending huge money on worthlessness

Nightsmoker:

Am also a p1mp, its a big business you should try, Simps will do anything for puna

Lol some men pay 1.2m in Lagos for 1minutes act

Creeza:
Shoot me, if I dont teach my daughter any of these!
Damn!! I feel so dumb right now.

Ubunja what planet you dropped from, you mudafucking-intelligent being?

Lol the guy brain is out of this world

Hassanmaye:

You dont know what God has done for you, you will have been spending huge money on worthlessness

I swear my bro

Hassanmaye:

Lol the guy brain is out of this world

obviously

CovenHighPriest:
Girls that tried writing female miseducations should be ashamed of themselves

as in they couldn't help their Gender

those girls are dull

Man... You are a blessing to this generation

Are you saying this is also the reason some marry wrong? I mean those guys that go on without sex till they get married. And after they are married and had thier first sex realize they were never in love?

Lower your voice man

Greatomotoy:

as in they couldn't help their Gender

those girls are dull

joshuamoses101:
Are you saying this is also the reason some marry wrong? I mean those guys that go on without sex till they get married. And after they are married and had thier first sex realize they were never in love?

yes sir. That's exactly what we're saying. As long as a guy hasn't fvcked it's a 50/50 thing. It may be love or it may be lust he's feeling. But gold diggers don't care because either way they get paid. Even if a guy divorces a gold digger she won't leave empty-handed.

Ubuja the great...
Nice piece of work...

ubunja:
How Cold Hearts Get Gold Diggers Paid.

Gold Diggers. Two words that invoke images of cold-hearted greed and manipulation. Yet rich men can't seem to get enough of these icy, empty, conniving creatures. Nice Girls have never been a hit with rich men.

As a woman it might be puzzling how an icy cold heart makes men bust open their bank accounts.

It all begins with understanding how men fall in love versus how women fall in love.

HOW MEN AND WOMEN FALL IN LOVE.
When a man starts dating a new woman, usually he's in conflict with his friends and he hates the advice they give him. Most of the times they're disapproving of his actions because most of the times he's acting dumb doing too much too soon for too little.

On the other hand, when a woman starts dating a new man, usually she's in harmony with her friends. They're all of one mind. The woman agrees with them, welcomes their advice and follows it.

Why do men and women start out so differently?

A man is roughly 80% logical and 20% emotional. A woman is about 80% emotional and 20% logical.

When a man is attracted to a woman and approaches her, he's in a rare EMOTIONAL STATE. His 20%. He's in his feelings and even his friends can't reason with him because he'll do anything, say anything and give anything to have her. He's thinking with his heart. That is why emotional him stays in conflict with his logical friends.

On the other hand, although women are emotional by default, the woman, when she's first approached by a man, he'll find her in a LOGICAL STATE (her 20%). Because at that point he's a nobody to her. She doesn't love him. She doesn't hate him. She's simply indifferent. AKA Logical. And because her friends are logical as her concerning her suitor, there's harmony in the girls camp.

Unlike in the guys camp.

And so the woman, with a cold pragmatic eye and reasoning logically, she closely scrutinizes her suitor's credentials, his financial state, his character and his friends. She's as logical and as calculating as a man considering a business deal.

THE GREAT SWITCH.
Now, as time goes and things progress, the man and the woman start to switch places...

Because the woman has sufficiently studied her new man, shared sensitive information, bonded with him through shared experiences like going on dates and trips, or even slept with him, she stops being indifferent (logical) and gradually gets into her feelings. Now what her friends and family have to say about the guy starts to clash with what she has to say. And she begins standing up for him when they badmouth him.

She's finally emotional and can no longer be reasoned with. This state she's in now, the man started out in.

Meanwhile, the man, because he has got what he wanted (sex), cooling his head and getting him back to his senses, the emotions that have controlled him all this time evaporate and he goes back to his old logical self. Now he's the one sober minded and thinking straight. This is when he'll start acting funny and ghost the woman.

This state he's in now, the woman started out in.

The man and the woman have switched places.

She who started out indifferent, is now in her feelings. And he who started out in his feelings is now indifferent.

THE GAME GETS COLDER AND COLDER.
Ever noticed this? A guy pursues you and you give him cold shoulder after cold shoulder, which ironically makes him pursue even harder. Then at some point, finally impressed and satisfied with his determination, you turn around and become kind to him. At which point he starts acting funny and pulls back!

What just happened??

You were supposed to stay cold that's what!

A Gold Digger, when she's finally satisfied with a man's determination - when she realizes he's sincere - instead of warming up to him and becoming soft and kind like other women do, she gets colder and colder. The man's determination inspires manipulation. He's so lost in emotions by the time he snaps out of it, he'll have paid mountains of bills, bought bags and bags of groceries, given accommodation, allowances, investments - and if the spell was particularly strong - bought even a car.

And the scam that scams him is a simple scam...

A gold digger DOES NOT ask for money. What she does is She presents a problem. If a man loves her enough, he offers a solution. By spending. Without being asked.

That's the standard method. And it works everytime. While protecting the gold digger.

By talking about her problems to a man the gold digger is dropping hints that she needs his help. Hints are preferred because men don't like to be asked for money. It's crucial that if and when a man decides to help with money, he imagines his offer originated within himself. He must not realize that the woman is infact asking for help otherwise he'll feel used and demand for something in return (sex).

How does this approach protect the gold digger?

You've heard this angry argument before, even in the movies:
Man: "Remember I did this, this and that for you! I did it all for you."
Woman: " But I didn't ask you to!"

Of course she didn't ask him to. Not directly anyway. What she did is she mentioned a problem a few times, she spoke about her situation a couple of times, which put the idea in the man's head to help. By spending. But the idea was put in such a way that it can't be traced back to the woman. That's why she can confidently say, "Did I ask you to do those things for me?" And the man can't answer.

It works everytime.

When a gold digger voices her struggles and a man offers his help, she, to strengthen the man's belief that his offer to help is self motivated, she will flat out refuse his help - Waiting for him TO BEG HER TO ACCEPT HIS HELP. It's a mind trick that allows her to gauge the strength of his love by how strongly he'll insist and press his offer on her. If he doesn't insist and force her to accept his help but instead feels relieved his offer has been declined and he gets to keep his money HE'S THE WRONG TARGET. He doesn't prioritize her happiness high enough. Moving forward getting anything from him will always be a chore.
A Gold Digger needs men so keen on seeing her happy that they put money in her hand by force to solve her problems.

Guys know what I'm talking about here.

Almost every guy has that one girl he cared about so much he personally put money in her purse by force even after she turned it down. That's exactly what gold diggers are aiming for. But with rich men.

If a gold digger speaks about a problem a couple of times but a man ignores and doesn't offer his help, she doesn't beg, cry or put a gun to his head. He's the wrong target. She quietly moves on to the next man.

When Gold Diggers fail to achieve with a man, they know it just means one thing: "It's not that they're asking for too much, THEY'RE ASKING FROM THE WRONG PERSON."

Gold digging is NOT the ability to scam every man but the ability to pick that One Man who can't say NO to you. It's not about begging men for things but finding that man you don't have to beg for anything - because there's nothing he won't do for you.

ALL women do this. But gold diggers do it on a grand scale.

The average girl knows that if she complains long enough to a guy about her old phone and how its cracked screen makes it hard for her to read his messages, IF THE GUY LIKES HER ENOUGH, he'll offer and get her a new phone. It's a common scam. By a common girl.

Gold Diggers run massive scams.

A gold digger tells a man she hasn't fvcked yet that she can't invite him where she stays because she's sharing a flat with two friends and there's no privacy. To which he assumes she's ready for sex, so he tells her to look for a place of her own. To which she tells him she's broke. To which she tells her not to worry. A month later she tells him she's found a nice apartment. To which he makes the bank transfers for the rent. To which she tells him she can't move in because it's just empty rooms. To which he again makes the bank transfers for the furniture.

Now here's the scam:

The apartment already belonged to the WOMAN, so deposit and rent money goes straight to her pocket. The furniture bought is bought at inflated prices, so money goes straight to her pocket. Some of the property bought is secretly resold, so money goes straight to her pocket. Some of those items bought at normal prices are taken back for cash refunds - without the man's knowledge, so money once more goes straight to her pocket. Now the woman has a flat full of furniture. And pockets full of money. But not a single drop of sperm in her pussy.

Such is how a man's bank accounts are emptied. Without showing him even a panty.

It doesn't matter if he's seeing other women's panties, the gold digger with her legs closed always wins. Because of one little-known fact: a man can fvck 10 women but he can love only 1. While a woman can love 10 men but she can only fvck 1.

This is the center core of male-female sexual dynamics. Everything revolves around this little-known truth >>>Women open legs, Men open hearts.

It's not about who a man fvcks, it's about who he loves. And it's not about who a woman loves, it's about who she fvcks. A man's dick any woman can have, even hoes. And a woman's heart any man can have, even a simp in her DMs. It doesn't matter who, where, how, a man is fvcking; to win his heart all you have to do is spend his money. Because his heart follows his money.

NOW, THE MORE COLD-HEARTED AND RUTHLESS A GOLD DIGGER IS in emptying a man's bank accounts, while he's blinded by emotions willing to do anything and everything for her, the stronger will be her grip on him when he finally snaps out of it and comes to his senses - He can't trivially toss her to the side because he has spent too much on her. It will be in his best interest to make sure the relationship works out. With or without sex.

AS REFRESHING AS AN ICE COLD HEART.
Here's the summary of what we're saying: You get a man irreversibly invested in you while he's hopelessly smitten with you (and while you're still cold before you feel anything for him), so that by the time you yourself fall hopelessly in love with him (which coincidentally will be when he starts going cold on you), he can't play you because he's bound to you through his investment in you.

MEN FALL IN LOVE BY BEING LOGICAL.
Men are logical in nature. But when a man sees a woman, he's drawn to her by what he sees and how that makes him feel, which makes him emotional in that he's acting by his feelings. A man will see a woman for the very first time and shout "That's my wife right there!", genuinely believing he's in love. But what he's really experiencing is a rush of feelings and emotions that he's incorrectly decoding.

This rush of feelings and emotions is not a man's natural state. It is a temporary state. And his weakest state.

When that temporary/emotional state passes - usually after sex - what remains AFTER, in the man's head, when he becomes logical again, is what determines if he's in love or not.

A man's shift from being emotional to being logical again is best understood in the context of something called Post Nut Clarity, where a man does not know if he's in lust or in love with a woman until he sleeps with her. Men are emotionally clouded until sex which clarifies their emotions for them. MEN KNOW IF THEY LOVE A WOMAN BY HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT HER AFTER FVCKING HER.

Whatever a man might say about loving you, there's a 50% chance sex will prove HIM wrong. A guy can honestly believe he loves you, but toss you aside after sex. Not because he's a Player. But he was feeling this rush of feelings and emotions but which turned out to be lust. Sex clarified this for him.

Post Nut Clarity is a man getting back to his logical state after starting out in his emotions. Any scam or manipulation to get to his money must happen BEFORE this clarity. Before sex. It is before sex that a man's logic is disconnected. Sex reconnects his logic.

Because of Post Nut Clarity if a man gives you, let's say a phone for sex, one second after ejaculation he's already regretting his own stupidity in giving you that phone and he's wishing to take it back. He has come to his senses. Any man who has ever fvcked a prostitute knows that the minute you climax is the minute you regret wasting your money paying for sex. This is also why guys promise women money for sex but after sex guys change their mind and refuse to give women the money. Sex gets men back to their right senses.

But it's the opposite for women.

Women have PRE NUT CLARITY.

As opposed to men's Post Nut Clarity.

Where men get clearheaded AFTER the sex, women are clearheaded BEFORE the sex.

In dating, because it's the man who usually pursues women, women start out cold and indifferent and have a full understanding of their feelings about him - that is, UNTIL SEX HAPPENS and suddenly they're not so sure.

A woman can read her own emotions clearly as day as long as she keeps her legs closed. But the minute she opens her legs, her mind becomes clouded because emotions have poisoned her judgment: "Does she love this guy or is it just good sex?"

All this means: A woman may hate a man before sex only to like him after sex. While a man may like a woman before sex but hate her after sex.

It also means:

Sex simplifies things with a man.
Sex complicates things with a woman.

Sex pushes a man away.
Sex pulls a woman closer.

Sex makes a man logical.
Sex makes a woman emotional.

And because manipulation works best when a victim/target is emotional since then they're not thinking straight, a man is easiest to manipulate BEFORE sex. While a woman is easiest to manipulate AFTER sex. Which is why gold diggers stay celibate. It keeps men emotional while they themselves stay logical.

When it comes to sex, men are easy. They'll sleep with anything. But when it comes to commitment they're extremely choosy. Because then they're logical. Who men fvck is an emotional decision but who they marry is a logical decision.
When a man commits for marriage, that decision comes from a calm, quiet and sober place. A cold place. The same cold place his business decisions come from. And that place a man only enters after the excitement of emotions have passed and he has cooled down.

When a woman rains pussy on a man - overdosing him with sex - it's the harder she makes it for him to make a decision about their future because his logic has not engaged. The big head will not engage until the small head disengages. Small head handles the small decisions (sex). Big head handles the big decisions (marriage). That's why it's when a woman finally closes her legs, cuts off the sex and sometimes moves away temporarily or even temporarily breaks up with him, that a man will propose. Because the handover-takeover between dick and brain gets a chance to happen.

Sex will get you nowhere with men. You can put your panties back on. Because you're only hurting yourself trying to use sex to gain marriage.

YOU'RE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF TRYING TO USE SEX TO GAIN MARRIAGE.
When a woman opens her legs for a man, she opens her mind to that man. By taking her panties off, she's putting a gun to her own head. Because sex, for women, triggers the release of very powerful hormones in their brain which have a very specific job: to bond the woman with her sexual partner. These hormones are called bonding hormones. Think of them as super glue. And oxytocin is the strongest of them.

If sex is a gun, oxytocin is the bullet. And its the WOMAN HERSELF who takes this bullet in the brain. Oxytocin is dangerous because it awakens something peacefully sleeping inside a woman's mind: Love. And when a woman's love is awakened by sex with the wrong man at the wrong time, then the woman has hurt herself.

Song of Solomon 8:4 "I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that ye stir not up, nor awaken love, until it please."

AWAKENING LOVE BEFORE THE TIME.
When a man approaches a woman he's in his feelings. But the woman is indifferent/logical because at that stage the guy is but some random guy she just met. She's indifferent. Logical. But as the woman gets to know the guy she starts getting emotionally attached.

And it's easy to see that change happen:

At the beginning (the indifferent/logical stage), a woman is calculating and inquisitive because SHE'S SEARCHING FOR REASONS TO DISQUALIFY THE GUY. So it's always complaints: "he's a bad dresser", "he's not very good looking", "his house is not big enough", "his car is too old", "his job is not that great".

And her friends agree.

Then a few weeks or months later the complaints cease. And when her friends attack the man, the woman now comes out DEFENDING HIM and MAKING EXCUSES for him: "He's not that bad though", "He's a good guy once you get to know him", "he's been through a lot", "you guys don't know him like I do"...

What has changed?

The woman.

By getting to know the guy the woman has become attached. She has shifted from indifferent to caring. And most of the time it's because she has slept with the guy. Love is a game that women lose the moment they catch dick.

Women need to hold off sex with a new man for as long as possible - not to prove his love - but because the longer a woman waits on sex the longer she stays logical and rational, and able to keep her head in the Game. To properly strategize and play to win.

Sex gets women emotional, and sex before the right time (Premature Sex) gets women emotional BEFORE THE RIGHT TIME. And when a woman gets emotional before the right time, she'll be scoring own goals till infinity.

Premature Sex - sex before a woman has fully vetted a man - is dangerous for women because it cuts short the woman's process of correctly scrutinizing a man by moving her too soon from being Objective (unbiased and realistic because she's not attached) to being Subjective (biased and idealistic because she's now attached after sleeping with the guy). That all-important work of properly studying a man and gathering all the facts about him, to make an informed decision whether to accept or reject him, is canceled the moment sex happens.

Sex must only happen after this process completes. If sex happens BEFORE the process completes then that whole process - that entire fact finding mission - gets aborted. That sex is called Premature Sex.

Premature Sex is how women get stuck in relationships with broke men, abusive men and unproductive men.

The heart got involved before the head completed its work. The women shot themselves in the head. Shot themselves in the head with their own pussy.

Legs must remain closed. Because as long as a man's dick stays in his pants he stays emotional and dumb. While you stay logical and smart.


Happy 2021.

Kickass...