Mobola Sadiq

Actress, Halima Abubakar, is of the opinion that a man should never have sex with his partner without her consent.

Speaking in an interview with Saturday Beats, she said, “There have been reports that some homes broke up because of sex but I am sorry to say this, some people are limited in their sexual expression because of religion. Some women just lie down there (during sex) because they are scared of expressing themselves. But, men can encourage their women to be more expressive, without using abusive languages.

“Also, if the woman is not in the mood, her wishes should be respected. There are other things, aside from sex, that a man should concern himself with. I consider it a turn off for a man to like sex too much. I feel some men are insatiable (sexually). Some people have said that when one is legally married, there is nothing like rape. But, I don’t agree with that. Any sex that is not consensual is rape. The woman could even get injured in the process. Would we still call that pleasure? One’s husband should not forcefully have sex with one. I am not saying a man should not have sex, but he should control his appetite for it so that it doesn’t lead to his destruction. I feel the wife can report this kind of case if she cannot talk to the husband, but should go to the family first. If he does not change, then she should take it to the authorities.”

Abubakar also advocated for castration as the ideal punishment for rapists. She added, “Any rapist caught should be castrated because rape is a pandemic just like COVID-19. Many people do not seem to know the extent to which rape damages victims psychologically. People have to take responsibility for their behaviours. I know a lady that eventually died after being raped. She went through hell. I also know a man who tried something with a neighbour’s child but thankfully, he did not succeed. Because of that, I don’t talk to him till date. Rapists should be castrated. When it is done to some of them, others will learn how to control themselves or get married.”

https://punchng.com/sex-without-consent-in-marriage-is-rape-halima-abubakar/

Arrrrrrrh

She could be right.

Me personally I don't pray for high libido rather should my wife be one. Boys and girls increase their libido through sexual immorality, porn and others. The moment they marry, thier partner can't operate in thier 'atmospheric pressure' it becomes a problem. Some times I wounder how our older parents manage this part of a marriage that this young age can't. The truth is sex generally is over rated.

An average libido in marriage is the best. But, if the husband is high and the wife is low the moment she said 'am not in the mood' he might rape her even though it's not right to term it as 'rape' because he feels he's entitled to her body in a forceful manner which is wrong.

StacyO will say "Marry a person who sexometer is parallel to yours".
Sexometer


Modified,
The people below me are relating this with 'provision of food'. The apex of all is, people rush into marriage without planning how things would go. If you plan well in a dialogue I bet the problem we hear from married people would be less.

You don't pray for an understanding partners, No! All the want is a rich man, with six packs, tall and others for the guys a curvy girl, with banging body, she's beautiful. am not sayin it's bad but [b] they neglate the main things and face the frivolities things. Tell me why won't they face problem?

Hehehehe...
True..
But when he refuse to bring money for food don't drag him o

As in: You also has vividly, willingly and deliberately put your self/back down for rapist days and years back be that.

See who dey talk

So what should now be the punishment for Nollywood actresses that uses juju to destroy other people's marriage all in the name of securing the bag

When a man refuses his wife sex, it's called emotional torture. What have we done to you women? If you're not ok with your marriage, why not get separated.

We men also should be allowed to be in the mood to lay down money for home care.

Any woman demanding and threatening us to give money without our consent is a financial rapist.

Let us all be mad together

Touching your husband in any form in marriage without his consent is attempted rape

"we run the the world..girls"...beyonce is happily married.her naija counterparts still dey busy,dey find fault from men.and how consent or no consent in marriage na rape..make una grow up abeg.if u're sexually connected and attached to ur husband.anytime in body touch ur own.u must sexually submit..unless u're in love with another,sexually.

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv




Said by Halima that drafted the constitution ...
All this useless pained feminist wannabe..
Clown.

Today's motivational speakers talk before they think, that's why a lot of people go into lion zoo today with confidence and never come back, all because of the motivational speeches they have followed

arkonpoint:
When a man refuses his wife sex, it's called emotional torture. What have we done to you women? If you're not ok with your marriage, why not get separated.

An average African lady sees a man as a means to achieve all her aims and to destroy him...
I don't blame ladies, I blame a lot of guys that cannot do without them...

Then to avoid raping the hell out of you, you better consent. Simple.

I can't be feeding, protecting and providing your every need, then you'll deprive me of the blessings of God.

Women who deprive their husbands of the blessings of God are naturally evil and wicked.

Le124:
Mobola Sadiq

Actress, Halima Abubakar, is of the opinion that a man should never have sex with his partner without her consent.

Speaking in an interview with Saturday Beats, she said, “There have been reports that some homes broke up because of sex but I am sorry to say this, some people are limited in their sexual expression because of religion. Some women just lie down there (during sex) because they are scared of expressing themselves. But, men can encourage their women to be more expressive, without using abusive languages.

“Also, if the woman is not in the mood, her wishes should be respected. There are other things, aside from sex, that a man should concern himself with. I consider it a turn off for a man to like sex too much. I feel some men are insatiable (sexually). Some people have said that when one is legally married, there is nothing like rape. But, I don’t agree with that. Any sex that is not consensual is rape. The woman could even get injured in the process. Would we still call that pleasure? One’s husband should not forcefully have sex with one. I am not saying a man should not have sex, but he should control his appetite for it so that it doesn’t lead to his destruction. I feel the wife can report this kind of case if she cannot talk to the husband, but should go to the family first. If he does not change, then she should take it to the authorities.”

Abubakar also advocated for castration as the ideal punishment for rapists. She added, “Any rapist caught should be castrated because rape is a pandemic just like COVID-19. Many people do not seem to know the extent to which rape damages victims psychologically. People have to take responsibility for their behaviours. I know a lady that eventually died after being raped. She went through hell. I also know a man who tried something with a neighbour’s child but thankfully, he did not succeed. Because of that, I don’t talk to him till date. Rapists should be castrated. When it is done to some of them, others will learn how to control themselves or get married.”

https://punchng.com/sex-without-consent-in-marriage-is-rape-halima-abubakar/

Our fore fathers managed issue of rape in marriage successfully through marrying more than one wife

A man with four wives won't force any when there are other 3 women, they never reduce or control their sexual appetite rather they fill it to satisfaction nowadays a man with one woman ..woman who is mostly not in the mood for sex will always cause issue

#ILMOVON #Attitude#BlivSaid by Halima that drafted the constitution ...All this useless pained feminist wannabe..Clown.