Slynation:
it still boils down to one thing.... it's all about the money!!

Michelle55:

Which money?

Slynation:
Lol.... didn't you read where she started her baby daddy doesn't bring much to the table, and the other Alhaji is way more richer and handsome

Michelle55:

But why bring a child to this world if you ain't ready to shoulder your responsibility as a father

Ishilove:
I noticed you mentioned his incredible good looks up to three times in one paragraph or so. Are you sure you are not swayed by his outward appearance? Sometimes the grass is not always greener on the other side.

pocohantas:


Hahahaha...

Ishilove:

Abi na. The tin is one kain

pocohantas:


Abeg ignore all these new accounts and their plenty stories.

Michelle55:
Don't change religion because of anyone, if you must do it, then let it be based on your own accord.

True love knows no religion or color, if the doctor truly loves you he should let you follow your heart and when you're convinced about the faith you wish to follow, he should support you.

I don't do conditional affairs!

WhiteIverson:
The real question is are you sure you want to marry the doctor or become his baby mama?

Slynation:
You will have to ask those men o, as for me, I even need a Son

Cadburyy:



Thanks Hathor5 , I'll try your advice.

Ishilove:
I noticed you mentioned his incredible good looks up to three times in one paragraph or so. Are you sure you are not swayed by his outward appearance? Sometimes the grass is not always greener on the other side.

Cadburyy:
There's something that has been bothering me for a while.

I'm domiciled in a foreign country but I maintain a sound relationship with my parents at home . I keep them updated on everything that happens in my life and even that of their granddaughter. That's how great my relationship remains with my mother.

I work hard to support my home but my baby father does not bring enough to the table like I do even though he earns a little higher than I earn. He spends on alcohol , drugs and women. When I complain about his bad behavior, he leaves home and says I nag a lot. When he returns after days away from home, he tells me I forced myself on him and he didn't really want us to be together.

There's this very handsome medical doctor working at the hospital where I am employed. He started confessing his love for me late last year. He's taller, more handsome and way richer than my current partner (my baby daddy) but the only thing is that he's a Muslim.

He told me he's a traditional Muslim and wouldn't compel me to become one. He also assures me he will not even have a relationship with another woman, that is, polygamy is totally ruled out. I have dedicated my time to learn about Muslims recently and I think I've made up my mind to give him the chance to love me the way he wants. My daughter relates well with her "soon to be step-dad".

The problem here is not even my baby father since I can discard him whenever I want. The problem is my mother who is a devout christian from the South East. She will feel bad if I tell her about my relationship with the handsome Muslim doctor.

Do I accept the Doctor's proposal without informing my mother. If you think I should inform her, how do I tell my mother without making her panic?

pocohantas:


Abeg ignore all these new accounts and their plenty stories.

Richy4:


That bold go just clear for your eyessss later... when u born pickin, which religion them go follow? If u argue with am over that, he go bring a proper devoted same religion lady join body... unlike u they will brand as an infidel...
I decided to use broken English because you were about to start this brand new year with a handsome mistake.. He was thinking with his pleasure pole while telling u all that. Those statements were what u wanted to hear.. Please slow down

ethicallyright:
I keep telling young men that "no woman on earth loves you apart from your mother".

That's enough wisdom to help you grow in life.

The Nigerian American above would not be leaving her baby daddy because he's all the things she said- a deadbeat Father.

If she was leaving her baby daddy because he was a drunk , gambler or womanizer, then she wouldn't have carried his daughter for 9 months.

Those addictions are not just developed in few months. In fact, spending a week under the roof of a person addicted to any of those is enough to know whether to have a baby for that person or not.

You had a baby for a man because you thought the man would " bring all his earnings to the table " so that you can control it.

When the man did not turn out to be a simp as you anticipated, you started calling him names and cheating emotionally with another man.

Do your baby daddy the favor of living him alone , maybe he will find a good woman. I only pity the rich handsome doctor who will have to deal with a single mother's troubles and that of a leech packaged in one body.

If you believe in God, pray every morning and night that you don't give birth to daughters like Cadburyy who will disgrace you because of money.